Advice for new students

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attention new nursing students: :lol2:

first off, congratulations to everyone who is just starting nursing school :yeah:don't forget that there are a lot of people out there who are putting everything they have into this and still have not been accepted into a program, we have been given a great opportunity here. i got rejected several times by the program i was applying to, and most of you know that it can be devastating. i was finally accepted to that program for this summer and didn't make it, i failed out of the program, but somehow...miraculously, i had gotten accepted into another program for the fall, i was on a waitlist and when i received the letter stating that there was a spot available i called them and told them to give it to the next person on the list. then the other day i failed my clinical exam and was discharged from the program :bluecry1:. when i called the other school to see if i could get back on the waitlist i was told that someone had just called to give up their seat and i could have it!!! :bow:

anyway...long story short...school as you know it is over. these people mean business and there is no room for screwing up. they probably will not care that you have 3 kids at home or that your electricity was shut off, or that you have anxiety, or your house burned down, your dog ran away, your kids are sick,,,i don't know, whatever it may be, they might not care. they also may not be fair, may decide to pick on you and give other students more slack than they give you. as hard as you worked to get into this program, there are a lot of other people who worked just as hard and didn't make it so don't take it for granted. put your head down, keep your mouth shut, and do your very best! ask for help, study non-stop, and put every ounce of your being into this. act like your life depends on it because in a way it does. this isn't just school, this is your life, your dreams, and your opportunity to be successful and have a better life for you and your family. just do everything they ask, don't question it, and make lots of friends in class. this is your chance to shine, to show everyone what you can do, and to learn to be the best nurse possible. i went into the program so confident that i could do it, and though i still feel that i didn't get a fair shot, i learned the hard way that fair has nothing to do with it. so be early for every class, stay after to practice, and do your very best.

good luck to all of you!!!

The old saying "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" can definately apply to nursing school!

I second that. Bravo :yelclap:

I too was accepted into a program and will start this Fall. I've worked my entire life to be the best that I can be, even in high school. Nowadays, you can't expect the world to lift you up when you're falling. I can't imagine going through nursing school with children and jobs to put food on the table at the same time. As future nurses, we must walk through the fire so that we can come out purely refined people with the skills, compassion, and dedication to do our job. I sincerely hope that we all come out of this experience with our hopes and dreams still intact and with the dedication to helping everyone who needs our help. :hug:

No, the OP has failed twice and is now taking up another spot that someone else who is more serious about their college education could have taken. I know this may sound harsh, but the truth usually is to those who cannot see it for themselves even when it is right in front of them. It is good to see that you do not give up easily, but there are some changes to be made!

You need to take your own advice...as a matter of fact you should have taken your own advice your first go 'round of nursing school, now you are in your third. You must be very young because everything you are saying in your post as advice for others are things you should have known and taken seriously before you even applied to college, especially a nursing program.

I know there are other people who could have had my spot, but they didn't get it, you know why? Because I worked harder, stayed up later, studied more, sacrificed more, delt better with more stress and left them in my dust. They want my spot, well they gotta catch me first! Je suis prest, "I am ready!"

And I don't expect my teachers to care what is going on in my life and make exceptions for lil' ol' me, I don't expect to be treated special, my class mates are working just as hard, some even harder and have problems too, they can't make exceptions for everybody and when you get out into the workforce the world doesn't care about your problems, harsh as that is; life is not fair. You are doing this for you, not the people who didn't make it. I had so much at home stress going on, on top of school stress, that I would often vomit daily before class and sometimes I would have to get up in the middle of class to throw up. But I am still going strong and making good grades. Don't let anything get in your way, keep your dream/goal in front of you and keep on truckn'!

I hope you take this go around more seriously, because you are correct, a college degree is life changing and it is your future on the line. I genuinely wish you luck and hope that you get through this, and give it everything you've got! :hug: And yeah nursing school is not easy, but if it was, I wouldn't be doing it, I would be looking for something more challenging!

Sorry about the confusion...it is not my 3rd go around, I just started in a summer semester 3 weeks ago, I failed a clinical exam that was pass or fail because I got a blood pressure of 112/60 and my instructor got a reading of 120/68 15-20 minutes later. There was some other issues as well but I studied hard, got an A and a B on our two exams and got discharged from the program because of the clinical exam. When we sat down and reviewed the exam the blood pressure was the one thing that I failed after it was all said and done. Those examples of things that instructors may not care about are things I got from other peoples posts, not related to my own situation. I've read a lot of posts about people feeling that they weren't treated fairly and I just wanted to send a message stating that it's not fair, but it's how it is. I posted this as an encouragement to new students, but I felt that your post was rather harsh, especially since you obviously misunderstood what I was saying. I was in this program for 2 1/2 weeks, at this point in my life I can honestly say that I take full resposibility for my actions and own up to everything I do or say. I know what it's like to want more than anything to get into a program and watch people screw up their chances when I would have given it everything I had. This isn't my third chance, I was extremely fortunate to get a second chance, especially considering the program I will be attending only has 30 seats and I was one of over 300 applicants. I got dealt a ****** hand, I was not given the same chances as my peers, I was picked apart by this instructor and it was completely unfair. I'm not making it up or playing it up at all, I have gone over and over it in my head, it is what it is, but it wasn't right. So I don't think I need to make any changes, I have never taken this opportunity for granted. I just wanted to remind everyone else that they shouldn't either.

Specializes in Urgent Care, Oncology.

You failed becaue of one BP? That's odd.

Specializes in Adult Internal Medicine.
You failed becaue of one BP? That's odd.

If I recall correctly from the other post she failed the retake due to a BP and some other concerns, not sure what happened in the first exam.

Specializes in Med-Surg.

Its logical, I'm my program you can be kicked our for 2 or 4+/-(can't remember) BP error on evals. At least you're acknowledging you were at fault sorry so many people are jumping down your throat. Hope you get everything on track this time, Good luck!

I was late to the 1st exam...I know, big mistake. But we talked and she agreed to put it behind us. The actual exam came down to the BP. That's what I'm saying, new students be careful, do your very best. It happens, that's all. I shouldn't have given her a reason to be so critical. I failed that exam for things that other students were given a chance to do over. I'm not trying to defend myself, just simply offering a little advice to other new students. It was suppose to be a post to give people a little inspiration because I've seen so many people complaining that they got a ****** deal and it happens, it's not fair, but if there's one thing I've learned in my days...life aint fair. So lighten up folks, I'm taking this experience as fate, one of those things that happens for a reason, and live and learn. I've beat myself up enough, why would anyone want to make me feel worse??? :(

Specializes in Adult Internal Medicine.
I was late to the 1st exam...I know big mistake. But we talked and she agreed to put it behind us. The actual exam came down to the BP. That's what I'm saying, new students be careful, do your very best. It happens, that's all. I shouldn't have given her a reason to be so critical. I failed that exam for things that other students were given a chance to do over. I'm not trying to defend myself, just simply offering a little advice to other new students. It was suppose to be a post to give people a little inspiration because I've seen so many people complaining that they got a ****** deal and it happens, it's not fair, but if there's one thing I've learned in my days...life aint fair. So lighten up folks, I'm taking this experience as fate, one of those things that happens for a reason, and live and learn. I've beat myself up enough, why would anyone want to make me feel worse??? :([/quote']

Now that you have made two posts on the same topic, why did you fail the first exam?

Specializes in Forensic Psych.

Now that you have made two posts on the same topic, why did you fail the first exam?

She failed some critical points in her assessments? That's about all we know.

I like your post and will definitely take it into consideration. Let's not be so harsh she was just being honest. & she didn't have to share her story but she did. You go girl... Keep your head up.

"I got dealt a ****** hand, I was not given the same chances as my peers, I was picked apart by this instructor and it was completely unfair."

You didn't explain how you were picked apart by your instructors. From what I have seen, an instructor only picks you apart to test the depth of your knowledge, perhaps when they were questioning you they saw that you did not know your stuff as well as you should have. The ones who are picked on, are usually the ones who have asked for it. They didn't practice enough, they didn't study enough and they don't stand up for themselves.

"I failed a clinical exam that was pass or fail because I got a blood pressure of 112/60 and my instructor got a reading of 120/68 15-20 minutes later."

You must be an advocate for yourself. I had this happen to me as well, I took my vitals at the same time as my instructor, but when we were done I was not sure of myself and wanted to recheck them before submitting the final number to her. When I re-took them, I was positive of my results that time, but they were very different from my first ones but my instructor just wanted to use the ones she had taken ten minutes ago. You see, the "patient" was another student, who was also testing, so needless to say our vital signs were roller coasting up and down due to our test anxiety, and when I was unsure of myself and wanted to re-do, both of our heart rates went up because we knew what wrong results would lead to-FAILURE! I asked her if she would re-do her vitals as well and she said that vitals wouldn't change that much in ten minutes (we had to be within 4pts of each other). Uh, hello, heck yea they can change that much in 1 minutes! I didn't say that of course, but basically asked her politely to humor me, because so much depending on these numbers. And she did, and as I thought, I was correct. She wasn't exactly the friendliest instructor either, so I was sweating in my shoes, but I stuck to my guns and I am glad I did.

And you have to admit, your results were off. All the other students have to get within the same range as you do, so how is this not fair, how is this picking on you? You should have practiced, practiced and practiced some more. Take it as a lesson learned.

"I failed that exam for things that other students were given a chance to do over"

This could be unfair, however I know this sounds harsh, but I doubt it and you did not give us any details.

Specializes in ER / Critical Care.

In prior experience, when being tested for BP reading accuracy- the instructor and student listen through the SAME STETHESCOPE (double earpiece kind) at the SAME TIME. I would be irate if I was failed and dismissed from a nursing program for a BP read that didn't follow logical protocol.

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