We are so accustomed to ageism in our society that it's not always recognized for what it is- prejudice and discrimination.
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Barbara, a nurse of 27 years, left her job interview with the strong feeling that they were not going to "be in touch". She was dismayed because it had taken several applications to land one interview. Her skills were solid and her work history exemplary until her hospital had recently laid off Barbara (an educator), a clinical nurse specialist, and the manager of Cath Lab in one fell swoop of "re-organizing". The 3 were all over fifty years old and Barbara wondered if that was a coincidence.
Ageism is prejudice or discrimination based on one's age. While many Baby Boomers are retiring, the retirement age is rising and many people will need to remain in the workforce at an older age. Full Social Security benefits start at age 66 years and 2 months for those born in 1955.
People can no more choose their age that they can choose their race or gender. The difference is that while race and gender do not change, everyone who lives long enough will age.
Even so, while it's not politically correct to be racist or sexist, it's still OK to be ageist.
Ageism is deeply permeated in our society and expressed everywhere- in magazines, on TV, in the workplace. It's a part of our shared consciousness in the United States to value youth over age. Since it's the norm, many are not even aware of how ageist our culture is...until they experience it.
Many of us are guilty of remarks such as "She's pretty sharp for her age" and "I'm having a senior moment" without realizing such comments perpetuate a commonly held negative view of seniors. Birthday parties after a certain age are a good example. Black balloons symbolize the perceived tragedy of growing older.
Even those who pride themselves on being tolerant and inclusive may see the elderly as "others" who are burdensome and a drain on the economy. Cultural diversity and acceptance is now the norm- with the exception of ageism.
Women, in particular, lose a great deal of perceived value once they exceed their childbearing years.
Unlike women, aging men are given a pass and can still be considered attractive, especially if they are wealthy and powerful.
Judy, a nurse of 27 years, began to notice that she didn't feel as valued on the unit as she once did. She recalled hearing the expression "feeling invisible" and realized she was beginning to understand it. At the same time, doctors the same age as her seemed to grow in authority and respect.
A recent study shows that physicians are less likely to experience ageism than nurses. One explanation is that physicians are seen as experts, while nurses are not. Experts are allowed to age without discrimination.
Signs of ageism in the workplace include:
Not being included in conversation. Seniors are often assumed to be culturally clueless.
Frequently being asked "When are you going to retire?”
Being passed over for promotions. Promoting a young, relatively inexperienced nurse to charge nurse over a mature, seasoned nurse.
Being pushed out of the workforce. Older nurses are more expensive and are pushed out in many cases. This despite the fact they are less likely than younger nurses to get their NP and leave after 2 years.
No one likes to be stereotyped, whether it's men or women, millennials or seniors. Baby boomers are not all the same anymore than millenials are all the same.
Common generalizations about older workers are that they are less healthy, will incur more medical costs, are less skilled, and do not learn as fast as their younger counterparts.
The biggest workplace discrimination is in hiring. Some organizations have an unwritten policy against hiring anyone over 40. Computer algorithms are used to figure out an applicant's age, even when graduation dates are omitted and work histories shortened. Even first names are a giveaway- everyone knows Linda, Kathy, Sue were born in the '60s, while Tiffany, Jessica, and Amber are millennials.
One strategy to eliminate older workers is to eliminate their position, only to rename the position or slightly change the responsibilities and open it back up...to a younger applicant.
To combat ageism, applicants need to know how to showcase their value and combat age discrimination in the job interview.
The Age Discrimination Act of 1967 protects employees 40 years old and older but age discrimination is a hidden discrimination that is difficult to impossible to prove.
Aging is a normal process of living and is experienced differently by everyone. Aging is not a choice, but ageism is.
Diversity benefits us all. Diversity helps us celebrate what we have in common, respect our differences, and connect in surprising ways.
It is very satisfying to work on a multi-generational team where everyone is respected. Many new nurses do value the knowledge, experience and wisdom older nurses have, and depend on them for guidance. Likewise, seasoned nurses are inspired by the passion and ideals of new grads.
Refusing to perpetuate ageism benefits not only the current generation, but the next. Valuing each other makes us all better humans-humans who are all on the same journey of life.
12 hours ago, caliotter3 said:Not on topic, a question. What is going on in this thread with all of the guest posts? There are so many of them that it does not seem normal.
I don't know, but I don't like it! It seems that if you're going to post controversial opinions, you should take accountability for them. I pulled up AN on an old iPad, and it let me start posting an opinion. Only after I had finished composing the post did I realize that I wasn't signed in and was posting as a guest. Oops! I didn't hit the "Submit Reply" button, and I'll be very careful in the future to avoid doing the same.
1 minute ago, Ruby Vee said:I don't know, but I don't like it! It seems that if you're going to post controversial opinions, you should take accountability for them. I pulled up AN on an old iPad, and it let me start posting an opinion. Only after I had finished composing the post did I realize that I wasn't signed in and was posting as a guest. Oops! I didn't hit the "Submit Reply" button, and I'll be very careful in the future to avoid doing the same.
I didn't even know this was how it works. I always thought guest posts were from people who had shut down their accounts.
On 1/19/2019 at 11:34 AM, morelostthanfound said:This is only partially true...to see the bigger picture, as some have suggested, is to 'follow the money'. It's not about not smiling enough, having wrinkles, wearing bifocals, not embracing technology...all red herrings. More likely, it's that seasoned nurses usually command much higher wages than entry level/inexperienced nurses and often, are not as easily malleable to the sometimes ridiculous demands and wishes of the 'pencil pushing' MBA administrators. For them (management), what's proven to be better for the bottom line is to whittle away over time at employee benefits, effect wage stagnation, and disincentivize long-term employment.
Believe me, years ago, as a young nurse, I didn't see or believe it either, after all, it's expensive to hire and train new staff-right? The sad reality is that having worked in many states and hospital systems, I have come to see that nurses are sometimes considered an expendable commodity. In many overcrowded markets with a ready supply of applicants, this formula has proven to be effective. Ah yes, better to make nurses feel that after years of loyal service, they're no longer relevant or "can't meet the demands" of the job. So yes, ageism in nursing is alive and well. I suggest that if you haven't witnessed it yourself, to consider yourself fortunate.
Thank you for stating what I was getting ready to. I live in a very saturated rural market, 1 local hospital began finding reasons to let seasoned nurses go, the other forced them to take pay cuts if they wanted to stay. The former has nothing but brand new nurses all the time and can't figure out why they leave to go be NPs or to other non-bedside nurses, and they've had to up their pay game to compete with out of town hospitals. The other still has their seasoned staff, but they are not a happy bunch, knowing to command a fair wage, they would have to drive 1-1.5hrs to the big city hospitals, which still may not get them a job. None of them want the drive either way. For whatever reason, neither facility wants to pay the seasoned nurses what they are worth, and it makes no sense whatsoever. Thankful to be out of the acute care game!
23 hours ago, Guest Jekgrn3 said:I agree with ataymil8. I am in my mid 50s and have been a nurse manager for many years. Most of the time it boils down to finances not necessarily ageism.
Call it what you want, but usually the older seasoned nurses are the ones that are getting higher rates. I'm grateful that I haven't been in that position as I left acute care years ago. I have a few friends that have been touched by 'cutbacks'
I turn 72 next month. I don't want to retire yet, but am getting very tired of the OMG when are you going to retire or I sure don't want to be working past 60 etc etc. I am respected by doctors, families, patients, and staff. I know my nursing and was hoping I would know "when to leave". I don't want to stay and be a "that" person who didn't know when to leave, I just had a performance review and there was only one issue. We now have portable phones with voicemail. I don't like voicemail in the role I am in, but now make a more concerted effort to reply. As technologically savvy as I am, and I am, I liken my job to being a traffic controller and keeping the flow smooth with a minimum of angst amongst staff, administration, and patients/families.
I love the work I do. Working on an ACE unit means educating people about elder-friendly care and I am a walking example of showing that just because you are older doesn't mean you are done. Maybe I'll never be done. If I retire I will go back to school or ???? Dilemma, dilemma.
Those of us who are older nurses will surely remember President Ronald Reagan's classic 1984 presidential debate comment, when grilled about his age precluding his being able to do the work, "I want you to know that also I will not make age an issue of this campaign. I am not going to exploit, for political purposes, my opponent's youth and inexperience."
This is a good topic, and I agree with many of the posters who noted the value of experience. Education is wonderful, of course, but experience and maturity can take a good many years in the field. We need, young, middle-aged, and older nurses - we are all in a tough but rewarding field - it takes all of us.
During an interview, at a large teaching hospital, I was asked by the nurse manager how I would deal with a charge nurse younger than myself. When called back for a peer panel interview, two questions were asked regarding working with and being supervised by younger nurses. Several other, more subtle remarks, were made during a unit walk through and conversation with the Clinical Nurse Specialist.
A position was offered, but only on nights (we need more experience on that shift).
Ultimately, I passed on the opportunity.
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I didn’t feel I was defensive. Actually, I did just try to tune out the men are better part as this article is about ageism, not sexual discrimination. I’ve met some in all age groups who are a$$es. That’s a personality issue, not an age issue