The "Weigh" Out---A Food Management Support Thread - page 2

Greetings! Many of you know that I have struggled for most of my life with compulsive eating and weight issues. I got my start way back in the 1960s, growing up with an overweight mother who... Read More

  1. Visit  VivaLasViejas profile page
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    So, what do y'all eat?
  2. Visit  Angie O'Plasty, RN profile page
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    I've been thinking about this thread for the past week. I know I should diet, I've been gaining since I started the new desk job a couple of months ago.

    I miss doing things like I used to, and so I decided to start with exercise instead of big changes in my eating. This Zumba looked like so much FUN, I thought I'll buy the DVD and try it. I was chair-dancing to this utube video:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vf0q6qtThF4
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  3. Visit  VivaLasViejas profile page
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    I bought a couple of "Dancing With The Stars" DVDs. I was a dancer in my teen years, and I remember it as NOT feeling like make-work exercise---it was fun! Anyway, I've long wanted to learn some of the Latin ballroom dances, and I was going to reward myself with lessons if I ever got myself down to a halfway decent weight. It hasn't happened, so I'm going to start with baby-steps and try learning some of the moves at home.

    BTW: I'm down four-pounds-and-change just this week, but better yet, I FEEL better having gotten all the crap out of my system and eating better food! What a difference---I've got more energy at work, and no longer feel like something the dog found under the house when I get home at night.
  4. Visit  XB9S profile page
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    Can I join this thread too please. At Christmas I weighed in at 14 stone (197 pounds) I realised that I had become obese, clinically and physically. No excuses really, I've always been a big girl and I adore food. I can sit down and eat one of the big bars of chocolate without batting an eyelid, a box of cakes would be gone in minutes. I have spent years telling myself that I am happy with my size but as I have got older my joints are starting to creak and I am no longer as fit as I once was. Even being big I could still climb a mountain, but with my knee problems in the last few years the weight has crept up as my activity has decreased. Unfortunately my eating habits haven't changed and I am finding I am less able to do the activities that I love.

    3 weeks ago I decided I'd had enough, I hadn't weighed since Christmas and now I do want to be small again ( i haven't been small since I got married 10 years ago), I want to fit into those clothes I haven't worn for years and I want to be able to wear a swimsuit on holiday without wearing shorts because my tummy fat hangs out.

    What a wonderful picture I have painted for you all I hope you all get the picture

    I have never done diets, no will power, love food and I'm grumpy when I'm hungry.

    So family warned I have started something called the diet chef. It's restricting calories and eating healthily. As I said I started 3 weeks ago and haven't cheated once.

    I am allowed granola for breakfast, a cereal bar for a snack and soup for lunch. I have a evening meal which is between 300 - 400 calories and in total I have been eating 1200 calories a day. I am permanently hungry and obsessed with food, no sooner have I eaten what I am allowed I am getting the next meal out and thinking about it. I am really struggling and the temptation to go and eat that chocolate that is on top of the cupboard is almost too much. I'd love to throw it out but it's my little girls and she'd sulk.

    So I really need some support and encouragment to keep me on track, on weigh in today I am 13 stone 1 (182 pounds) so it is working I just need to keep it up. I want to be down to at least 12 stone (168 pounds) which seems so far away.
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  5. Visit  RN1982 profile page
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    I don't think I had mother issues as much as I had father issues. My dad always made me exercise. He always made comments to me about how big my thighs were and did so a few times when I was twelve. I never wore a bathing suit around him again and it's probably why I don't have such a great relationship with him. I was heavy as a child and through out my teens, I lost weight before my senior year and then gained it back times five in college. I weighed 180 lbs in 2002 and 7 years later I weighed 304.

    Yes, I have low self esteem, yes I have low self-confidence but in my personal life, not my work life. I can't stand people who think if they make snide remarks to fat people that it will motivate that person to lose weight. It doesn't do nothing for me except make me withdraw from people more.

    I came to the realization that I'm slowly killing myself. I missing out on a lot of fun things because I'm fat and overweight. I couldn't handle it anymore so I decided to consider bariatric surgery. Yes, I tried every single freaking diet out there and I'm sorry diets just don't work. That's the problem with this society, we all want some instant gratification. If I didn't lose weight fast enough, i got depressed and ate some more.


    Anyhow, my surgery is in two months. I've lost 9.5lbs and I need to lost ten more before surgery. I know that I will lose weight and be a skinny B but I will never forget where I came from.

    For those trying to lose weight, I recommed keeping a diet diary. I also recommend Muscle Milk 100 calorie-lactose/suger free protein shakes in chocolate. It's imperative to get enough protein, at least 60-80 grams. Eat every two hours and make sure you keep your diary.
  6. Visit  Angie O'Plasty, RN profile page
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    OK, y'all got me going here. I ate better yesterday than I have been.

    Not being able to breathe at night is quite a good motivator.
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  7. Visit  WildcatFanRN profile page
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    Can I join. I REALLY need to get going on the weight loss thing. Granted right now, affording to eat is my main issue. ALso right now STRESS, stress about my upcoming move. So, yeah I stress eat some seriously not good for me stuff....mainly chips. I must start eating better snacks for starters.
  8. Visit  llg profile page
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    Another month ... another 2 pound weight gain. I am failing.

    At the beginning of each month, I think, "This is the month I will get back on track. Even it''s just 1 or 2 pounds, I WILL loose weight this month." During the month, I watch the scales fluctuate up and down that pound or two. But at the end of each month, I cannot declare myself the winner. I start each month a pound or two heavier than the last.

    In March, I gained 2 pounds.

    I am starting to get back into my exercise routine, but it doesn't seem to be having any effect. Before breaking my ankle in December, I was religious about exercising vigorously for 30 minutes, 5 days per week -- and that was barely keeping me even. Then I broke my ankle, reduced then stopped the exercise and gaine about 7 more pounds back over the holidays. I can't seem to get the situation turned around again.
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  9. Visit  Belfegor profile page
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    Quote from sharrie
    can i join this thread too please. at christmas i weighed in at 14 stone (197 pounds) i realised that i had become obese, clinically and physically. no excuses really, i've always been a big girl and i adore food. i can sit down and eat one of the big bars of chocolate without batting an eyelid, a box of cakes would be gone in minutes. i have spent years telling myself that i am happy with my size but as i have got older my joints are starting to creak and i am no longer as fit as i once was. even being big i could still climb a mountain, but with my knee problems in the last few years the weight has crept up as my activity has decreased. unfortunately my eating habits haven't changed and i am finding i am less able to do the activities that i love.

    3 weeks ago i decided i'd had enough, i hadn't weighed since christmas and now i do want to be small again ( i haven't been small since i got married 10 years ago), i want to fit into those clothes i haven't worn for years and i want to be able to wear a swimsuit on holiday without wearing shorts because my tummy fat hangs out.

    what a wonderful picture i have painted for you all i hope you all get the picture:d

    i have never done diets, no will power, love food and i'm grumpy when i'm hungry.

    so family warned i have started something called the diet chef. it's restricting calories and eating healthily. as i said i started 3 weeks ago and haven't cheated once.

    i am allowed granola for breakfast, a cereal bar for a snack and soup for lunch. i have a evening meal which is between 300 - 400 calories and in total i have been eating 1200 calories a day. i am permanently hungry and obsessed with food, no sooner have i eaten what i am allowed i am getting the next meal out and thinking about it. i am really struggling and the temptation to go and eat that chocolate that is on top of the cupboard is almost too much. i'd love to throw it out but it's my little girls and she'd sulk.

    so i really need some support and encouragment to keep me on track, on weigh in today i am 13 stone 1 (182 pounds) so it is working i just need to keep it up. i want to be down to at least 12 stone (168 pounds) which seems so far away.
    [font="trebuchet ms"]i don't know that i could provide support, but i wanted to say kudos! and i love your sense of humor!

    you have chosen the hardest diet though.....as i said, i am no specialist, but i remember a few things from my nutrition classes....

    in other words, loosing weight that fast is not good! it doesn't give you a chance to "stabilize" and more than anything else, you are hungry and frustrated! how long do you think you can hold this for?

    i absolutely don't mean to discourage you, i think it is very courageous! but do you need to be this hard on yourself?
    there is one thing that i have learnt about diets: you need to change your perception of food and portions first and foremost.

    if you can't keep the distance because the diet is too restrictive and frustrating, you will gain back more than what you lost.
    i think that you should re-think your approach before it fails you.

    you said that you enjoyed a certain number of activities. how about trying to become more active on a daily basis to begin with?
    physical activity is actually a natural regulator of appetite if you practice it regularly and for the long haul.

    instead of restricting yourself so much, try to find the positive approach to your diet and lifestyle changes.
    1) do more, and do more of what you enjoy.
    2) consult a dietitian. i think it is a good investment! the goals set with the dietitian will be more realistic , healthier and have more chances to give you a successful outcome without making you feel like you are punished every day god makes!
    3) keep a little notebook (journal) of your daily intakes: something small you can have with you all the time. write down everything that passes your lips.
    4) allow yourself a treat every now and then (in moderate quantity).
    5) join a group of ......i don't know....walkers, dieters? mothers? nurses? who have the same goal you have.
    the internet is a wonderful resource for those searches...

    ok, i'm short of ideas for now....but basically, please consider consulting with a dietitian (not a "doctor miracle" you see on tv though, a real dietitian-with a unitversity diploma :d ) and give yourself a chance to enjoy the journey instead of feeling like you are going through a military camp !
    it is a life long commitment you should be able to make, therefore it needs to be an reasonable and enjoyable one or it won't last.

    you seem to be a very positive person and i wish you the best success! i hope this post doesn't come accross as being bossy....just worried of the path you chose...
    good luck ! i really hope you will look into a more sustainable, less torturous, way to shed the pounds and meet your goals!
    b-
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  10. Visit  Belfegor profile page
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    Quote from angie o'plasty, rn
    i've been thinking about this thread for the past week. i know i should diet, i've been gaining since i started the new desk job a couple of months ago.

    i miss doing things like i used to, and so i decided to start with exercise instead of big changes in my eating. this zumba looked like so much fun, i thought i'll buy the dvd and try it. i was chair-dancing to this utube video:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vf0q6qtthf4

    [font="century gothic"]awesome! that really looks like fun!

    you gotta love the guy with the sunglasses and the fan lol!

    i wonder how many hours of "this jiggling away" per day one needs to be as skinny as the instructor!?

    i think i would end up in the er with lumbar muscle spasms if i tried her moves!

    good goal though! something to aim for....thanks for the link!
  11. Visit  Spidey's mom profile page
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    I like this blog. http://dietdiaries.spaces.live.com/

    I was pencil thin in high school and into my 20's - flat chested . . . . oh how I long for those flat chested days!

    My first 2 kids - I went back to my prior weight. My 3rd in my 30's . . I gained more weight and didn't lose it right away. It took jogging and Slimfast!

    I jogged for 12 years - and was in good shape but NOT pencil thin and I did have breasts.

    Danny in my 40's . . . I gained weight and have been a yoyo dieter. I weigh between 165 and 175. I keep losing 10 and then gaining it back.

    I have NO motivation either regarding exercise.

    I stopped jogging when I had my seizures 4 years ago.

    Somebody kick my butt!

    It would be easier if I had a buddy to go on walks with -
    steph
  12. Visit  VivaLasViejas profile page
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    Well, thinking about exercise when you're still over 300 lbs. is just that---THINKING about exercise. I'm not doing any yet, at least nothing above or beyond the hall-running I do at work, sweating like a horse, or the rare day I've been able to get out in the yard and do some spring cleanup.

    But I can feel the time is coming when I'm going to want to get moving, so I think I'd do well to be patient with myself. One can change only so many longstanding habits at once; right now, my dance card is pretty full with just the compulsive eating and food choice problems. But I figure if I can master those, the rest of it should fall right into line.........or so I hear tell!
  13. Visit  Belfegor profile page
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    Quote from VivaLasViejas
    Well, thinking about exercise when you're still over 300 lbs. is just that---THINKING about exercise. I'm not doing any yet, at least nothing above or beyond the hall-running I do at work, sweating like a horse, or the rare day I've been able to get out in the yard and do some spring cleanup.

    But I can feel the time is coming when I'm going to want to get moving, so I think I'd do well to be patient with myself. One can change only so many longstanding habits at once; right now, my dance card is pretty full with just the compulsive eating and food choice problems. But I figure if I can master those, the rest of it should fall right into line.........or so I hear tell!
    Well, Thinking is definitely a good exercise !

    Although it doesn't burn much calories.....

    Ok seriously though.... exercise does not mean running the marathon, or running period.
    Think about a baby learning to walk.
    One baby step at the time.
    maybe walking longer distances. maybe taking a few flights of stairs, or just a few stairs, but every day.
    You have to start somewhere.
    And you can take care of your eating disorders while starting to move more. And moving more might help you solve those eating disorders. If you stay active, busy, it is all that more time spent no thinking about food or eating.

    There is one thing that helps me: I make the decision to eat healthy when I go to the grocery store. I know that whatever I buy will end up in my stomach at some point. So I shop on a full stomach and don't buy what is "BAD" for me.
    If the house is only stocked with healthy treats (and I mean healthy!) it will be possible to eat the wrong kind of food only if you make the effort of going out to buy it. Time for you to actually make the move should provide you with the answer: NO!

    Anything fried, pre-made, fast-food, with heavy sauces, and sodas : NO!

    If you only start with those 3 steps, I believe you should start feeling and seeing results sooner than later.

    and if you like dancing, close the doors and dance in your living room half an hour everyday. No witness, just yourself and some music you really enjoy. Have fun, it helps!
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