An OB's Birth Plan

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Hello,

I've been a member here for a long time but don't post because I decided nursing school with young children at home wasn't something I could personally pull off. I'm 26 weeks with my 3rd (1st 2 were hospital births) and at my last appointment my OB folding a piece of paper in half and handed it to my husband. He told us it was information on hospital policies and things and we could discuss at my next visit. All I saw was the title Dr. ________ "Birth Plan" and I was amused because I know that birth plans can be irrational and badly researched. After I read it I was less amused and now plan on finding another care provider. I do believe the OB is a good doctor and I plan on sending a polite but honest letter and I would also like to cite research in order to leave some possibility that he will rethink his position. I am having trouble finding research.

DR. ________ "BIRTH PLAN"

Dear Patient:

As your obstetrician, it is my goal and responsibility to ensure your safety and your baby's safety during your pregnancy, delivery, and the postpartum period. My practice approach is to use the latest advances in modern obstetrics. There is no doubt that modern obstetrical advances have significantly decreased the incidence of maternal and fetal complications. The following information should clarify my position and is meant to address some commonly asked questions. Please review this information carefully and let me know if you feel uncomfortable in any way with my approach as outlined below.

* Home delivery, underwater delivery, and delivery in a dark room is not allowed.

* I do not accept birth plans. Many birth plans conflict with approved modern obstetrical techniques and guidelines. I follow the

I follow the guidelines of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology which is the organization responsible for setting the standard of care in the United States. Certain organizations, under the guise of "Natural Birth" promote practices that are outdated and unsafe. You should notify me immediately, if you are enrolled in courses that encourage a specific birth plan. Conflicts should be resolved long before we approach your due date. Please note that I do not accept the Bradley Birth Plan. You may ask my office staff for our list of recommended childbirth classes.

* Doulas and labor coaches are allowed and will be treated like other visitors. However, like other visitors, they may be asked to leave if their presence or recommendations hinder my ability to monitor your labor or your baby's well-being.

* IV access during labor is mandatory. Even though labor usually progresses well, not too infrequently, emergencies arise suddenly, necessitating an emergency c-section. The precious few minutes wasted trying to start an IV in an emergency may be crucial to your and your baby's well being.

* Continuous monitoring of your baby's heart rate during the active phase (usually when your cervix is dilated 4cm) is mandatory. This may be done using external belts or if not adequate, by using internal monitors at my discretion. This is the only way I can be sure that your baby is tolerating every contraction. Labor positions that hinder my ability to continuously monitor your baby's heart rate are not allowed.

* Rupture of membranes may become helpful or necessary during your labor. The decision as whether and when to perform this procedure is made at my discretion.

* Epidural anesthesia is optional and available at all times. The most recent scientific data suggest that epidurals are safe and do not interfere with labor in anyway even if administered very early in labor.

* I perform all lady partsl deliveries on a standard labor and delivery bed. Your legs will be positioned in the standard delivery stirrups. This is the most comfortable position for you. It also provides maximum space in your pelvis, minimizing the risk of trauma to you and your baby during delivery.

* Episiotomy is a surgical incision made at the lady partsl opening just before the baby's head is delivered. I routinely perform other standard techniques such as massage and stretching to decrease the need for episiotomies. However, depending on the size of the baby's head and the degree of flexibility of the lady partsl tissue, an episiotomy may become necessary at my discretion to minimize the risk of trauma to you and your baby.

* I will clamp the umbilical cord shortly after I deliver your baby. Delaying this procedure is not beneficial and can potentially be harmful to your baby.

* If your pregnancy is normal, it should not extend much beyond your due date. The rate of maternal and fetal complications increases rapidly after 39 weeks. For this reason, I recommend delivering your baby at around 39-40 weeks of pregnancy. This may happen through spontaneous onset of labor or by inducing labor. Contrary to many outdated beliefs, inducing labor, when done appropriately and at the right time, is safe, and does not increase the amount of pain or the risk of complications or the need for a c-section.

* Compared to the national average, I have a very low c-section rate. However, a c-section may become necessary at any time during labor due to maternal or fetal concerns. The decision as to whether and when to perform this procedure is made at my discretion and it is not negotiable, especially when done for fetal concerns.

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As a childbirth instructor and OB nurse along with my CBE partner, we created a BIRTH PREFERENCE STATEMENT for our patients in our OB practice whereby they can check off those things they want to call our attention to in their labor experiences. These things are all preferences they can have and all fall within our policies and was signed off by our OBs in the office, as well. This way, the patients and their support people feel they have control over their birth experiences, the nurses/doctors know what they want and everyone is on the same page. And no one is promised anything that cannot be delivered or respected.

I can provide an example/copy via PM if anyone is interested. It's being well-received in my CB classes now and I while it's not a birth plan that is written by the patients themselves, it's includes many of the preferences like immediate skin-to-skin contact, delay of bathing and meds, environmental preferences, etc, that patient oftentimes express anyhow, things that we have learned are solid, EBP (evidence-based practices) that should be easy for anyone to implement and are shown to increase the satisfaction on the parts of our patients and their loved ones/support people in the long run in their birth experiences.

will do blue eyes!!!!:yeah:

Take care!!!

As a childbirth instructor and OB nurse along with my CBE partner, we created a BIRTH PREFERENCE STATEMENT for our patients in our OB practice whereby they can check off those things they want to call our attention to in their labor experiences. These things are all preferences they can have and all fall within our policies and was signed off by our OBs in the office, as well. This way, the patients and their support people feel they have control over their birth experiences, the nurses/doctors know what they want and everyone is on the same page. And no one is promised anything that cannot be delivered or respected.

I can provide an example/copy via PM if anyone is interested. It's being well-received in my CB classes now and I while it's not a birth plan that is written by the patients themselves, it's includes many of the preferences like immediate skin-to-skin contact, delay of bathing and meds, environmental preferences, etc, that patient oftentimes express anyhow, things that we have learned are solid, EBP (evidence-based practices) that should be easy for anyone to implement and are shown to increase the satisfaction on the parts of our patients and their loved ones/support people in the long run in their birth experiences.

That is a great idea!! Some patients have expectations that they never verbalize and others just never think. What a great tool to get everyone on board with things, especially staff! I may have to steal this idea! Hope you don't mind!

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Wow, as a preggo myself (31 weeks) I read that with my mouth hanging open! This is exactly why I went with a midwife and not an OB. I am very open to things needing to be done during the birth process, but I would like to have some control over what MY body is trying to do!! There has to be a nice compromise in there somewhere! In a true emergency, believe me, you can do whatever you need to to ensure my baby's safetly as well as my own, but for a routine, uneventful birth please stand back and let nature take its course as much as possible!

As a childbirth instructor and OB nurse along with my CBE partner, we created a BIRTH PREFERENCE STATEMENT for our patients in our OB practice whereby they can check off those things they want to call our attention to in their labor experiences. These things are all preferences they can have and all fall within our policies and was signed off by our OBs in the office, as well. This way, the patients and their support people feel they have control over their birth experiences, the nurses/doctors know what they want and everyone is on the same page. And no one is promised anything that cannot be delivered or respected.

I can provide an example/copy via PM .

can I get a copy for (some reason I can't send a PM) ? I am a CBE & Doula and I think that is a great idea!

Did you ever send a letter Poppy? I'd send that OB a letter and thank him for honesty which allowed you to plan a positive birth experience. Or send him a birth announcement or Christmas card.

On one hand, it's nice that was honest. On the other hand, he sounds totally abusive to women in labor. I'm glad you went with the birth center. My 1st ob told me I'd never birth lady partslly on account of my small pelvis. Not only did I birth lady partslly the 2nd time, but I went completely drug free. :)

Sorry ....but I was a L&D nurse out of school for a bit in a hospital that did 300+ deliveries a month. I hate to tell you this...yes most doctors don't actually type this all out and call it a birth plan and this is a bit weird...most talk about this stuff --to you and your spouse/partner.........HOWEVER, that being said........I can't say as I disagree with one single thing in this "plan". Yes it is blunt but it is to the point. He is there for your and your babies best interest and I think you took this in the wrong way. Especially if you liked him in person, if he had good bedside manor. I hate to say this but this is how most docs practice even if they don't put it into writing like this doc did. I might suggest that you find a midwife. And honestly I am a huge believer that at home deliveries are just stupid. I have seen bad things happen REALLY fast in what was EXPECTED to be a totally normal and routine delivery. Times when if that delivery was going on at home both mom and baby would have died!!! A matter of a few minutes between --all is good and holy crap get into the OR NOW!!! We got about 10 seconds to get this baby out....I've seen a mom go into DIC and end up almost dying and in the ICU for weeks afterward--totally unexpected. That is a HUGE risk to deliver a home. Stupid if you ask me. As far as the Bradley method-- done by the book so to say this plan is a huge pain in the butt!! And my biggest problem with it is that it tells not to have a baby getting the meds that are standard to give on delivery-- The shot of Vit.K which is needed for the baby to be able to clot his own blood--adults produce Vit. K in the intestinal tract, by bacteria there...this does not happen right away in babies. They should get Erythromycin ointment in the eyes to prevent infections from causing blindness......this method tell parents not to allow these meds......the other benefit the baby gets from the shot is that yes they cry a bit...but in a brand new baby that is good, the crying helps them to clear their lungs....I have seen babies that didn't cry at all until that shot, despite many efforts and this was what got them crying to clear the lungs.....something they have to do.

So despite the fact that this is a kind of impersonal and blunt way to tell you what he needs to be able to care for you the best way he knows how.......I totally agree with everything. Sorry. Too many woman forget that childbirth is serious and babies die and moms die when doctors are not allowed to do everything they can to protect thier patients. OB's are sued a lot and, if your baby died, you would be the first to sue if this stuff was not done.

And really things like being required to have an IV.....I always have thought this should be done. Its there if you need it in an emergency. No wasted time. Your life and your babies are worth it.

I would have no problems working with him as a nurse

nor would I have any problems with him delivering my babies........of course if he also had a good bedside manor. I would know that me and my baby were safe and getting the best care possible. And BTW I have had 2 of my own and so this is a mom speaking too!! lol -- I wis I would have had an IV early --they blew mine 3 times in a row and then it was too late to get my epidural.

I really think if you like this docs bedside manor and he seems nice you might want to rethink this........he may be a really good doc. I worked with many that were wonderful and the patients loved and yes they said these things a little more nicely but most of them had the same ideas!!!

good luck and I hope all goes well with the delivery!!

I hope my honesty helps......

Should a C Section baby have the eye Rx? Should an NSVD baby whose mom is free of infection have it?

What did we do before Vit K?

I've never worked OB but I think there's a little too much "medicine" involved - when the L&D is healthy and uneventful. If an emergency comes up, all bets are off. Lifesaving first, apologies later.

I realize that this"Birth Plan"May sound cut and dried but is no more ridiculous than the ones I have read printed off the internet. Things like reaching into the incision and touching the baby during a c-sect and other things.

I have worked L&D for many years and have seen more people show up for natural delivery with no more preparation than for a pedicure. The "Baby Story' is not real. Babies rarely come in 1/2 hr. Labor hurts and your doula is not legally responsible for your care. We don't have time to let you decide if your baby is crashing and you need a c-section. Dont gain 85 lbs and expect an easy time. Don't be induced if you don't want to be monitored

I will bend over backwords to assist my pts. but prepare yourself for no pain meds. And most of all don't let your SO, sister mother or any other person speak for you

I respect this DR for letting his pts know in advance

In other words....Despite that the U.S. Has the third highest infant and maternal mortality rate cough*, there is no doubt that medical advances have decreased this..?? And BTW your plans are not important so don't even bother thinking, I could care less, you don't know how to birth, I only trust and use medical interventions, your are fobidden ... To even consider a natural birth..contact me immediatly if one of those cults try to brainwash you... Doulas are devils and they will be treated like every other visitor, and banned from your torture chamber if they speak out of turn. You will be strapped down, and immoblized, at my discrection I may use internal moniters, rupture you membranes..cough* duct tape your mouth..so I suggest you get numb veeeerrry early!! You will be most comfortable flat on your back with your legs spread eagle in stirrups, because this will cough**minimize? Trauma to you and your baby, because all babies love to descend horizontally...this of course will not interfere w/ tearing because I will just slice your lady parts instead. Delay in cord clamping is cough*dangerous?? So it must be done immediatly..and normal pregnancies do not extend due date.. So again don't think or listen to outdated lies..you will have your baby when and how I say..39 weeks I will inject unsafe chemicals into your body, because cough* this is safe because I say so..?? And of course when it's time for dinner or getting late, I will let you know your babies heartrate is dropping and he could die and cut him out, take him away, leave you alone, dazed and confused, scarred and bruised, so sign on the line...I win you lose!

"If you want a Humanized Birth, Get the Hell out of the Hospital" Quote by Marsden Wagner

It's obvious this doctor does not want any educated patients and therefore hands this out to "weed them out" because he does not want to deal with anyone that does not want to do things his way.

At least you found out soon enough to change OB's.

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