My 17 year old son has been missing since last night. We've had trouble with him in the past year with drinking and marijuana, and he's been in counseling. But the past few months he's been clean. We know this because we have him randomly tested. His grades improved, his personality improved.
Last night he got drunk with a friend and they vandalized a car. He called us this morning on his cell phone, and said he was lost in some woods, then the battery went dead. I know he's terrified of the trouble he's going to be in.
I'm not excusing his behavior. He will have to pay the consequences when he comes home. But he does have a suspected anxiety disorder and when something goes wrong, he panics.
The police went looking for him, my husband is looking for him, our friends are looking for him. I'm waiting by the phone. After two hours, the police called off their search saying that if he knows they're looking it will chase him away even more. How in the heck is he supposed to know they aren't looking for him??????
It's cold and raining out and he's only wearing a t-shirt and jeans. I only hope he finds shelter.
I'm not even sure why I posted this here. I just know that in the past you've all given your prayers and best wishes to others.
I have never been so lost or so scared in my life.
Cyberkat, just got online and read all this ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))) and i am so glad he was found. Hope everything goes well from here on out.
Cyberkat, just got online and read all this ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))) and i am so glad he was found. Hope everything goes well from here on out.
Thank God that your son is safe! I saw this thread and my heart sank but thank goodness for the happy ending and hopefully a new beginning for him and your family. My heart goes out to you and please know that you are never alone. You always have us here. Big Hugs!:kiss
Thank God that your son is safe! I saw this thread and my heart sank but thank goodness for the happy ending and hopefully a new beginning for him and your family. My heart goes out to you and please know that you are never alone. You always have us here. Big Hugs!:kiss
My heart goes out to you cyer!! Your title struck fear in my heart. That is a mother's worst nightmare!! I'm so glad he was found. I pray that he gets the help he needs..that is such a tough age. Don't think his life is doomed..many of us ex-pot smoker's turn out okay Hopefully he's just sewing his oats.
My heart goes out to you cyer!! Your title struck fear in my heart. That is a mother's worst nightmare!! I'm so glad he was found. I pray that he gets the help he needs..that is such a tough age. Don't think his life is doomed..many of us ex-pot smoker's turn out okay Hopefully he's just sewing his oats.
Hopefully he's just sewing his oats.
susanmary
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Very glad to hear that your son is safe.