Open Letter to Incoming Students

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Over the summer when I was reading this board and about what was going to happen to my life when nursing school started, I have to admit, I was skeptical yet still worried that they were right. No sleep? No social life? Emotional wreck?

Here is my experience after my first semester.

1) I never pulled an all nighter.

2) I got at least 8 hours of sleep every day.

3) I had enough of a social life that friends still knew who I was and how things were going.

4) I never had an emotional breakdown/crying session.

How I did this

1) I read all my textbooks before the semester started. The ones I didn't have the syllabi for I read cover to cover. I barely touched the books during the semester.

2) I had a planner and used it, trying to stay ~1-2 weeks ahead on papers.

3) I asked questions about questions I missed and concepts I didn't understand.

4) My goal wasn't to memorize information but to understand it.

5) I reviewed all information for all my classes at least 2-3 times during each week. No cramming come test time.

Things that helped me

1) I do not have a family.

2) I live with a parent figure.

3) I did not have to work, though I worked a little.

4) I have previous/current work experience in the medical field.

5) I have a previous B.A. in psychology.

Other information

1) I work every other Saturday night shift (7p- 7:30a) which made the first few Monday's after working really interesting.

3) I am in an entry level Master's program.

4) I took 5 classes which was 18 credits in total when "full time" is considered 9 credits.

Nursing school does NOT have to consume your life. Every person is different and every program is different. A lot of the positive posts get buried here and a lot of negativity show up in them. Not everyone fails a test, has a breakdown, or gets no sleep.

Do not let the "negative" threads worry or scare you or the positive threads make you think it's going to be easy. It's going to be what it's going to be for you in your own program. No one can tell you what that is going to be.

Specializes in psych/dementia.

Susan1012: All the mentors my school has said first semester is the hardest. I think I've heard the professors and director say that too. I believe my fellow students more than the professors/director though.

I have 3 out of the 4 syllabi for the upcoming semester and the workload has definitely not doubled in my program. It seems there are less papers, not counting reflection assignments as papers, for which I am very happy!

sueall: Glad I'm not the only one who found them fascinating!

Sure hope you are right smoup! That would be awesome. And yes- during the summer, my fundamentals texts will probably be my reading of choice too lol. I actually very much enjoy reading them at my own pace. While school is on though, I am much more focused on the details addressed by lectures. Here's to a great great second semester! Good luck all :)

I do understand the point that you're trying to make. However, IMO your message can be taken the wrong way. If you never had to pull an all nighter, slept 8 hrs each day etc. then great, neither have I. That does not change the fact that nursing school is difficult. People aren't just trying to scare potential nursing students. When you look at the statistics, it quite clear that people tend to have a much more difficult time in nursing school than in other majors. When you enter nursing school, you have to change your entire way of thinking and that is a huge reason why people fail out. You have to think like a NURSE. Also, a lot of students don't have the luxury of not having to work full time, living with parents etc. Many nursing students have families to take care of. Combine that with all the demands that nursing school can add and it can be a recipe for failure if you are not organized and manage your time wisely. Someone just entering nursing school might read your thread and think that nursing school is just hype and be in for a rude awakening. There are always exceptions to the rule. Some students that can breeze through nursing school but that's not the norm. What's makes nursing school difficult isn't the material. It's the fact that its SO MUCH material to cover in a short period of time. The biggest difference between nursing school and other majors is the fact that if you fail a class in nursing school your DONE, or have a long wait to continue in most cases. Fail a class in another major and you just retake the class as long as your GPA is in good standing. For that reason, I'd gladly put my social life on hold. Anyone who a true friend will understand. If they don't, then they wasn't really a friend to begin with. BTW, reading the entire book from cover to cover isn't generally a good practice. If it worked for you then cool, but I wouldn't encourage that for others to try.

Each and every person is different, I too have never pulled an all-nighter or failed a test. I also have a BA from prior to nursing school, but I think that what has really helped me during nursing school is knowing what study habits work for me. Some people need to read and re read and study flashcards, but I have found that re-writing my notes is the ONLY thing that really helps with the information, but that is in my case. I have friends in my nursing program who can only study flashcards to prepare for the tests but that doesn't work for me. And that is something that I knew prior to nursing school. There are people in my nursing program who go to the Nursing tutor before each and every test, do a thousand practice questions and still barely pass, everyone is different.

Nursing school is time consuming, it takes dedication and heart and that to some people is HARD. The information can be confusing and it seems as though the goal of nursing instructors is to confuse the ever living hell out of you. Sure having experience helps (the girl in my class who works at a cardiologists office passed cardio in Med Surg and pharmacology with flying colors, but suffered through renal and oncology in the worst way) but unfortunatley not everyone can have that kind of exposure.

Before nursing school everyone told me I wouldn't even get in, because everyone knew someone who was smarter than me (yeah right haha) who had this degree and that degree and is the president of the united states of america who couldn't get in; that was not the case. Once I got in, everyone said goodbye to me because I would never have a social life again and that was not the case either. Ive worked a full time job the entire time I was in school thus far, and that also was not something I was "gonna be able to do".

I most certainly would not be able to read my textbook from cover to cover, but if you were able to, that's awesome. But I found that before my instructors introduced the information, I was reading japanese and it made NO sense to me.

I agree that many people are put down before starting nursing school, because I was one of them. I heard horror stories and everyone was "just trying to be real about it," and sometimes I feel like it causes more harm than good.

Having a really supportive family was great. My boyfriend quizzed me and understood that there were nights I could not leave the house because I had to get through assignments and case studies, his goal is to see me succeed and that is awesome, but we had a girl who got kicked out of her house by her mom because she failed her first two tests.

My advice to incoming students? Keep your chin up, nurses are not made, they are born. If you have the heart, you can do anything you put your mind to.

Specializes in Hospice.

Dollface pretty much nailed it. I remember reading my nursing diagnosis book just in the first few weeks of class and thinking it was surely written in a foreign language. It takes a few weeks to understand what you are even looking at. Now that I have fundamentals out of the way I feel like I could read and understand nursing textbooks and handbooks much better. But honestly, I would feel the same way if I picked up an engineering textbook and tried to decipher it. Gibberish.

Amen! Preparation is everything! And positivity :)

Thank you to all the people who have posted! I will be starting an ADN program in January

and I like reading the different views! I have previous degrees, I hope they help. I don't

have to work, but I think I will in the summers! I have a great support system....my husband

a doctor(that is a blessing)! I've been to Air Force basic training, so I can handle the mental games

and I know to NEVER cry! I think much of this has to do with what we make our minds up to do!! Failure

is not an option for me!!! Good luck everyone!! :)

Thank you to all the people who have posted! I will be starting an ADN program in January and I like reading the different views! I have previous degrees I hope they help. I don't have to work, but I think I will in the summers! I have a great support system....my husband a doctor(that is a blessing)! I've been to Air Force basic training, so I can handle the mental games and I know to NEVER cry! I think much of this has to do with what we make our minds up to do!! Failure is not an option for me!!! Good luck everyone!! :)[/quote']

Good luck to you too!

Specializes in Cardicac Neuro Telemetry.

Very encouraging to read. Thanks for sharing!

Specializes in Med/Surg, Tele, Psych.

Thanks for ALL the advice. I'm starting Jan 2014 with a previous degree in Poli Sci. Hopefully my critical thinking skills will kick in and help me with nursing classes!!! Hopefully I don't break down and actually cry, but I already know that my stress reliever will be the gym and a good movie!!!

I appreciate your suggestions and it is great it worked for you. But I kinda agree with others, one does not need to read an entire textbook cover to cover before the semester begins. I remember some classes we skipped through many chapters and so doing it in advance would be a lot of information. But hey! I am sure it is fun to know if you have the time and all. Good luck!

Thank you for your post! I will also be starting my first semester in 2 weeks! I feel very nervous and as if I'm not prepared or ready for it all of a sudden. I'm not sure what to expect and just pray I survive, I feel as though I have the heart for it and will stay positive through the difficult times. It's good to hear that it's not a nightmare for everyone! lol. Good luck to those starting in January!

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