Hi guys I need some advice.
When do you know your marriage is over? Ive been with my husband for 6 years and I just feel that there is nothing left. I feel that we have grown in different directions and no longer have much in common but our son.
My life is changing and i feel that there has to be a change as well in all aspects of my life. Who else has had these feelings, and what is your advice.
It is also difficult because we have a son and I dont want to let him down
any advice would be great
Mar 28, '04
Well thank you all for your helpfull advice.
Its hard to know what to do and what steps to take. I feel sometimes you are forced to look at your lives and deal with any trouble there might be in them. I think this is the problem with out marriage. I really think from the start that we had major problems and that we really shouldn't of stayed together in the first place. But you just fall into a comfort zone and the weeks and months go by and then one day something happens and you have to take stock of everything.'
I have tryed to spice things up abit, I suggested many things to try and save our marriage like dates, movies time alone from our son, but it never happens and im sick of trying .Yes he does Know how I feel but i dont think he wants to know. He dosent think we have any problems. All we have in common is our son and you cant base a marriage on that. I know Im answering my own question but It is still really hard to say YES im going!!!
It is really scary, but im a strong person with a good family and i know that they will support me. Any other advice would be greatly appreciated.
Last edit by lacie on Mar 28, '04