Changing Lives Exponentially

We are facing a very serious nursing shortage in coming years so what are we,the nurses now, going to do about it? I know what I am going to do. Let me tell you why I became a nurse and why I need your help The population is growing. We need to grow with i Nurses Announcements Archive Article

I wanted to be a nurse because I was inspired. When I was 15 and very naive, I got pregnant. I was scared but my boyfriend at the time was very nice, as were his parents. Everything was going ok. I had plans to finish high school and go to college with their help. Then, I had my first ultrasound.

The tech put the wand on my then 22 week tummy and said, "Lets see what we have, shall we?" After about 20 seconds, she turned the screen away from me and said, "I'm just going to call the doctor, ok?" She seemed very shaken. I waited nervously for the doctor to come back.

They explained to me that my baby girl had Osteognesis Imperfecta Type 2. They told me that my baby had 22 fractures at that time, her femurs were growing severely bowed, and that she would die within moments of birth due to lack of collagen in her body. They told me I need to have an abortion or my child would die screaming in pain.

I left the office numb. Sure, at 15 a child would complicate my life but I loved her. I had wanted her. I was supposed to think about my options and come back 4 days later. I talked to my boyfriend's family and him that night. As first generation Irish Catholic immigrants, they couldn't condone an abortion and I couldn't either. We decided to name the baby Aisling (Gaelic for "Beautiful Dream") and go through with the birth. We grieved.

The doctor was wrong. My Aisling lived for 5 hours and 22 minutes. She was born with several fractures and received another just putting a diaper on. She cried. I couldn't pick her up and comfort her. I saw the nurses in that NICU cry for me and my little broken girl. As she breathed her last breath, one of those nurses placed her in my arms. She told me I could say good bye now. She held me as I cried.

I want to be that nurse. I want to comfort and be the angel that other people need during the best and worst moments of their lives. Isn't that why we all want to be nurses? The difference between these wonderful people and a nursing instructor is that teachers make expoentially more of those life touches. For every one student, they touch hundreds of lives. Call me selfish but I want this for me. I want to touch thousands. Can you imagine? Isn't it our duty?

This is how I fight the nursing shortage. I'm going to make more nurses. We need more teachers. I hope my story inspires you to help me!

Specializes in ICU.

My first baby was at 15... I had a nurse who made me swallow my first pill. A dulcolax, my mother crushed them or I chose liquid. That nurse told me," if I'm old enough for sex and babies, I was old enough to swallow pills." I was married too. At the time it was harsh but the truth. I can now swallow pills and am thankful for her truth. As nurses, sometimes we have to make our patients do what's in their best interest even when they don't want too. So one day I'll be little old lady with a young nurse in a nursing home who will plop that med cup of pills in front of me, little will she know she can thank a nurse from years ago that she didn't have to stop and crush, put them in applesauce for me and feed them to me:).... All because I can swallow pills. Thank you " mean ole nurse" from 24 yrs ago!!

Thank you for sharing your story. It truly is inspiring. It is so amazing how much children can mold us and show us the path we are meant to follow. You are a strong woman. Good luck on your journey!

Specializes in Psych, Med-Surg, utter confusion, chaos!.

It took strength and courage to do what you did. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

That poor baby. I can't imagine the five hours of torment that she had to endure being on this planet.

I hope this is real compassion and not your judgement of how much pain this baby would have felt if she had been dismembered or given saline burns ealier instead....

wow that was really touching my heart me my self was pregnant in 2003 i was 7 month's the bby died inside of me lack of oxygen i have to have this baby but it was a beautiful baby boy i name him samuel gift of god me myself want to be a nurse to make a different in other's people that went trought this.

This should be an example of the reasons why anyone should want to be a "Nurse". To be in the position to comfort, to console, those who are most in need. I would like to be that individual that can be your Mom, or best friend or a friendly stranger in a healthcare enviroment who makes you feel "special". I feel that Nurses, are in that position , to bring joy and peace to individuals who are in so much need of care and nurture. I mean, occassionally that might not be the case,lol.... and I know ... no occupation is perfect, But your a Nurse, because that is what your heart desires. Your story inspires me :)

Specializes in Critical Care.

I think its so sad when people are encouraged to have an abortion because of the unborn's child disease, defect or terminal illness. How much better to welcome the child for as long as God wills it rather than the other "choice". God bless you and you have a little angel in heaven watching over you!

That poster ( dirtyhippiegirl) could have been passing judgement, but if you re-read it, there is nothing definite about judging the OP. They only mention the pain the baby had-which is undeniable and pitiable (unless you're a monster and you wouldn't be on AN if you were).

I could be wrong, but I try not to be so quick to misconstrue people's meanings.

The only nursing shortage we have is from employers not hiring enough nurses. There are plenty of nurses looking for jobs right now.

It's less painful for the baby to be aborted early in the pregnancy, than to suffer through birth, than a painful death.

Merrywhiterose, not only was that cruel and heartless, there is no proof of that.... None. I hope that you are never my nurse .... Or anyone else's for that matter.

I am sorry my career will be over before the nursing shortage arrives as it would have been nice to enjoy the benefits of it.