This really sux that I have to make a post like this.
I am a rather soft-spoken person who has a large group of friends, but I am not into drama or cliques at ALL. I entered into a RN-BSN program last summer. The five others who are also enrolled were together for 6 months before I came along. Well let me tell you, they do not include me in on anything, they make snide remarks to me, roll their eyes, they never say hi, they all walk in/walk out/go on breaks together like they are in some pack, and sadly....anytime I give a presentation, I see one person send a text, and when she puts her phone down, another girls picks up her phone, types something, puts her phone down, then the other picks hers up...you get the pic. All of them are in their early to late 30's. They are also all on Facebook together.
I keep my distance, but I always remain nice. I say hi, I smile, I pay attention to when they present, etc. I do not sit in their turf, I don't go on breaks with them, I don't wait for them after class, did not friend them on facebook, etc. I have also turned quite submissive around them, I guess I fear being talked about/talked down to. I am thisclose to asking my doc for a tab of ativan to get me through my next presentation on the final day of the semester, but I hate the idea of medicating myself because of them.
Any advice?? I don't want to run to the instructor about any of this. I would feel way too childish.