I am so hurt

[renerian]

I belong to three clubs and this forum. Someone sent me a nasty email from one of those places. This person acused me of not being an RN which I take offense to. I paid my student loans for four year believe me I am an RN. This person called me a liar and other names. Yes I have been offered and accepted several jobs in the past two months and YES those places were really screwed up. I do not want to risk my license doing things that are either illegal, immoral or unethical. If you think companies are not operating out there like that you are sadly mistaken. I come to this board for support and to GIVE Support. Right now I am mentoring 5 students trying to help them grow as professionals. I open my heart to this group and someone has the nerve to write me, not sign their name and tell me people in the group are talking about me behind my back. I don't get it. Nurses do eat their young. I am not young either by the way LOL. This persons email addy is as follows:

[email protected]

Brian is this true? Do you think this note came from here? I would like to talk with this person to resolve his or her hostility....

renerian

and yes my real name is susan

[BadBird, BSN, RN]

Renerian,

It sounds to me like someone is jelous of you and your success. It does not sound like a mature person who would write such hate e-mail. I know you feel bad and I wish I had some words to take away your pain, just remember success is the best revenge, you are a RN, you will find a job that you love and whomever wrote that will probably be a miserable bytch their entire lives.

[jnette, ASN, EMT-I]

Originally posted by ceecel.dee

Small people are somehow made to feel bigger and better by trying to diminish the bigger and better ones. You are one of those, from where I sit. Don't you let them scare you off!

And you little girls out there talking behind backs...is there something you want to share with the group? If not, keep it to yourself!

DITTO !!!

Yes, it's sad, it's shameful. But Susan, consider the source.. even without a name or face, the source tells all in her/his actions. I'm sorry you are hurting over this. Don't allow it to control you or consume you. This person's remarks and inciting ways is not worth your energy. YOU know better.. that's all that matters ! :kiss

[Stargazer]

Personally, I would forward the entire post, including the header, to AOL (probably [email protected], but check to be sure.)

ISP's can and will warn or ban members who use their servers to cyber-harass other people.

I always enjoy your posts, renerian. Ignore this pathetic lame-ass; clearly s/he holds a minority opinion around here.

[SmilingBluEyes]

Ren, dont' sweat it; whoever wrote has more issues than we do. And is to be pitied. Report it and then block the addy. Then forget about it. You KNOW you are better than that!

[renerian, BSN, RN]

Thank you so much everyone.......I did not think of reporting it. I did save it in a file so maybe I will do that. AGain thanks all of you for taking time out of your busy day to respond and care about me.......

a cyber hug to you all,

renerian

[SmilingBluEyes]

We DO care! Take care, now and fuggedaboudit as they say in Sopranoland.

[renerian, BSN, RN]

Thanks Debbie!!!!!!!!

renerian

[AlaskanRN]

Ren...anyone that has been here for even a short while knows better...ignore the ignorant......

btw...not to show my age...but i fondly remember my cecil...and beany puppets...lol

[renerian, BSN, RN]

Alaskan RN you remember cecil.........I think it was ceceel or cecil.......not sure. LOL......thanks for caring to respond........all of you have been so kind.........................

renerian

[OBNURSEHEATHER]

Well, my opinion is that anyone who makes such bogus claims and types such harch remarks, yet does not have the balls to sign their name to it, is nothing more than a coward.

If they weren't so intimidated by you or worried about what you though of them, they would stand behind their thoughts.

I've never been accused of being the nicest person here, and my thoughts aren't always popular, but I put my name and my face with everything I say. More than I can say for the idiot that is emailing you Susan.

I'm sorry this is happening to you. Perhaps in a few weeks we'll all laugh over cake at this simple minded fool. :chuckle

Heather

[spineCNOR]

Ren, I am truly sorry this happened to you--there are jerks everywhere, sad to say. Please don't let this experience make you lose sight of the fact that there are many truly good people in the world.

And your assignment is-right now!- to think of a good, decent, caring person you know-this may help to keep things in perspective.

Peace,

CC

[l.rae]

Ren....mean ppl pizz me off....then l remember what kind of jerk l am wasting my time over.....life holds beauty and is short....so please tace spinecor's advice and be good to yourself.....take care.......LR