Are We Too PC?

Have we become a nation of slugs, so offended by a simple old-time Christmas song that we want to ban it from the radio? Where does this leave us in real life? Nurses General Nursing Article

So, with the current controversy about "Baby Its Cold Outside" raging on the radio and social media I got to thinking and thinking and thinking....are we as a country just becoming too PC?

"Baby Its Cold Outside" was originally written in 1944 by Frank Loesser's as a jazz standard. Is it a song about date rape or just a catchy tune? Should it be "banned" from the airwaves? I vote NO! This is just a catchy tune, nothing more, written in a more innocent time in our history. Here is a video that depicts the song first as a man trying to convince a woman to stay a little while longer which has garnered criticism and a second version where its the man that wants to leave and the female is trying to convince him to stay. Do you feel differently about each version? Or again, is it just a catchy tune?

Being PC isn't a new idea. In another life in the 1970's early 1980's, I was a USN broadcaster serving in Japan. We had what was called, "host country sensitivities." For instance, when giving the weather, we were not allowed to say, "there's a nip in the air." Some other issues: we weren't allowed to discuss the nuclear bomb attacks on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. And we couldn't call the Emperor by his first name as this was considered disrespectful. I can see how we need to be sensitive when we serve in the military overseas and need to blend in. However, here in the US nowadays we seem to be resorting to not wishing to offend anyone.

And it seems as though others agree with me. "The most recent national survey from Fairleigh Dickinson University's PublicMind finds that 68 percent agree with the statement: "A big problem this country has is being politically correct."

So, how does this relate to nursing and medicine? "After 25 years, the MCAT is being revised, becoming longer (by three hours) and covering a broader range of topics than simply chemistry, physics and biology. One quarter of the new test covers "psychology, sociology and the biological foundations of behavior." More specifically, students will be tested on "social inequality, class consciousness, racial and ethnic identity, institutionalized racism and discrimination, and power, privilege and prestige." Most of us would agree that widening the scope of physician education is important. There are many more social issues nowadays, more poverty, more people that feel disenfranchised. In this venue, it's important to be inclusive. Can we be inclusive without crossing over into not offending anyone?

And, most of us have had to sit through in-services about cultural awareness, even generational awareness. Has this resulted in stilted communication? Must all our communication be so "aware?" Do you think before you speak? Do you consider generational differences when communication with co-workers, patients?

Where do patients fit in? Should patients expect all of their needs to be met? Where do we draw the line between being PC and enabling? When discharging patients from the hospital nowadays, follow up appointments are made, prescriptions electronically sent to pharmacies, perhaps home health arranged and other case management needs that are met. Then, the patient states, "I need a ride to my appointments." When did this become the responsibility of the healthcare system? While we are all striving to reduce readmission rates, when does the responsibility of transportation become the patients' responsibility? Or is it PC to say, "Oh I can get you a cab voucher"? Are we making healthcare too accessible?

As a nation, shouldn't we "man up" and be responsible for our own lives? That means taking care of ourselves, communicating our needs in a clear manner, being honest in our dealings with others and overall being a worthwhile citizen?

What are your thoughts? Are we too PC?

References

Baby Its Cold Outside: A Brief History of the Holiday Song Controversy

Farleigh Dickinson University Poll, October 2015

Politically Correct Medical Schools

Exactly.

These are folks who are used to being the majority, in numerous ways, and oh, wait, here comes the shocker, the world is changing and they don't like it.

I refer once again to the NPR/Marsist poll which sadly, points out the the split on, shocker, political, gender, generational, suburban lines.

Reading through comments on his thread, I believe the poll results wholeheartedly.

Exactly this.

By the way, I hate the term "man up" OD, but that doesn't mean I'm offended by it. It DOES mean I will call you on it. What does that even mean?

The song, IMO, is not a very good song. It's creepy, and non Holidayesque.

I turn it off.

I also turn Christmas Shoes, Do They Know It's Christmas? and that Hawaiian Christmas song.

I don't think ANYTHING should be banned.

No, we are not too PC. I welcome the discussion AND the change.

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"...set beliefs" That phrase scares me. Who will set them? What happens to those who don't share them? Who will be the judge? (We certainly see HUGE religious hypocrisy all the time)

Google "Christian Nationalism"

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Exactly this.

By the way, I hate the term "man up" OD, but that doesn't mean I'm offended by it. It DOES mean I will call you on it. What does that even mean?

The song, IMO, is not a very good song. It's creepy, and non Holidayesque.

I turn it off.

I also turn Christmas Shoes, Do They Know It's Christmas? and that Hawaiian Christmas song.

I don't think ANYTHING should be banned.

No, we are not too PC. I welcome the discussion AND the change.

Oh yes, "tonight, thank God it's them instead of you." Band Aid made a song chock full of horribly inaccurate and condescending lyrics with, "Do They Know It's Christmas?" that smacks of white privilege ... but it shouldn't be banned. Nor should the other one.

It's at least a good discussion point for the kiddos on why mom is turning it off.

Teachable moments.

Oh yes, "tonight, thank God it's them instead of you." Band Aid made a song chock full of horribly inaccurate and condescending lyrics with, "Do They Know It's Christmas?" that smacks of white privilege ... but it shouldn't be banned. Nor should the other one.

It's at least a good discussion point for the kiddos on why mom is turning it off.

Teachable moments.

Actually, the song Do They Know It's Christmas, is slap against White, Western privilege.

It was written and performed during the time of the Ethopian famine.

It is still appropriate, in 2018.

Just think of the current crisis in Yemen, or at our southern border.

Yes, thank God tonight it is them instead of you!

Many Americans are too happy to turn a blind eye to suffering, while attending midnight Mass and gorging on Christmas dinner.

Specializes in Travel, Home Health, Med-Surg.
Oh yes, "tonight, thank God it's them instead of you." Band Aid made a song chock full of horribly inaccurate and condescending lyrics with, "Do They Know It's Christmas?" that smacks of white privilege ... but it shouldn't be banned. Nor should the other one.

It's at least a good discussion point for the kiddos on why mom is turning it off.

Teachable moments.

The song was written and sung to raise money for the Famine in Ethopia.

Wiki - Do They Know It's Christmas? — Band Aid | Last.fm

Please define white privilege.

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Actually, the song Do They Know It's Christmas, is slap against White, Western privilege.

Many Americans are too happy to turn a blind eye to suffering, while attending midnight Mass and gorging on Christmas dinner.

And many Americans are happy to donate to those less fortunate than people who happen to live in the US no matter what color, race, or creed they happen to be.

Giving USA 2

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Actually, the song Do They Know It's Christmas, is slap against White, Western privilege.

It was written and performed during the time of the Ethopian famine.

It is still appropriate, in 2018.

Just think of the current crisis in Yemen, or at our southern border.

Yes, thank God tonight it is them instead of you!

Many Americans are too happy to turn a blind eye to suffering, while attending midnight Mass and gorging on Christmas dinner.

Sorry to disagree; this song isn't appropriate at all, even in 2018. You can squint and look at it the way you're looking at it ...

A few other lines ...

"Do they know it's Christmas?" Er, probably ...since large parts of Africa are indeed Christian.

"Pray for the other ones" - pardon?

"There won't be snow in Africa this Christmastime" - well, except for the mountains ...

Such an example of white savior complex. Turns cliches about Africa that need western saving. The 2014 version that was made for Ebola didn't fare so well either.

Blech.

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I live near Seattle and had never heard this. A quick internet search showed a story from 2011, where a 16 year old volunteer at a private school claimed to have been instructed to use the term "Spring sphere". This is hardly equates an entire city changing the name of Easter eggs. After 7 years, this rumor needs to just go away.

I quite agree. I was in the Seattle area near Easter and there were posters around advertising a community "Easter Egg hunt" activity in a local park.

I lived there for >1 year surrounding the period in question, and never heard the term then either.

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With all this PC talk I'm thinking of embracing my Celtic/Viking heritage, braiding my hair and painting my face in blue tattoos. Not sure how it will go over on the unit though.

Hppy

Now that political correctness has been banned, may I use the pronouns I wish without jeopardizing my job now?

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The song was written and sung to raise money for the Famine in Ethopia.

Wiki - Do They Know It's Christmas? - Band Aid | Last.fm

Please define white privilege.

'We got this, Bob Geldof, so back off' | Ethiopia News | Al Jazeera

For every good intention, you'll find one of the above. And it WAS a good intention, no argument. But ... it's not so black and white. It's patronizing, condescending and arrogant.

If you're looking for the definition of white privilege, I'll define it simply as this: a head start over everyone else. An inherent advantage over every other race of people. The whiteness of my skin? It gives me that head start over other people of color at the starting line.

And it shouldn't be that way.

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With all this PC talk I'm thinking of embracing my Celtic/Viking heritage, braiding my hair and painting my face in blue tattoos. Not sure how it will go over on the unit though.

Hppy

You'd be the epitome of cool to those kids.