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Ask for another provider. Simple, end of problem. No need to say the NP is being unprofessional as doubt we have the entire story. Some times its also best to just stay out of situations - common sense dictates the answer in this situation.
I was just asking peoples opinions and trying to have a discussion on this, as it really bothered me that someone would abuse their power in such a way. I wasn't waiting patiently for responses to advise her on what to do. Unfortunately in my area specialists are limited and changing providers can't be done so easily, however she is in the process of trying to do so. Thanks everyone for your opinions so far!