Are We Too PC?

Have we become a nation of slugs, so offended by a simple old-time Christmas song that we want to ban it from the radio? Where does this leave us in real life? Nurses General Nursing Article

So, with the current controversy about "Baby Its Cold Outside" raging on the radio and social media I got to thinking and thinking and thinking....are we as a country just becoming too PC?

"Baby Its Cold Outside" was originally written in 1944 by Frank Loesser's as a jazz standard. Is it a song about date rape or just a catchy tune? Should it be "banned" from the airwaves? I vote NO! This is just a catchy tune, nothing more, written in a more innocent time in our history. Here is a video that depicts the song first as a man trying to convince a woman to stay a little while longer which has garnered criticism and a second version where its the man that wants to leave and the female is trying to convince him to stay. Do you feel differently about each version? Or again, is it just a catchy tune?

Being PC isn't a new idea. In another life in the 1970's early 1980's, I was a USN broadcaster serving in Japan. We had what was called, "host country sensitivities." For instance, when giving the weather, we were not allowed to say, "there's a nip in the air." Some other issues: we weren't allowed to discuss the nuclear bomb attacks on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. And we couldn't call the Emperor by his first name as this was considered disrespectful. I can see how we need to be sensitive when we serve in the military overseas and need to blend in. However, here in the US nowadays we seem to be resorting to not wishing to offend anyone.

And it seems as though others agree with me. "The most recent national survey from Fairleigh Dickinson University's PublicMind finds that 68 percent agree with the statement: "A big problem this country has is being politically correct."

So, how does this relate to nursing and medicine? "After 25 years, the MCAT is being revised, becoming longer (by three hours) and covering a broader range of topics than simply chemistry, physics and biology. One quarter of the new test covers "psychology, sociology and the biological foundations of behavior." More specifically, students will be tested on "social inequality, class consciousness, racial and ethnic identity, institutionalized racism and discrimination, and power, privilege and prestige." Most of us would agree that widening the scope of physician education is important. There are many more social issues nowadays, more poverty, more people that feel disenfranchised. In this venue, it's important to be inclusive. Can we be inclusive without crossing over into not offending anyone?

And, most of us have had to sit through in-services about cultural awareness, even generational awareness. Has this resulted in stilted communication? Must all our communication be so "aware?" Do you think before you speak? Do you consider generational differences when communication with co-workers, patients?

Where do patients fit in? Should patients expect all of their needs to be met? Where do we draw the line between being PC and enabling? When discharging patients from the hospital nowadays, follow up appointments are made, prescriptions electronically sent to pharmacies, perhaps home health arranged and other case management needs that are met. Then, the patient states, "I need a ride to my appointments." When did this become the responsibility of the healthcare system? While we are all striving to reduce readmission rates, when does the responsibility of transportation become the patients' responsibility? Or is it PC to say, "Oh I can get you a cab voucher"? Are we making healthcare too accessible?

As a nation, shouldn't we "man up" and be responsible for our own lives? That means taking care of ourselves, communicating our needs in a clear manner, being honest in our dealings with others and overall being a worthwhile citizen?

What are your thoughts? Are we too PC?

References

Baby Its Cold Outside: A Brief History of the Holiday Song Controversy

Farleigh Dickinson University Poll, October 2015

Politically Correct Medical Schools

Well, it all depends on you definition of PC.

If PC behavior means I don't have to listen to my patient use the n-word to describe one of my co-workers, then I am all for it!

I live and work in Kentucky, and during the past year, I have been amazed by the amount and frequency of racist outbursts from patients.

If PC behavior zips shut the mouths of racists, hooray.

One night, I worked with a nurse who was born in Japan, and has a Japanese first name.

The other nurses and techs, call her "Kamikaze." They thought they were being playful, I suppose. I think they were being ignorant.

I told this nurse: I will not call you Kamikaze. I will call you by your name.

She smiled and said: I know. What is wrong with them? They are so ignorant!

She didn't feel comfortable speaking up for herself because she was an agency nurse, and the minority.

Happy to be PC!

There are limits to everything. "Kamikaze" needs to educate those who call her that. Nicely, humbly educate them as to what kamikaze really was/is. And she, assuming she is not old enough to have lived through WW2, assuming she knows little or nothing about the way the Japanese are said to have treated civilians and POW's during the war, needs to learn about these painful truths.

There are at least 2 sides to every story.

Are we too PC? Yes.

I recently watched "Animal Farm". Hadn't read it or watched it for years. Very eye-opening, a good reminder that we are all fallible, all corruptible, power corrupts.

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Those making a fuss about the song also want all of society to conform to their beliefs, rather than taking responsibility for themselves and switching the station.

My mom always said that the only person you can change is you. We can't force others to change, but I feel the younger generation are going to try.

Baby, It's Cold Outside, was written during a time in which women had no right to their own sexuality.

I dispute that it is 'rapey.'

What does that even mean? It is either rape, or it isn't. How is anything rapey? Is that even a word?

Let's take a look at another song; My Old Kentucky Home.

Written by Stephen Foster, it is sung each first Saturday in May, prior to the Kentucky Derby, by some 150,000 people.

Check out those lyrics!

They reference "darkies."

Should those lyrics be changed?

Absolutely!

Nobody, in modern times should be singing such lyrics.

Everybody should be offended.

Now you want to tell everyone what to sing? And what should or should not offend them?

There are limits to everything. "Kamikaze" needs to educate those who call her that. Nicely, humbly educate them as to what kamikaze really was/is. And she, assuming she is not old enough to have lived through WW2, assuming she knows little or nothing about the way the Japanese are said to have treated civilians and POW's during the war, needs to learn about these painful truths.

There are at least 2 sides to every story.

Are we too PC? Yes.

I recently watched "Animal Farm". Hadn't read it or watched it for years. Very eye-opening, a good reminder that we are all fallible, all corruptible, power corrupts.

I really don't understand your comment.

First, the meaning of the word kamikaze, isn't what makes it offensive.

Secondly, are you under some grand illusion that Americans always behave honorably?

Gee, I hate to burst that bubble with a dose of reality.

Now you want to tell everyone what to sing? And what should or should not offend them?

Well, if you see nothing wrong with people singing about darkies, you really are kooky!!!!

I suggest you keep your racist outlook to yourself because it could get you into trouble.

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When someone I work with whispers something to me, chances is are it's not kind and not PC. I don't tolerate it.

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Well, it all depends on you definition of PC.

If PC behavior means I don't have to listen to my patient use the n-word to describe one of my co-workers, then I am all for it!

I live and work in Kentucky, and during the past year, I have been amazed by the amount and frequency of racist outbursts from patients.

I know I'm late to the party but.. ;)

See, I don't see this much. You know I'm in KY too. Maybe it's the part of KY that

I'm in, but I just don't see it... or very seldomly. I do have black coworkers, too.

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Those making a fuss about the song also want all of society to conform to their beliefs, rather than taking responsibility for themselves and switching the station.

My mom always said that the only person you can change is you. We can't force others to change, but I feel the younger generation are going to try.

Curious take on the subject when "anti-PC" sentiment is just another way of refusing to take any responsibility for what comes out of your mouth.

When someone I work with whispers something to me, chances is are it's not kind and not PC. I don't tolerate it.

You are absolutely right.

When co-workers called the Japanese nurse by that slur, I was dumbfounded.

I am not a native of Kentucky, and I am often taken aback by the blatant, in your face racism.

Several patients have refused to have Black nurses. One patient's family member excused the racism by saying: My mother is an old, racist hillbilly.

Yeah, this country could stand to be more PC.

And that's because it is apparently very difficult for segments of the population to be respectful to others if left on their own.

Again, read the results of the NPR/Marist poll.

Nobody following this thread will be surprised.

I know I'm late to the party but.. ;)

See, I don't see this much. You know I'm in KY too. Maybe it's the part of KY that

I'm in, but I just don't see it... or very seldomly. I do have black coworkers, too.

I am just down the road from you, in central KY.

Are you unfamiliar with the words to My Old Kentucky Home?

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Baby, It's Cold Outside, was written during a time in which women had no right to their own sexuality.

I dispute that it is 'rapey.'

What does that even mean? It is either rape, or it isn't. How is anything rapey? Is that even a word?

Let's take a look at another song; My Old Kentucky Home.

Written by Stephen Foster, it is sung each first Saturday in May, prior to the Kentucky Derby, by some 150,000 people.

Check out those lyrics!

They reference "darkies."

Should those lyrics be changed?

Absolutely!

Nobody, in modern times should be singing such lyrics.

Everybody should be offended.

a) It's a long song. I don't think the crowd sits at the KY Derby and

sings the whole song.

b) The controversy about that verse is way old. I actually thought

that it was changed years ago. Maybe not.

c) I'm starting to think you don't like it here. ;) I promise we aren't

all backwoods hillbillies. We really truly aren't.

Specializes in Med/Surge, Psych, LTC, Home Health.

My Old Kentucky Home

The sun shines bright in the old Kentucky home,

Tis summer, the people are gay;

The corn-top's ripe and the meadow's in the bloom

While the birds make music all the day.

The young folks roll on the little cabin floor

All merry, all happy and bright;

By 'n by hard times comes a knocking at the door

Then my old Kentucky home, Good-night!

Chorus:

Weep no more my lady.

Oh! Weep no more today!

We will sing one song

For my old Kentucky home

For the old Kentucky home, far away.

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Uhhuhuhuhuh... You said "gay"...

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Edit: I am just realizing, in the very first stanza, the

word "people", if I'm not mistaken, used to be "darkies".

So I stand corrected, it is at the very beginning of the

song.