i posted this in the peds section....but every nurse needs to read this story of a child who died while in the hospital of dehydration,despite the mothers concerns - it will make you a better nurse. a written version of her speech to the residents at johns hopkins can be found at www.josieking.org/speech.html. we have got to quit being so defensive when pts or pts families ask questions regarding their care. if they question what you are doing - stop- and explain to them what is going on and why you are doing what you are doing.