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Hi All.....I know this is not a nursing question or a medical one either, but I do need some help, so if any of you can assist me, I will be extremely gratefull ! I have colored my hair for 25 years now. (dark brown).
Suddenly I have become allergic to the dyes and my skin/scalp gets red and blistered:madface:. So I have to stop with the chemicals on my hair. Now the problem is how do I "go gray gracefully" ? I do not want to look like a skunk with the white roots and the rest brown.... I am stressing over this, yet I am resolving to just go natural and stop being a slave to the bottle !
Any help would be appreciated. Oh... I am 50 ish.
LPN 90
I have the exact oppositie problem lol. I am getting very grey especially in the front. Went out and bought some colour and had no clue what to buy so there it sits in the cupboard untouched. It is the wash out kind...then I got as far as a salon to ask about having my grey covered and chickened out for making that appointment. The gal there said something about foiling...and of course, I have no clue what that means either lol. So, for now, I am making the best of my grey because the last thing I want is to go pay someone $65.00 to colour my hair and then me end up wishing I had stayed grey. As for the allergic reaction...I am allergic to everything so that too is a reason I have yet to colour. My mom had a terrible reaction to colour one time and she had been colouring for many many years. She let herself grow grey naturally and looks great!!. I worry too that once I colour, I will be forced to colour all the time. I dunno, being grey is not that bad LOL LOL. I'm just not very brave hehe.
I don't think grey is that big of a deal... not big enough to put a paper bag over your head.
Thought I'd share the lyrics to a great song I heard the other day on NPR. . . .(I know, tree-huggin' liberal hippie nerd am I)
~Jen
The lady's "got a pair" that's for sure.
You could probably find the song online somewhere, that's where I got the lyrics. She has one called Video that I liked too.
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I Am Not My Hair
By India Arie
[Verse 1]
Little girl with the press and curl
Age eight I got a Jheri curl
Thirteen I got a relaxer
I was a source of so much laughter
At fifteen when it all broke off
Eighteen and went all natural
February two thousand and two
I went and did
What I had to do
Because it was time to change my life
To become the women that I am inside
Ninety-seven dreadlock all gone
I looked in the mirror
For the first time and saw that HEY....
[Chorus]
I am not my hair
I am not this skin
I am not your expectations no no
I am not my hair
I ma not this skin
I am a soul that lives within
[Talking:]
What'd she do to her hair? I don't know it look crazy
I like it. I might do that.
Umm I wouldn't go that far. I know .. ha ha ha ha
[Verse 2]
Good hair means curls and waves
Bad hair means you look like a slave
At the turn of the century
Its time for us to redefine who we be
You can shave it off
Like a South African beauty
Or get in on lock
Like Bob Marley
You can rock it straight
Like Oprah Winfrey
If its not what's on your head
Its what's underneath and say HEY....
[Chorus]
[bridge]
(Whoa, whoa, whoa)
Does the way I wear my hair make me a better person?
(Whoa, whoa, whoa)
Does the way I wear my hair make me a better friend? Oooh
(Whoa, whoa, whoa)
Does the way I wear my hair determine my integrity?
(Whoa, whoa, whoa)
I am expressing my creativity..
(Whoa, whoa, whoa)
[Verse 3]
Breast Cancer and Chemotherapy
Took away her crown and glory
She promised God if she was to survive
She would enjoy everyday of her life ooh
On national television
Her diamond eyes are sparkling
Bald headed like a full moon shining
Singing out to the whole wide world like HEY...
[Chorus 2x]
[Ad lib]
If I wanna shave it close
Or if I wanna rock locks
That don't take a bit away
From the soul that I got
Dat da da dat da [4x]
If I wanna where it braided
All down my back
I don't see what wrong with that
Dat da da dat da [4x]
as a hairstylist (and student nurse!) i think you should check the product. ALWAYS do the patch test, because even if you have been using the same product for years, your body can change. (think latex glove allergies) Foiling is by far the best way to get where you want to be. I suggest a tri-foil (your dark brown, a lighter brown and a blonde) It's more time consuming and expensive for the service, but you can usually go twice as long as with traditional haircolor.
i wouldn't cut it off unless it's already short.
bear in mind that grey hair is usually more coorifice, if you want to be gray, you may have to change your styling technique or use different products.
as for me, anytime before death is premature grey....
A few years ago, my hair was kind of a tri-color (kept changing my mind), redish, brownish mess. I didn't pay too much attention because I wore it up most of the time. One day my husband said--"Your hair is green on the ends!" Off to the hair dresser I went. Anyway, she did a much more flattering chin length layered cut and used a semi-permanent dye (no peroxide-no itchy scalp). It blended my grey and I didn't have roots when it grew out. Eventually I started coloring my own hair again, but now I use Clairol Natural Instincts (washes out in a month). It makes the grey look like goldish highlights and no roots.
as for me, anytime before death is premature grey....
:yeahthat:
I don't usually consider myself very vain, but this is the one area I will forever have a hard time reconciling....it's getting to be a VERY big hassle keeping up with the color (blonde just seemed to wash me out, so I do have 3 colors going here), but the thought of going pure gray just gives me the eebie jeebies!!! Especially since, at 50, I am probably going to be the old lady of my first semester classes in August!!
SueBee RN-BSN
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Can you go short? The temp hair color may be o.k., but do an allergy test first.