Hey guys, it's been a while. Looking for some advice. My dad was admitted to a local hospital this weekend (thank goodness not mine!) As a nursing student preparing to take boards, I am at least minimally aware of some aspects of the "textbook" care he "should" be receiving - things like infection control, labs, (some have been wacky) mobility (major pneumonia risk,) I am also ABSOLUTELY aware that the experienced nurses are EXPONENTIALLY more knowledgeable than I am in every aspect of patient care. I trust them almost implicitly. As a daughter, I am a paranoid mess, but doing a very good job (I feel) of keeping my mouth shut and not sweating the small stuff - I don't want to be that pain in the *** family member. As an APCT (and a damn good one) for quite some time, on a busy, high acuity unit, I am well aware of the realities of hospital life - I know he is one of 23 pts, may not get mobile, cleaned up, whatever, basically the level of attention and help that we would all ideally want for ourselves and our loved ones every minute of every day - I'm realistic, and thrilled to be there to do as much as I can.
Situation: I feel that things are being...overlooked:
-Gave rapid acting insulin and didn't make him eat - next BG, at 28.
-No incentive spirometer, coughing, getting him up, even encouraging sitting up except for 10 min of PT a day (yeah, it's a respiratory issue.)
-Totally immobile in bed for DAYS, but no SCDs (yes SQ heparin)
-No foley care for 36 hours (and yes, I know for sure, one of us was here continuously)
-Intermittent S/S of confusion/delirium -- this just scares the hell out of me, and I can't seem to convince the staff that this is NOT his baseline - he's normally sharp as a razor!
Question: How do I get my concerns addressed without coming off as an *******? It drives me nuts in the ED when a mom says, "Um, you know you didn't scrub that with alcohol long enough, right? You're supposed to do it for a full minute." Hm, I don't think so. Or "OMG!! STOP!! You can't get BP on the left, he has an AV fistula!!!!" Yeah, pumpkin, I know, if you had let me fully open the door, I would have actually made it INTO the room and eventually to the other side of the bed.... Sheesh.
So how do I keep him safe without being that girl they talk about in report and say "he's a sweetheart, a little confused, but the daughter - OMG, she's a pain in the ***."
How do I get them to say "he's a sweetheart, a little confused, and the daughter is a NS, but super helpful, seriously. No really, don't roll your eyes, I know nursing students suck, but this one... you'll be glad she's here."