Eats on Feets -Breast Milk-Sharing group

Specialties Ob/Gyn

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Move Over, Milk Banks: Facebook and Milk Sharing

JENNIFER BLOCK

NOV 22, 2010

...Women have been sharing breast milk for eons (remember wet nurses?), but the practice has been stigmatized in modern society, especially in the age of HIV. Milk banks screen and pasteurize donated milk and give priority to premature and very ill babies, essentially preventing most families from accessing the milk. And for those who can get banked milk, it is often prohibitively expensive: $3 to $5 per oz., upwards of $100 for a day's supply.

Eats On Feets GLOBAL is a milk sharing network.

It is a place where women who want breastmilk for their babies can find women who have breastmilk to share.

The details of milk sharing arrangements and relationships are to be negotiated between the donors and recipients.

Participants are making an informed choice to share human breastmilk and understand both the risks and the benefits.

Human milk is the biological norm for human babies.

Some pathogens MAY be passed through human milk.

Flash heating may kill pathogens.

Blood screening is available through your local health resources.

Please follow safe handling and preparation guidelines.

We are NOT providing medical advice.

Participants should contact their health care provider(s) to discuss risk.

For more information please visit:

Eats On Feets - human milk for human babies

Thoughts?

Specializes in Community, OB, Nursery.

Between two private individuals, I really don't see the problem. Donor breastmilk is IMO way less gross than donor cow milk that so many of us big people drink.

I can understand why some people wouldn't want it, but overall I think this is a great thing.

Specializes in COS-C, Risk Management.

If you think that donor milk is bad, consider that cow's milk is donor milk from the cow, not even species-specific. Many babies survive on an artificial diet of formula, just as many children survive on an artificial diet of Doritos and Coke plus a daily multivitamin. "Formula" is made of the byproducts of the dairy industry, the cheapest oils available, high-fructose corn syrup, and added vitamins. I'll take someone else's milk any day and twice on Sunday.

Specializes in PeriOp, ICU, PICU, NICU.

To each their own. My 31 weeker (now 16 months) was formula fed. Unfortunately, I was unable to breastfeed but am grateful the evil formula exists and that she is a happy and healthy little girl.

Personally, I shudder at the thought of someone else's bodily fluids entering her system other than mine.

All in all, I am content. I was a formula fed preemie here and I have no regrets.

I also support anyone who wishes to take the risk (as in this case) in order to BF their little one. Just not for me.

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.
Unfortunately, I was unable to breastfeed but am grateful the evil formula exists and that she is a happy and healthy little girl.

Nobody here has said that formula is "evil." I think as nurses we can all agree that formula is necessary and lifesaving at times.

Specializes in NICU.

I agree, i don't think formula is evil at all. I just don't understand the knee-jerk reaction of disgust that seems to occur so often when babies drinking breast milk from 'strangers' is mentioned.

Specializes in COS-C, Risk Management.

Similac Advance formula with iron is made with the following ingredients: D Nonfat Milk, Lactose, High Oleic Safflower Oil, Soy Oil, Coconut Oil, Whey Protein Concentrate, Less than 2% of: C. Cohnii Oil, M. Alpina Oil, Potassium Citrate, Calcium Carbonate, Ascorbic Acid, Potassium Chloride, Choline Bitartrate, Magnesium Chloride, Choline Chloride, Ferrous Sulfate, Ascorbyl Palmitate, Taurine, M-Inositol, Alpha Tocopheryl Acetate, L-Carnitine, Mixed Tocopherols, Sodium Chloride, Zinc Sulfate, Niacinamide, Calcium Pantothenate, Cupric Sulfate, Vitamin A Palmitate, Thiamine Chloride Hydrochloride, Riboflavin, Pyridoxine Hydrochloride, Beta-Carotene, Folic Acid, Manganese Sulfate, Phylloquinone, Biotin, Sodium Selenate, Vitamin D3, Cyanocobalamin and Nucleotides (Adenosine5 -Monophosphate, Cytidine 5-Monophosphate, Disodium Guanosine 5-Monophosphate, Disodium Uridine 5-Monophosphate)

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

Yes, there are a lot of ingredients.

Babies do, however, thrive on formula, so posting the list of ingredients is, IMO, inflammatory and serves no purpose.

Specializes in COS-C, Risk Management.

Formula is not evil, nor are the ingredients inflammatory. In my experience, few people who use or endorse it actually know what's in it. The lack of support for breastfeeding and the mother-baby diad is evil. Telling women they can't make milk or their milk isn't good enough is evil. Telling women that formula is just as good is evil. Telling women that they didn't try hard enough is evil. What we need in this society is honest support of breastfeeding, the value of the mother-baby relationship that is enhanced and supported by breastfeeding, and the support for species-specific milk for human infants rather than the mammary fluid of another animal.

As health professionals, we should be invested in this issue. One of the primary purposes is to educate our patients and the public. By clinging to the mantra of "breast is best but formula is okay too" we are doing our patients and our public a disservice. Breast is not best, it is the norm. It is what is biologically expected by every infant born. Formula, while necessary at times, should not be considered a perfectly okay routine choice. Families should know the risks and benefits of all interventions, including the use of artificial feeding as opposed to banked or donated human milk. Banked or donated human milk should be the intervention considered before the use of non-human milk for infants. Few people would consider it okay to feed their babies mare's milk, yet it is biologically more similar to human milk than cow's milk. Same with camel milk. Yet the advertising industry in conjunction with the medical community and dairy facilities have made cow's milk the perceived norm for humans.

Specializes in Psych, Med/Surg, LTC.

I am all for sharing milk. A close friend of mine had to wean her baby to go through chemo after a mastectomy. Baby was only 11 months old at the time. All of her other kids nursed much longer. She was devastated. Thanks to me and a few other of her friends, her baby was able to be breastfed via bottle until around 18 months old. I had extra, her milk had chemo in it. It seemed like the right thing to do. She knew me and my lifestyle and that I wouldn't be breastfeeding my OWN baby if had AIDS or Hep B/C did drugs, or whatever. Our babies were only about a month apart, so the milk was pretty much perfect for her kid. WHY would someone be breastfeeding their own kid if they had a major medical issue going on? I don't know why people get grossed out by milk sharing- it can be flash heated to kill stuff if you don't 100% trust the donor. It sounds better than having milk from random cows and chemicals to me. I am not anti-formula at all, there certainly is a need for formula in many cases. But if there is a healthier way, why not go for it? People get grossed out by it and all, but then think nothing of having one night stands and/or not using condoms. I think that spreads disease a whole lot more than sharing some milk. I don't get it.

You wont believe me.. There was one man in my nursery unit just wanted other woman's beast milk because his wife wasnt producing much milk..My collegue went mad and explained to him that other woman might not be giving their breast milk to other baby themselves....hahaha

Hep B is not found in breast milk. from the CDC:

s it safe for a mother infected with hepatitis B virus (HBV) to breastfeed her infant immediately after birth?

Yes. Even before the availability of hepatitis B vaccine, HBV transmission through breastfeeding was not reported. All infants born to HBV-infected mothers should receive hepatitis B immune globulin and the first dose of hepatitis B vaccine within 12 hours of birth. The second dose of vaccine should be given at aged 1-2 months, and the third dose at aged 6 months. The infant should be tested after completion of the vaccine series, at aged 9-18 months (generally at the next well-child visit), to determine if the vaccine worked and the infant is not infected with HBV through exposure to the mother's blood during the birth process. However, there is no need to delay breastfeeding until the infant is fully immunized. All mothers who breastfeed should take good care of their nipples to avoid cracking and bleeding.

And HIV is killed with simple flash heating. Which, you are supposed to do with artificial milk, no?

Milk sharing is a wonderful thing. I have 2 children of my own, but have provided milk for 8 infants, one of whom couldn't tolerate any form of formula.

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