My son is missing

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My 17 year old son has been missing since last night. We've had trouble with him in the past year with drinking and marijuana, and he's been in counseling. But the past few months he's been clean. We know this because we have him randomly tested. His grades improved, his personality improved.

Last night he got drunk with a friend and they vandalized a car. He called us this morning on his cell phone, and said he was lost in some woods, then the battery went dead. I know he's terrified of the trouble he's going to be in.

I'm not excusing his behavior. He will have to pay the consequences when he comes home. But he does have a suspected anxiety disorder and when something goes wrong, he panics.

The police went looking for him, my husband is looking for him, our friends are looking for him. I'm waiting by the phone. After two hours, the police called off their search saying that if he knows they're looking it will chase him away even more. How in the heck is he supposed to know they aren't looking for him??????

It's cold and raining out and he's only wearing a t-shirt and jeans. I only hope he finds shelter.

I'm not even sure why I posted this here. I just know that in the past you've all given your prayers and best wishes to others.

I have never been so lost or so scared in my life.

Specializes in NICU, Infection Control.

Prayers coming from me, too. Being a parent is not for the faint of heart! God Bless!

Specializes in NICU, Infection Control.

Prayers coming from me, too. Being a parent is not for the faint of heart! God Bless!

My heart goes out to you. I will keep you in my prayers..Cat

My heart goes out to you. I will keep you in my prayers..Cat

I send my best your way!

;)

I send my best your way!

;)

Specializes in LTC, Alzheimers, hospice.

I'm so happy you found your son with tough love & rehab I pray he straighten out. Its tough raising teenagers these days.

Specializes in LTC, Alzheimers, hospice.

I'm so happy you found your son with tough love & rehab I pray he straighten out. Its tough raising teenagers these days.

Specializes in ICU.

Thank-goodness he was found! Please keep us posted about how things turn out!

Specializes in ICU.

Thank-goodness he was found! Please keep us posted about how things turn out!

Specializes in Critical Care.

You must feel so relieved, I totally agree with the throttle part just for scarying you so much.

Specializes in Critical Care.

You must feel so relieved, I totally agree with the throttle part just for scarying you so much.

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