Open Letter to Incoming Students

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Over the summer when I was reading this board and about what was going to happen to my life when nursing school started, I have to admit, I was skeptical yet still worried that they were right. No sleep? No social life? Emotional wreck?

Here is my experience after my first semester.

1) I never pulled an all nighter.

2) I got at least 8 hours of sleep every day.

3) I had enough of a social life that friends still knew who I was and how things were going.

4) I never had an emotional breakdown/crying session.

How I did this

1) I read all my textbooks before the semester started. The ones I didn't have the syllabi for I read cover to cover. I barely touched the books during the semester.

2) I had a planner and used it, trying to stay ~1-2 weeks ahead on papers.

3) I asked questions about questions I missed and concepts I didn't understand.

4) My goal wasn't to memorize information but to understand it.

5) I reviewed all information for all my classes at least 2-3 times during each week. No cramming come test time.

Things that helped me

1) I do not have a family.

2) I live with a parent figure.

3) I did not have to work, though I worked a little.

4) I have previous/current work experience in the medical field.

5) I have a previous B.A. in psychology.

Other information

1) I work every other Saturday night shift (7p- 7:30a) which made the first few Monday's after working really interesting.

3) I am in an entry level Master's program.

4) I took 5 classes which was 18 credits in total when "full time" is considered 9 credits.

Nursing school does NOT have to consume your life. Every person is different and every program is different. A lot of the positive posts get buried here and a lot of negativity show up in them. Not everyone fails a test, has a breakdown, or gets no sleep.

Do not let the "negative" threads worry or scare you or the positive threads make you think it's going to be easy. It's going to be what it's going to be for you in your own program. No one can tell you what that is going to be.

Specializes in L&D, infusion, urology.

I would agree with those saying that reading the books cover to cover is not only unnecessary, but likely overwhelming for most. I'm glad it worked for you.

I'm in my third semester of four. I haven't pulled an all-nighter. I rarely get 8 hours of sleep. I have some semblance of a social life. I have definitely cried!

I agree with a lot of what you said about understanding the material, rather than memorizing. Understanding disease processes and metabolism of drugs really helps understand a lot of things like side effects or why one thing causes another. I also agree with using a planner, and staying ahead on papers and such. Things can sneak up you very easily if you don't do this, which can lead to those dreaded all-nighters!

I do have a family, including disabled in-laws that we care for some of the time and a kindergartner. I'm a Navy veteran, which means that I receive a stipend for being in school, and the VA pays my tuition. I also have medical experience from my job as a corpsman, which has helped me in some areas, but I had to change a lot of my thinking to think like a nurse, because it's very different!

I tried to work my first semester, but my boss wasn't understanding about my workload, and I was forced to quit.

My program is a prelicensure BSN program crammed into 2 years. It's pretty intense!

I'm a runner, and I've run several half marathons and shorter races during the program. I also ran a marathon over the summer while taking upper division classes.

Random advice:

Don't expect to be able to read every word of every page. Just do your best.

Use whatever study habits work best for you. If it works, it's not stupid. Songs, acronyms, post-its all over your apartment, do what works.

Find your sanity-maker. Yoga, napping, weight lifting, target shooting, coffee with friends, whatever works.

Work with your classmates, not against them. They're not competition- you're in this together!

Be flexible. Everyone I've encountered has said something about lack of organization, last minute changes, etc. The more flexible you can be, the better your life will be.

YOU CAN SURVIVE THIS!! You can even FLOURISH. Nursing school is what you make it.

Specializes in Critical Care/Coronary Care Unit,.

I pulled an all nighter once for a biology pre-requisite final for which I hadn't studied....and did fine. As far as nursing school, I was blessed in that I was single and had no responsibilities. Thus, school was my job. I didn't ready any books in advance and didn't particularly try to stay ahead. I didn't become a social hermit and still went to the movies every Friday night. My advice for any soon to be or current nursing students is to hit those NCLEX review books. I'm currently in grad school finishing my masters degree and have plenty of responsibility. I refuse to pull all nighters since I figure if I don't know it by 8pm...I ain't gonna know it. As mentioned by the OP, nursing school is different for everyone. If nursing is your dream, you should go for it.

I stayed up to 2-3am a time or two and I've shed of tear.

Specializes in Neonatal Nurse Practitioner.

Don't forget to have fun with friends every once in a while. Bonus points if some of your friends are your classmates.

Specializes in Critical Care, Postpartum.

I went through an ABSN program. Never read a textbook cover to cover. No such time for that, especially since you'll most likely be skipping certain chapters. Never shed a tear either. I had a semi-social life thanks to my classmates. Some of us became so close in the program that we often scheduled hangouts. We still touch base with each other almost 2 years since we graduated.

Everyone experiences nursing school differently. I had a classmate who frequent the bars and would show up to class late, but passed the program with a 4.0. Whether you have a previous degree or not, good time management skills is a big key in doing well. Good luck to everyone.

What I have realized about Nursing School so far is that it is not hard per say, but it does work different parts of the mind and the way thoughts are acted upon. There are also aspects of an individual that are necessary that some people do not have upon entering, I am one of them and I am thankful for the patience. There is something called "communication" that is required.

In addition there is a lot I do not know. And the only easy part is making a mistake. How do I know that? ahem.

What this is gradually teaching me is to really pay attention to what is going on

So my take was/is whatever comes my way if there was/is a potential to harm the patient then I was/am wrong, regardless of anything else, and I push to be better, but am aware I may slip a little again, and then push some more.

Vague I know, take this with a grain of salt, this is me practicing my "Teaching". Good luck!

I am so happy to read this post. Honestly, I've been very worried about what I've heard and read. I am NOT expecting nursing school to be a cake walk, by any means, however the stories are enough to make the toughest question their dreams. Nursing majors and students want to finish, and finish strong. Like the nurses that have already made it to the other side, it is our deepest hope and desire to cross the finish line in order to get to where you are. We know it won't be easy, and can't possibly imagine what it is like, because we aren't there yet, but every once in awhile, we want to hear the words, "you can do it" and "don't give up on your dreams". Thank you for this post, because today, I needed to hear your message.

Hello all, I am about ready to enter into a B.S. program in about a month. I am very nervous as I know that nursing schools require entrance exams. I took it the first time and only placed at a basic level. However the area I need to concentrate on most for the TEAS is the reading. I was in a pre nursing program for two years and was about to apply had As and B's in my prerequisites, except when it came time for A&P, I had to change my way of thinking and studying. A&P was the most difficult course in the program. The first part of A&P I took and then had to retake after I received an unsatisfactory grade. I took it again and passed. I then took A&P part 2 and did not successfully complete it, but was close. I was then ineligible to apply to the nursing program for 5 years. I have not given up on trying to apply to nursing school. I tried to take up another major but realized it wasn't what I wanted so I applied to another school. After completing entrance requirements, and taking my nursing science courses and successfully passing them, then I will retake the TEAS after studying the manual and taking practice tests, as I heard this is very effective in increasing scores. My chance at getting in is very good as I have taken A&P 1 and 2 and all the other prerequisites. The only courses I have not taken to apply are Chemistry and Microbiology. I also will be taking A&P 2 again to get a higher grade.

I will just say that when I realized I was not going to make it the first time into nursing school and I received the email stating I was ineligible for 5 years, I could do nothing more but cry and I cried until I had no more tears to shed. It was very devastating and sometimes I wander what could I have done differently in order to be successful. What it all came down to was I was not seeking out help during times it got difficult. I guess I was just hoping I would understand the material through labs and lectures and pick up on it easily and that was not the case.

I'm just finishing my pre-reqs to get into a nursing school. But about textook-reading thing... My thoughts were to always read college textbooks since you invested money in them.

Specializes in Public Health.

My advice is to learn and UNDERSTAND the pathology of and nursing care for each subject. Then answer nclex questions on the subject. Memorize lab values and therapeutic drug and lab values so that even if you aren't sure, you can use your critical thinking skills to figure it out.

Thank youuuuuuu

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