Hair Problems...help !

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:uhoh3: Hi All.....I know this is not a nursing question or a medical one either, but I do need some help, so if any of you can assist me, I will be extremely gratefull ! I have colored my hair for 25 years now. (dark brown).

Suddenly I have become allergic to the dyes and my skin/scalp gets red and blistered:madface:. So I have to stop with the chemicals on my hair. Now the problem is how do I "go gray gracefully" ? I do not want to look like a skunk with the white roots and the rest brown.... I am stressing over this, yet I am resolving to just go natural and stop being a slave to the bottle !

Any help would be appreciated. Oh... I am 50 ish.

LPN 90

Can you go short? The temp hair color may be o.k., but do an allergy test first.

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I have the exact oppositie problem lol. I am getting very grey especially in the front. Went out and bought some colour and had no clue what to buy so there it sits in the cupboard untouched. It is the wash out kind...then I got as far as a salon to ask about having my grey covered and chickened out for making that appointment. The gal there said something about foiling...and of course, I have no clue what that means either lol. So, for now, I am making the best of my grey because the last thing I want is to go pay someone $65.00 to colour my hair and then me end up wishing I had stayed grey. As for the allergic reaction...I am allergic to everything so that too is a reason I have yet to colour. My mom had a terrible reaction to colour one time and she had been colouring for many many years. She let herself grow grey naturally and looks great!!. I worry too that once I colour, I will be forced to colour all the time. I dunno, being grey is not that bad LOL LOL. I'm just not very brave hehe.

I don't think grey is that big of a deal... not big enough to put a paper bag over your head.;)

I have a very sensitive scalp as well. My hairdresser uses Aveda (all natural) hair color and foils my hair so very little gets on my scalp. I have long hair so it isn't cheap but she is a good friend so I get a discount.

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Anyone else with some ideas on how to "Go Gray Gracefully" !!:lol2:

thanks for the previous suggestions.. LPN 90

How about wearing a wig until your natural color grows back in?

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Thought I'd share the lyrics to a great song I heard the other day on NPR. . . .(I know, tree-huggin' liberal hippie nerd am I)

~Jen

The lady's "got a pair" that's for sure.

You could probably find the song online somewhere, that's where I got the lyrics. She has one called Video that I liked too.

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I Am Not My Hair

By India Arie

[Verse 1]

Little girl with the press and curl

Age eight I got a Jheri curl

Thirteen I got a relaxer

I was a source of so much laughter

At fifteen when it all broke off

Eighteen and went all natural

February two thousand and two

I went and did

What I had to do

Because it was time to change my life

To become the women that I am inside

Ninety-seven dreadlock all gone

I looked in the mirror

For the first time and saw that HEY....

[Chorus]

I am not my hair

I am not this skin

I am not your expectations no no

I am not my hair

I ma not this skin

I am a soul that lives within

[Talking:]

What'd she do to her hair? I don't know it look crazy

I like it. I might do that.

Umm I wouldn't go that far. I know .. ha ha ha ha

[Verse 2]

Good hair means curls and waves

Bad hair means you look like a slave

At the turn of the century

Its time for us to redefine who we be

You can shave it off

Like a South African beauty

Or get in on lock

Like Bob Marley

You can rock it straight

Like Oprah Winfrey

If its not what's on your head

Its what's underneath and say HEY....

[Chorus]

[bridge]

(Whoa, whoa, whoa)

Does the way I wear my hair make me a better person?

(Whoa, whoa, whoa)

Does the way I wear my hair make me a better friend? Oooh

(Whoa, whoa, whoa)

Does the way I wear my hair determine my integrity?

(Whoa, whoa, whoa)

I am expressing my creativity..

(Whoa, whoa, whoa)

[Verse 3]

Breast Cancer and Chemotherapy

Took away her crown and glory

She promised God if she was to survive

She would enjoy everyday of her life ooh

On national television

Her diamond eyes are sparkling

Bald headed like a full moon shining

Singing out to the whole wide world like HEY...

[Chorus 2x]

[Ad lib]

If I wanna shave it close

Or if I wanna rock locks

That don't take a bit away

From the soul that I got

Dat da da dat da [4x]

If I wanna where it braided

All down my back

I don't see what wrong with that

Dat da da dat da [4x]

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this might sound obvious but ask your hairdresser. there's a lot more to colouring than you'd think, and they're the experts in the field.[/quote']:yeahthat:

as a hairstylist (and student nurse!) i think you should check the product. ALWAYS do the patch test, because even if you have been using the same product for years, your body can change. (think latex glove allergies) Foiling is by far the best way to get where you want to be. I suggest a tri-foil (your dark brown, a lighter brown and a blonde) It's more time consuming and expensive for the service, but you can usually go twice as long as with traditional haircolor.

i wouldn't cut it off unless it's already short.

bear in mind that grey hair is usually more coorifice, if you want to be gray, you may have to change your styling technique or use different products.

as for me, anytime before death is premature grey....

A few years ago, my hair was kind of a tri-color (kept changing my mind), redish, brownish mess. I didn't pay too much attention because I wore it up most of the time. One day my husband said--"Your hair is green on the ends!" Off to the hair dresser I went. Anyway, she did a much more flattering chin length layered cut and used a semi-permanent dye (no peroxide-no itchy scalp). It blended my grey and I didn't have roots when it grew out. Eventually I started coloring my own hair again, but now I use Clairol Natural Instincts (washes out in a month). It makes the grey look like goldish highlights and no roots.

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as for me, anytime before death is premature grey....

:yeahthat:

I don't usually consider myself very vain, but this is the one area I will forever have a hard time reconciling....it's getting to be a VERY big hassle keeping up with the color (blonde just seemed to wash me out, so I do have 3 colors going here), but the thought of going pure gray just gives me the eebie jeebies!!! :uhoh3: Especially since, at 50, I am probably going to be the old lady of my first semester classes in August!!

Be brave, just do it. I'm letting mine go gray, right now it looks like i have a gray beanie cap. Oh well so is life...Its just hair. And gray hair is just one of lifes smaller problems....I'm gonna love mine.

No more hair dye here....

if op wants to go grey there are hair strippers [do patch test] but it is hard to match up colors sometimes you have to bite the bullet and let it grow out until everything is trimmed out

IF I GET ALLERGIC TO HAIR DYE I AM GOING TO CUT THE WHOLE HEAD OFF

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