GREAT DEAL of embarassment....thanks BON.

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I'd like to thank the people who supported me here tru posting. Unfortunately, I FAILED NCLEX-PN again for the 3rd time. And that cause me a great deal of embarassment from my family, friends and people who knows me. They all think that I AM STUPID and DUMB for not passing the exam for the 3rd time. Thank you BON for making this exam so hard to pass and making more HARDER next year. I am depressed, no work , no place to live. Because i give up everything and spend all my saving just for this exam and just to pass this exam and be able to have a good job and something that i can support myself. BUT now...I HAVE NOTHING. Thank you BON ...GREAT JOB FOR MAKING THE EXAM HARDER...to PASS...:crying2:

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I am sorry for my attitude about it. It is so PAINFUL...Its is the only hope that I have and i know that it will make me a better person I am today with a shot for a better life. I dont blaming anybody..the only thing I know is the people who makes this exam harder. And i hope their are HAPPY. I have a hard time facing life everyday. But i have to get up every morning to face the truth that I FAILED again. I dont have a job, no place to stay..going back to Manila to celebrate the Holidays and get away from here for a while until i am heal and able to study again. But by far i don't know yet...I am down and depressed. I love America. and I guess i am still lucky that this is my home now...Its a country of opportunity...Thanks for all your support...Have a happy holidays !

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I am sorry for my attitude about it. It is so PAINFUL...Its is the only hope that I have and i know that it will make me a better person I am today with a shot for a better life. I dont blaming anybody..the only thing I know is the people who makes this exam harder. And i hope their are HAPPY. I have a hard time facing life everyday. But i have to get up every morning to face the truth that I FAILED again. I dont have a job, no place to stay..going back to Manila to celebrate the Holidays and get away from here for a while until i am heal and able to study again. But by far i don't know yet...I am down and depressed. I love America. and I guess i am still lucky that this is my home now...Its a country of opportunity...Thanks for all your support...Have a happy holidays !

:redpinkhei feel u..1st time, 77 failed, 2nd 265 for 5hrs59min30sec ,failed, what can i do...other than to take it the way it is and move on, last time i had 51sata, almost 80 meds out of 265qs, rushed when i got to 210q and had 20mins left...i love nursing with my whole heart but hate it with passion cos of nclex rn.monster.planning to take hurst review for God to use her save me for my next one...but i thank God everyday for giving me shelter..so my dear u are not the only one in that shoes, plz dont give up, u and i are meant to be a winner not a quitter...thats why i mentioned earlier that i feel u. also i took kaplan, lowest on qt was 59 and highest was 68... i believe one day i will make my wonderful man and my family happy, and u and i and other pple in the situation wiil be happy too.

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I beg to differ it is this mindset that hinders you.

Why would a loving God put his precious creations in your hand at this time? He would not!

Reason: You are presently ill-equipped.

ALL NURSES have precious gifts lent to them by God to care for thats why the exam is structered in such a manner. If you dont meet the mininum cant take care of his children.

Life were talking not simply money

If God dont want u to be a nurse, he wont even let u graduate, so God is not a God of evil..so pls dont even put ur comment if only for u to make the situation worst..

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I am sorry for my attitude about it. It is so PAINFUL...Its is the only hope that I have and i know that it will make me a better person I am today with a shot for a better life. I dont blaming anybody..the only thing I know is the people who makes this exam harder. And i hope their are HAPPY. I have a hard time facing life everyday. But i have to get up every morning to face the truth that I FAILED again. I dont have a job, no place to stay..going back to Manila to celebrate the Holidays and get away from here for a while until i am heal and able to study again. But by far i don't know yet...I am down and depressed. I love America. and I guess i am still lucky that this is my home now...Its a country of opportunity...Thanks for all your support...Have a happy holidays !

Just wanted to share something I received from an instructor............author unknown

YOU ARE THE GREATEST ! !

YOU ARE UNIQUE ! There is nobody exactly like you. In all the history of the world, there has never been another you, and in all the time to come, there will never be another you. Whatever your Mind can conceive and believe...you CAN achieve. If you think you can't, your right. To accomplish great things, you must not only dream, but also believe. Believing is magic, what you believe yourself to be, you are. Success is an attitude. Set high lofty goals; reach for the moon, because even if you miss, you're going to to come down with a handful of stars. Clearly define your goals. Visualize them as though you have already achieved them. Make your plan, and then work your plan. DO IT NOW!!! If at first you don't succeed, try...try again. If it doesn't work one way, try another way. Defeat may test you....it need not stop you. Inch by inch anything's a cinch. It is impossible to fail, unless you quit. For every problem there is a solution. Every problem carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit. Look for those benefits. Wishing will not bring you success, but dreaming, planning, persistence and a burning desire will. Dream great dreams. And never be less than you dream. The biggest mistake you can make is giving up.

NEVER GIVE UP! Neve say CAN'T." YES YOU CAN!!! Because, YOU ARE THE GREATEST!!!

You must remain positive. Keep praying with a renewed mindset. You are feeding to much negative energy.

Yes, it's discouraging, but you still have things to be thankful for........ your trip back home to rejuvenate is one of them. Don't give up you have come to far. I pray that you find peace within..... feel free to pm if needed..take care.

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Just wanted to share something I received from an instructor............author unknown

YOU ARE THE GREATEST ! !

YOU ARE UNIQUE ! There is nobody exactly like you. In all the history of the world, there has never been another you, and in all the time to come, there will never be another you. Whatever your Mind can conceive and believe...you CAN achieve. If you think you can't, your right. To accomplish great things, you must not only dream, but also believe. Believing is magic, what you believe yourself to be, you are. Success is an attitude. Set high lofty goals; reach for the moon, because even if you miss, you're going to to come down with a handful of stars. Clearly define your goals. Visualize them as though you have already achieved them. Make your plan, and then work your plan. DO IT NOW!!! If at first you don't succeed, try...try again. If it doesn't work one way, try another way. Defeat may test you....it need not stop you. Inch by inch anything's a cinch. It is impossible to fail, unless you quit. For every problem there is a solution. Every problem carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit. Look for those benefits. Wishing will not bring you success, but dreaming, planning, persistence and a burning desire will. Dream great dreams. And never be less than you dream. The biggest mistake you can make is giving up.

NEVER GIVE UP! Neve say CAN'T." YES YOU CAN!!! Because, YOU ARE THE GREATEST!!!

You must remain positive. Keep praying with a renewed mindset. You are feeding to much negative energy.

Yes, it's discouraging, but you still have things to be thankful for........ your trip back home to rejuvenate is one of them. Don't give up you have come to far. I pray that you find peace within..... feel free to pm if needed..take care.

thanx for this...Good will answer ur prayers

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i am so sorry..plz don't give up hope. you can do it. you made it through school and that is no small feat.i have been where you are and it hurts...in fact i didn't even tell most of my family/employer i was taking it again for fear of failure and embarrassment and i too put myself in the hole to pay fro the darn thing too. the test is hard..no measure of your intellect..its like one poster said" a nurses hazing"..hang in there..it took me 2 years to try agin because i was where you are..don't waste time like i did..i did pass this time and next time it will be you :)

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that is a really unfair thing to say to someone...quoting god yet stomping on someones feelings???? caring at it's finest...bravo...nice example. we all know people who have passed who prob. shouldn't be nurses and those that have failed that would make the best nurses...this exam , and i am sure most will agree, is truly not a testament to ones character or abilities as a nurse in all cases...

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For everyone that percieves my words as being critical please calm down and re-read my post.

Both of them.

As I stated before' I have also FAILED and must retake NCLEX-RN. Instead of wasting energy letting the enemy win I choose to believe it is not currently DIVINE TIME.

If I failed then appartently, I'm unsafe to practice according to RN- NCLEX world.I have no double standards- just like you I did not past.

Be positive, think positive, think higher thoughts or the enemy wins.

NEVER may that happen!

GOD provides what we need in HIS own time not ours. Hopefully the next attempt will be in DIVINE TIME!

Just my two cents.

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For everyone that percieves my words as being critical please calm down and re-read my post.

Both of them.

As I stated before' I have also FAILED and must retake NCLEX-RN. Instead of wasting energy letting the enemy win I choose to believe it is not currently DIVINE TIME.

If I failed then appartently, I'm unsafe to practice according to RN- NCLEX world.I have no double standards- just like you I did not past.

Be positive, think positive, think higher thoughts or the enemy wins.

NEVER may that happen!

GOD provides what we need in HIS own time not ours. Hopefully the next attempt will be in DIVINE TIME!

Just my two cents.[/q

so if u have failed, that doesnt mean dat God dont want u to be a nurse, all i will tell u as u mentioned above is that God time is the best.....thanx

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Please don't misunderstand my words.

I never said GOD does not want us that my have failed once twice or twenty times 2 b an RN/LPN.Thats

NOT even what I meant, simply: There are standards set not only by man but also by HIM. Sometimes it is are turn to wait. There are many hurdles to master in this life and a positive spirit/thoughts will make tackling this NCLEX exam much easier no matter what they(council) throw @ us.

Those of us that made it out of nursing school will also master the NCLEX some sooner than others.

These r my final thoughts on this topic.

So much 4 trying to encourage 2 b positive by sharing my own experience. Unfortunately when I try to be brief

I'm not clear enough. Take care all. My study time just wanted make quick reply

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Please don't misunderstand my words.

I never said GOD does not want us that my have failed once twice or twenty times 2 b an RN/LPN.Thats

NOT even what I meant, simply: There are standards set not only by man but also by HIM. Sometimes it is are turn to wait. There are many hurdles to master in this life and a positive spirit/thoughts will make tackling this NCLEX exam much easier no matter what they(council) throw @ us.

Those of us that made it out of nursing school will also master the NCLEX some sooner than others.

These r my final thoughts on this topic.

So much 4 trying to encourage 2 b positive by sharing my own experience. Unfortunately when I try to be brief

I'm not clear enough. Take care all. My study time just wanted make quick reply

Clear enough darling, God will help us out...studyyyyyyy hard

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good grief.

this thread has gone nuts.

the OP says that the BON is responsible for not passing

other posters say it's god preventing this poor OP to not pass.

Bottom line, for whatever reason they are just not ready. The ultimate responsibility is ours to be ready for this exam. It's that simple. Change your studying habits and take the test again. And if that doesn't work, change your studying habits and take it again. Until you finally pass.

Happy Holidays!

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