Ever have a patient work your very last nerve?

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    I had a patient yesterday that truly must've thought I was his audience at the comedy club. He had such a snarky sarcastic attitude, a really dumb sense of humor, and wasn't funny. He made obnoxious comments and was clearly trying to see how far he could go before he ticked me off.

    When he could tell he was skating on thin ice with me, he even said "don't go into some corner and cry now, I was only joking." I told him, "you're giving yourself too much credit, my skin is a lot thicker than that."

    2 hours into the shift I couldn't stand this man, and it took all my mama taught me to keep from telling him something.
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    I've had a patient like that. Made jokes that weren't even a little funny. Nearly had a RT in tears making inappropriate comments he thought was funny. I just gave him my best evil eye every time and said nothing. He eventually stopped while I was around. I was happy when he was discharged.

    ~ No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent -Eleanor Roosevelt ~
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    Quote from proud nurse
    I had a patient yesterday that truly must've thought I was his audience at the comedy club. He had such a snarky sarcastic attitude, a really dumb sense of humor, and wasn't funny. He made obnoxious comments and was clearly trying to see how far he could go before he ticked me off.

    When he could tell he was skating on thin ice with me, he even said "don't go into some corner and cry now, I was only joking." I told him, "you're giving yourself too much credit, my skin is a lot thicker than that."

    2 hours into the shift I couldn't stand this man, and it took all my mama taught me to keep from telling him something.
    I have found that some patients can just get to you, and some cannot.

    When patients go mining for emotions, I find it works to be a dry well.
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    Ever seen movies or commercials of those morons who harass the Royal Guard at Buckingham palace, just because they know those guys can't show any reaction? I think that's what some patients are like. Just push our buttons over and over again, just for oop:s and giggles, because they know we can't push back for fear of losing our jobs.
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    I've found that a blank stare works wonders with stupid comments and jokes. Look at them enough times like they are some oogy new specimen of bug, and eventually they'll get uncomfortable and stop. They are usually looking for a reaction, and if you don't give them one they'll give up (and then try something new).
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    Ignoring them works too... "Sorry, I missed what you said, I'm busy doing x,y,z"
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    I had a patient whom the moment you walked into his room, he started complaining. After about 10 minutes into the shift, I wanted to shoot myself. The nurse before me warned me of this, but I didn't think he would be that bad. I was wrong. I tried to stand there and listen to him because maybe he just needed to vent and needed someone to talk to, but it didn't matter what you did - he would still complain about something, ANYTHING. He would complain about you standing there listening to him lol. It came to the point where I started walking out of the room while he was in mid-sentence because I couldn't stand to listen to his complaints anymore!!!

    I was back the following night and I gave that patient to someone else, I just couldn't deal with him again. He drove me nuts. He drove that nurse crazy, too.
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    "You're probably sick of me by now ... but blah blah blah ...." On the call light for every little thing they can do for themselves. They would drive the Pope to take a swing at 'em!
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    Quote from MN-Nurse
    I have found that some patients can just get to you, and some cannot.

    When patients go mining for emotions, I find it works to be a dry well.
    I'd like to be able to stand there unphased. I'll have to work on this, because I've always been one who wears her heart on her sleeve.

    But I wonder if to him I wasn't showing any emotion, because it seemed that he just kept pushing. Why I was his project for the day, I have no idea.
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    Quote from proud nurse
    I'd like to be able to stand there unphased. I'll have to work on this, because I've always been one who wears her heart on her sleeve.

    But I wonder if to him I wasn't showing any emotion, because it seemed that he just kept pushing. Why I was his project for the day, I have no idea.
    I don't let them phase me. I don't give them that satisfaction....why were you his project you ask? You walked into the room.


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