An OB's Birth Plan

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Hello,

I've been a member here for a long time but don't post because I decided nursing school with young children at home wasn't something I could personally pull off. I'm 26 weeks with my 3rd (1st 2 were hospital births) and at my last appointment my OB folding a piece of paper in half and handed it to my husband. He told us it was information on hospital policies and things and we could discuss at my next visit. All I saw was the title Dr. ________ "Birth Plan" and I was amused because I know that birth plans can be irrational and badly researched. After I read it I was less amused and now plan on finding another care provider. I do believe the OB is a good doctor and I plan on sending a polite but honest letter and I would also like to cite research in order to leave some possibility that he will rethink his position. I am having trouble finding research.

DR. ________ "BIRTH PLAN"

Dear Patient:

As your obstetrician, it is my goal and responsibility to ensure your safety and your baby's safety during your pregnancy, delivery, and the postpartum period. My practice approach is to use the latest advances in modern obstetrics. There is no doubt that modern obstetrical advances have significantly decreased the incidence of maternal and fetal complications. The following information should clarify my position and is meant to address some commonly asked questions. Please review this information carefully and let me know if you feel uncomfortable in any way with my approach as outlined below.

* Home delivery, underwater delivery, and delivery in a dark room is not allowed.

* I do not accept birth plans. Many birth plans conflict with approved modern obstetrical techniques and guidelines. I follow the

I follow the guidelines of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology which is the organization responsible for setting the standard of care in the United States. Certain organizations, under the guise of "Natural Birth" promote practices that are outdated and unsafe. You should notify me immediately, if you are enrolled in courses that encourage a specific birth plan. Conflicts should be resolved long before we approach your due date. Please note that I do not accept the Bradley Birth Plan. You may ask my office staff for our list of recommended childbirth classes.

* Doulas and labor coaches are allowed and will be treated like other visitors. However, like other visitors, they may be asked to leave if their presence or recommendations hinder my ability to monitor your labor or your baby's well-being.

* IV access during labor is mandatory. Even though labor usually progresses well, not too infrequently, emergencies arise suddenly, necessitating an emergency c-section. The precious few minutes wasted trying to start an IV in an emergency may be crucial to your and your baby's well being.

* Continuous monitoring of your baby's heart rate during the active phase (usually when your cervix is dilated 4cm) is mandatory. This may be done using external belts or if not adequate, by using internal monitors at my discretion. This is the only way I can be sure that your baby is tolerating every contraction. Labor positions that hinder my ability to continuously monitor your baby's heart rate are not allowed.

* Rupture of membranes may become helpful or necessary during your labor. The decision as whether and when to perform this procedure is made at my discretion.

* Epidural anesthesia is optional and available at all times. The most recent scientific data suggest that epidurals are safe and do not interfere with labor in anyway even if administered very early in labor.

* I perform all lady partsl deliveries on a standard labor and delivery bed. Your legs will be positioned in the standard delivery stirrups. This is the most comfortable position for you. It also provides maximum space in your pelvis, minimizing the risk of trauma to you and your baby during delivery.

* Episiotomy is a surgical incision made at the lady partsl opening just before the baby's head is delivered. I routinely perform other standard techniques such as massage and stretching to decrease the need for episiotomies. However, depending on the size of the baby's head and the degree of flexibility of the lady partsl tissue, an episiotomy may become necessary at my discretion to minimize the risk of trauma to you and your baby.

* I will clamp the umbilical cord shortly after I deliver your baby. Delaying this procedure is not beneficial and can potentially be harmful to your baby.

* If your pregnancy is normal, it should not extend much beyond your due date. The rate of maternal and fetal complications increases rapidly after 39 weeks. For this reason, I recommend delivering your baby at around 39-40 weeks of pregnancy. This may happen through spontaneous onset of labor or by inducing labor. Contrary to many outdated beliefs, inducing labor, when done appropriately and at the right time, is safe, and does not increase the amount of pain or the risk of complications or the need for a c-section.

* Compared to the national average, I have a very low c-section rate. However, a c-section may become necessary at any time during labor due to maternal or fetal concerns. The decision as to whether and when to perform this procedure is made at my discretion and it is not negotiable, especially when done for fetal concerns.

Specializes in ER, Peds ER.
Because he's misogynist!!!!!

If this is a true statement then my fiancee would have to do some serious convincing if she really wanted this man delivering our baby. The idea of a misogynistic OB delivering my child and handling my pregnant fiancee just makes me uncomfortable.

Specializes in PICU/NICU.

The only unfortunate thing is that you found out your OB's beliefs this late in the game.

We could argue all day on the topic of home births vs. hospital, bradley vs. hospital philosophy, vaccinations vs no vaccine ect ect.... we, even as health care professionals, will never agree. I happen share the opinions of your doc from my personal experience as a NICU nurse(home births gone wrong resulting in trached/vent dependent baby, IVH in term infants who did not receive Vit K for example). And I totally understand that for every 1 horrible NICU admit there are 100s of healthy home births/ tubs births/ births unmonitored with no IV, ect, ect that others can attest to. I say to each his own.

It is unfortunate that you are finding this out at 26 weeks. I think that you should let your OB know that you do not share the same "birth plan" and you feel that you cannot continue to see him/her- that this is a deal breaker for you. Make sure you suggest that this letter be given to patients on their FIRST OB visit- after all, this would have saved you alot of trouble and stress!

You say you believe this is a good doc, I'm sure he/her could refer you to someone who shares your same ideas.

Congratulations on your pregnancy!! Please keep us posted!

Specializes in Ante-Intra-Postpartum, Post Gyne.
Sorry ....but I was a L&D nurse out of school for a bit in a hospital that did 300+ deliveries a month. HOWEVER, that being said........I can't say as I disagree with one single thing in this "plan". Yes it is blunt but it is to the point.

What is "a bit"? One week?

Epidural anesthesia is optional and available at all times. The most recent scientific data suggest that epidurals are safe and do not interfere with labor in anyway even if administered very early in labor.

Scientific data? But not evidence based.

I perform all lady partsl deliveries on a standard labor and delivery bed. Your legs will be positioned in the standard delivery stirrups. This is the most comfortable position for you. It also provides maximum space in your pelvis, minimizing the risk of trauma to you and your baby during delivery.

Um, LIAR! lets re-phrase that. "I perform all lady partsl deliveries on a standard labor and delivery bed. Your legs will be positioned in the standard delivery stirrups. This is the most convenient position for me. It also does not provides maximum space in your pelvis (squatting does), increasing the risk of trauma to you and your baby during delivery; oh and your pushing against gravity."

I will clamp the umbilical cord shortly after I deliver your baby. Delaying this procedure is not beneficial and can potentially be harmful to your baby.

Yet another lie. Studies show OTHERWISE:

RESULTS: The late cord-clamped group showed consistently higher haemoglobin levels than the early cord-clamped group, both at the age of 1 hour (mean (SD) 13.4 (1.9) mmol/l vs 11.1 (1.7) mmol/l), and at 10 weeks (6.7 (0.75) mmol/l vs 6.0 (0.65) mmol/l). No relationship between delayed clamping of the umbilical cord and pathological jaundice or polycythaemia was found. CONCLUSION: Immediate clamping of the umbilical cord should be discouraged.

Based on a summation of all findings the author concludes and advocates that slightly delayed cord clamping between 30 seconds and five minutes after birth is superior to immediate cord clamping done at delivery.

as well as several others.

I believe in EBP (evidence based practice) not DCP (doctor convenience practice)

The only unfortunate thing is that you found out your OB's beliefs this late in the game.

We could argue all day on the topic of home births vs. hospital, bradley vs. hospital philosophy, vaccinations vs no vaccine ect ect.... we, even as health care professionals, will never agree. I happen share the opinions of your doc from my personal experience as a NICU nurse(home births gone wrong resulting in trached/vent dependent baby, IVH in term infants who did not receive Vit K for example). And I totally understand that for every 1 horrible NICU admit there are 100s of healthy home births/ tubs births/ births unmonitored with no IV, ect, ect that others can attest to. I say to each his own.

It is unfortunate that you are finding this out at 26 weeks. I think that you should let your OB know that you do not share the same "birth plan" and you feel that you cannot continue to see him/her- that this is a deal breaker for you. Make sure you suggest that this letter be given to patients on their FIRST OB visit- after all, this would have saved you alot of trouble and stress!

You say you believe this is a good doc, I'm sure he/her could refer you to someone who shares your same ideas.

Congratulations on your pregnancy!! Please keep us posted!

i would think it is the almighty dollar....if he does it late enough, some persons will simlply cave, and stay with him, if he did it early on, they would more likely leave, arshole

Specializes in PICU/NICU.
i would think it is the almighty dollar....if he does it late enough, some persons will simlply cave, and stay with him, if he did it early on, they would more likely leave, arshole

You may be right..... also, It might be harder to find a new OB when you are already this far along???

Specializes in L&D.

I give the guy props for being honest with you, it's just a shame he doesn't hand this out at the first prenatal visit. He's probably not quite as bad as his "plan" makes him sound, but I'm glad you're looking for another doctor. This it the doc for the patient who doesn't want to make any important decisions for herself. There are providers who enjoy working with women who do want to make their own informed decisions.

Thank you all for your responses. Elvish, I read over the links and feel like I can formulate a more informed response now. I realize that he is extremely unlikely to listen to me but I also think it's my duty as a human being to send an articulate and non-inflammatory response.

You know...if he had just said this is the way I like to work and I'm not willing to do things in an inconvenient, for me, way. I would have respected that. I would have left but at least it would be honest. What is most upsetting is not that he does these things but that he is lying and manipulating in a way that takes away the ability of his patients to make an educated informed consent. Maybe I did want to go to the hospital and get "plugged in" immediately and have an early epidural then lay there in stirrups while he suctions the baby out but I think that if I choose to do that I should be made aware of the risks. I worked in the medical field for years (predominantly plastics) and informed consent is such a huge deal. Our pre-op appointments were an hour and we would go over every minute detail and risk to make sure that people were choosing wisely and carefully. As I was ranting on the subject of informed consent yesterday it dawned on me that informed consent is barely present in obstetrics. My last OB was more flexible but I was certainly not really aware of the consequences of the choices I made and I always felt solely personally responsible for that but after some thinking I feel that OBs should be required to educate their patients of the risks and benefits in the same way that other specialties have to.

Sigh. I am off to meet with a midwife and I'm sure she will be wonderful but I feel like my choices have been narrowed and they didn't need to be.

I'm sorry he didn't let you know sooner. While it's better you know all this before you are actually in the hospital ready to deliver I can't help feeling it was handed over so late in the game to somewhat trap you into staying with him. I wouldn't. It would be a cold day in hell when someone told me I had to have stirrups, etc. He doesn't sound flexible or warm or even remotely modern in his thinking. I'd pass and find another doctor.

Specializes in L&D, MBU, NICU,.

You are so right about informed consent! It certainly is nearly missing from OB, although I think you will usually find it with a midwife. I think it is terrible the way that many OBs manipulate their clients for their own convenience without ever discussing the risks and benefits of all those interventions. Though, truthfully, there also are women out there (I see them every hospital shift that I work) who even in 2009 don't want to know about options and risks; they just want someone else to take responsibility for making their choices for them. I find that very sad. Anyway, I do wish you all the best. I hope you find a midwife that you love and that you have a wonderful birth experience...keep us posted, please!

Yeah, forget "informed consent," this guy isn't really even into "consent" at all. What's up with the "at my discretion" used several places in his letter?

Specializes in Psych, ER, Resp/Med, LTC, Education.

And I certainly don't mean to step on toes either--everyone is entitled to their opinion here. I am all for a patient having a midwife deliver and having all other staff stay out of the hospital room and letting her and her patient and the patients parner/spouse have whatever experience they need to have. dim light, a quiet and calm environment, moving around, the warm tub.....When I had these patients protocol was we just had to do a hand held quick check doppler fetal HR, done in the tub...all good? then they go back to doing their thing. Thats fine ....but if need be all the care the mom or baby could need in a emergency is on the other side of the wall. Not needed then fine --they stay out and let you be. Thats all.

I am just not a big fan of using the--we have done it like that for years ---yeah well we didn't use car seats back in the day either......or for that matter wash hands like we do today!! LOL

WOW!!!!!!

I have never seen anything like this is my entire career!! He or she is crazy! I am going to print this and post it at work and see what my coworkers say!

Please find another doc.

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