How to Work Your Notice, Gracefully

Often we move jobs because we really dislike the job, management or co-workers. We rarely leave a job we enjoy, working the required notice can be a chore we don't want to do, and sometimes we behave badly. How we manage ourselves during the notice period can be a positive or a negative experience, which could have long term consequences. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

So you have decided to leave your current job, you've had enough of working hard, no teamwork, you don't like your boss, co-worker, management, the drive is too long, the acuity is too high, you never get a break and you hate bedside nursing. Yes there are numerous reasons why you want to leave and get a new job, I could go on for pages for the reasons nurses are leaving their job but this article is about how to manage yourself while you are working out your notice.

Whatever the reason I personally believe there is a way to give your notice in and leave gracefully. Don't shut the door behind you, leave it ajar. Trust me you just never know if you might need to go back, or how your reputation could follow you.

Do not let your work slide during your notice period, make sure you maintain your high standards and do not slack off. Hold your head high no matter what the circumstances are that caused you to leave your job in the first place. Remember you are still being paid to do your job, and it is no excuse to say 'it's not my problem, I'm leaving'

Employers will be contacted for references; most HR departments will only provide dates of employment and will not get involved with lengthy discussions, however they are allowed to answer No when asked if they would rehire. This one word speaks volumes, sometimes new employers will take their time obtaining references, so how you behave in your notice period could have a devastating effect.

Make sure you give the required amount of time as specified by HR, this can be anywhere from 2-4 weeks depending on your position. Inform your manager as soon as you can, so they can prepare for the inevitable. Schedules may need to be changed, they appreciate as much advanced notice as possible. Put your notice in writing, giving your last working day. Keep it simple and to the point, you do not have to give a reason for leaving.

If they allow you, sign on PRN which will let you keep that foot in the door!

No matter how much you hate your job, work your notice! you should not just walk out without working the required notice. People talk and talk follows, you would be surprised how small the HR community is within healthcare and heads up is often given. I often read on allnurses.com that RNs hate their job so much that they walk out without notice which is just not professional.

Do not under any circumstances 'bad mouth' your current employer, it is not tasteful and causes concerns that you do not have loyalty. It is suffice to say that it wasn't the job for you and you are moving on because you want new opportunities. Be professional at all times, I know you will want to run through the halls singing and shouting at the top of your voice about the news of your new job, but try some restraint.

Be positive during your notice period, the weeks will soon count down and before you know it you will be heading through the door for the last time. You have choices; you can either slam the door shut or gently pull the door to, allowing it to creep open if you need it.

Do not commit professional suicide by being miserable, and informing all and sundry how you have to wait for weeks before you can leave, be upbeat and cheerful. I cannot tell you how many people I have worked with who begrudge working their notice and let everybody know that they don't want to be there. There is often huge sigh of relief when they do go, which is a poor reflection on that person. Being resentful has such negative connotations especially with your co-workers who chose to stay

Think before you slam, your current position may be not what you want but you have a long career road in front of you, life tends to be full of twists and turns so you can never say never!

As I think, whether you hate a job or loved it and have or need to go, leave on good terms best. Dont be too sorry to be leaving that you place your self in a position doing extra than you need to like taking extra work days, and taking peoples loads of work, and dont be too happy that you can literally tell everyone to kiss your ass. if it is a "kiss my ass" situation, say it in your head with a smile on your face. But all due, it's not necessary to leave grudges in that you never know when your new or future new jobs may require some contact with the job you are leaving./ Be consistent and leave on a good note. you'll be better off that way.

...and i will be in a kiss my ass situation soon, but I ''ll do better because I know better. and leave a good terms. simple. lol.

Specializes in RN.

I have 1 week left at my facility and my aim is and has been to leave gracefully. I have been treated well, but even if I hadn't been I can only control my behavior, and it's easier to sleep at night that way. I am however, wondering how to respond to the EXIT interview. I would like to be truthful b/c there are issues that really should be resolved...

ie; lame NM- no follow up on serious concerns re: pt safety/med admin, low moral on the unit d/t habitual offenders (calling in, leaving responsibilities undone) not being reprimanded for not caring enough to correct their behavior,

Basic disregard for co-workers by lame/lazy nurses who are forever pushing responsibilities onto the next shift, small facility drama (unreal the amount of drama that is "created" and not even real)

So I will focus on how the job has been a good thing for me, which it has. I am leaving Med/surg for my first job in E.D.

My aim is to keep the door open for ME. Hopefully this foolish activity will not be part of my next job.

I have a mixed reaction to this post.

I left my first nursing job on good terms, filled out my notice happily and thanked HR for the oppurtunity and did everything right. But was leaving bc I had what I thought was my dream job waiting for me. So when I found out it wasn't, were 8 months later, they accpted me back with open arms.

My 2nd job, the one I left for, was a horrible exp I will never forget and would leave nrsg and eat dog food before working for them again. I gave my 2 wks after 6 months. I gave it my all, even stayed over completeing my work 45 mins after my shift on my last day. Did me no goood! I went on 5 interviews before having too crawl back to first job. I don't know what HR said or did, but I have my suspicions, bc how would I know what there saying?

So basically I'm saying the article is right, but it still may or may not do you any good.

Certainly, there are not guarantees, but it pays to do what you can to put the odds in your favor, as you say.

The majority of people will not chose to do what is wrong unless you give them a plausible reason. Leaving with a lousy attitude and poor performance in the notice period can be that reason.

Some people will incline to do what is wrong, unless you make it hard for them to. Following the advice of the article does make it harder to justify dumping on someone who's been a good nurse right up thru the last shift.

Specializes in Operating Room.

I wouldn't do an exit interview. They sound like a great idea on paper but I believe it actually can come back to bite you in the butt too. Remember, HR is not your friend.

Specializes in RN, BSN, CHDN.

You would be surprised at how much HR knows, a lot more than we credit them for. Re the exit interview always a difficult one and I havent got a lot of advice on how to manage them. It has been my experience that they don't always do one when a place is awful, I sometimes think they do not want to know or they dont want to hear about it! Either way I would go with my gut!

I have 1 week left at my facility and my aim is and has been to leave gracefully. I have been treated well, but even if I hadn't been I can only control my behavior, and it's easier to sleep at night that way. I am however, wondering how to respond to the EXIT interview. I would like to be truthful b/c there are issues that really should be resolved...

ie; lame NM- no follow up on serious concerns re: pt safety/med admin, low moral on the unit d/t habitual offenders (calling in, leaving responsibilities undone) not being reprimanded for not caring enough to correct their behavior,

Basic disregard for co-workers by lame/lazy nurses who are forever pushing responsibilities onto the next shift, small facility drama (unreal the amount of drama that is "created" and not even real)

So I will focus on how the job has been a good thing for me, which it has. I am leaving Med/surg for my first job in E.D.

My aim is to keep the door open for ME. Hopefully this foolish activity will not be part of my next job.

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.

It's always better to leave on good terms than on bad . . . and our own behavior will often decide which it is. There are plenty of times when it's tempting to take the low road, but that can come back and bite you in the butt when you least expect it.

Good article and good advice.

Specializes in LTC (LPN-RN).

I don't believe that at all. HR it seems does not know enough. Nurses b*tch and complain to eachother more than going to management.

Specializes in Emergency.

I would like to remind people to resign with caution.

You should be prepared to be without employment for the notice you give. I recently gave my job the required 15 day notice so I would not be considered a "do not rehire" and to do the right thing by my management and co-workers. I was told by my manager not to come back to work for those 15 days. I had worked my last shift. I was shocked. I had no problems at my job before giving notice. I loved everyone I worked with and had a great relationship with management...or so I thought. I only left because my dream job had come up and I had to move for the opportunity. I was planning on helping to precept someone to take my position if needed but instead I ended up without a paycheck and no money until my first check from the new job came. It was a hard month. I was in no way ready for them to end it that way. I guess it had upset them that I was quitting and this was the only way they could "punish" me. I know I did the right thing by giving proper notice, and I suggest you all do the same, just a word of caution to be prepared for the chance that you may need to have something saved up until your next check after giving notice. I don't want others to be trying to move (which is always expensive) with no pay coming in. I never saw it coming...

AntMarching, your post reminded me of my first manager so I'd like to share a story about how not all departures are horrific.

When I left, she gave recommendations that were so flattering (apparently) that recruiters called me back breathless. I'm not saying I was that amazing, my manager was. Then, since I had stupidly moved to another state without having actually secured a job first, she paid out my vacation for the next two weeks AFTER I HAD MOVED. Bless her heart.

Specializes in LTC (LPN-RN).

Your story reminds me we are not as big a deal as we think we are in nursing. I work for a facility that was in IJ and they were hiring and DNR-ing people left and right even though they needed the staff. Your story is a first for me. glad you had another job lined up.

Specializes in ED, Critical Care.

I left my last RN (ED) job this past December. I typed up a resignation, giving 2 weeks, went in handed it to the manager and explained the situation, partially.

Part one was true, My present job was going through "budget cuts" I work county government, and my division is union. Long story, short, county violated the contract, we won and got our hours and back pay for a year. I took the nursing job because I wasn't sure if lay offs were next. With my normal hours and rate of pay, I am making more than I was at that particular hospital ED, and when you factor over an hours drive 2 ways.

Part Two - and maybe I was just paranoid! I just had a strange feeling I was going to get canned after orientation/probation?? Yeah I know silly, but it was the weirdest feeling. So I resigned.

Anyway, I'm way off track!:D I explained the situation to the manager, she took it to the dept. director, and he called me in to his office and I explained again. He seemed pretty cool with it and asked if I had problem with today being my last day. Day of resignation and not 2 weeks later. He stated something about end of year budget and it would help him? Who knows, what could I say, I demand to work 2 weeks! :laugh:

He said I could reapply at any time and there would be no issue. I doubt I would unless I had no option, the pay was low for RN and the drive was long.

Specializes in LTC (LPN-RN).

@pp How long were you working there? They do that sometimes when you are not there long.