hello everyone. my question stems from my personal experience. i have a brother and sister-in-law to often take their children (my niece and nephew) to her mother's house where her brother and her two nephews live there. these boys are incredibly violent...and not just an over-reacting to boys being boys, but utterly violent. they have scratched, punched, thrown harmful things at my niece. just recently, one threatened her life with scissors. the parents are well aware of this and still continue to take them there so they can spend time with her mother. my niece is in the same class as my daughter. my niece is add and is always aggressive towards my daughter. when she experiences these traumas with these boys, she winds up being even more aggressive towards my daughter. i have talked to my daughter about these children and how to avoid them, how to not be like them or around them. i have no control over the other children. i wanted to know from people who have experienced these types of children, (7 & 9 years old), and how to handle this type of situation? is there a situation to handle at all? are these boys at risk for schizophrenic? do they need mental health care or cps? are these clinical manifestations for either the boys, or my niece to become violent adolescents and/or adults?
any information will be greatly appreciated.