You Don't Know You're . . . Beautiful?

I just completed my first week of nursing school. I have learned so many things about nurses that I didn't know before starting school. People out there in the non-nursing world don't really know what nurses do, and, the truth is, they can't know. Only a nurse knows how important her or his job is. Only a nurse knows how much time and planning and sweat and tears are put into her or his work. Beyond the skills, the charting, and the medications is a vast amount of knowledge, critical thinking, dedication, and experience. Nurses are beautiful. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

I just completed my first week of nursing school (BSN program), and I am exhausted. I have lists surrounding me detailing numerous reading and ATI assignments. Dosage calculation exams and skills check-offs are approaching. My legs and feet are aching, and my hands are numb from all the note-taking I've done over the past week. I may have lost a pound or two, because I've barely had time to eat. Nursing school is definitely difficult and time-consuming, but I absolutely love it!

The thing is, I have learned so many things about nurses that I didn't know before starting nursing school. Sure, I researched nursing for a few years before taking my first A&P class, and I even followed around some RNs for a few days. I knew about the common things like med passes and foley caths, but I only had a vague idea about nursing diagnoses and the nursing process. Now I know why nurses must practice and perfect critical thinking, time management, and seamless coordination. Now I know why nurses are so much more than "doctors' handmaidens," up to their elbows in sputum and bowel excretions (though, as the saying goes, certain smelly things happen).

I excitedly explained (or attempted to explain) assessments, diagnoses, and interventions to my family, and I think they understood a little. (My reference to "ADPIE" was met with blank stares.) But they don't really know, and they can't know. Only a nurse knows the importance of her or his job. Only a nurse knows how much time and planning and sweat and tears are put into her or his work. Beyond the skills, the charting, and the medications is a vast amount of knowledge, critical thinking, dedication, and experience.

I certainly understand that at the moment I'm living in a puffy cotton candy world of guidance by clinical instructors and RNs, that I've never spent 12+ hours balancing multiple patients, and that, at this point, I haven't even brought a patient a glass of water or written a care plan. But now I understand that nursing is so much more than anyone out there in the non-nursing world even knows or imagines. And I don't feel like I need to run outside with a sign and pamphlets to make people understand what nurses do. Actually, I feel like the true essence of nursing is tucked in close, a treasure that only a brave and daring few know about. I'm actually excited to wade through the hard assignments and late nights and long clinical days to experience that treasure for myself.

To every nurse who has ever cared for me (and there have been many), and to the nurses reading this now, each one of you is an amazing person, and I thank you for your dedication and perseverance. You care for your patients in spite of the harsh realities of your job, the rude coworkers, the not-so-great managers, and the brutal hours. Really, you don't know how beautiful you are.

(Yes, the title is a reference to a One Direction song. And I'm okay with that.)

I just finished my first week too. Couldn't have said it any better. Thanks!!

I am hoping to receive an acceptance letter into Nursing School any day now and your words are extremely encouraging and inspiring. I hope I always remember this when it gets super hard and I don't think I will make it. I hope to always remember why I have worked so hard to begin with. Best of Luck to you!

I agree totally, I just started nursing school a couple of weeks ago and I have a new appreciation for nurses. All of you are amazing! I just had no idea.

Specializes in LTC, CPR instructor, First aid instructor..

They definitely are. I chose to become a nurses aide back in the early 60s, then an EMT and eventually a nurse because I was very ill as a child, and I loved the loving care they gave me. That is why I wanted to give back and go into healthcare. I was in healthcare 35 years when illness once again forced me to be on the receiving end. I will always love this field.:nurse:

Wow! What inspiring words. I start nursing school in a year and your excitement makes me want to start right this second :) I hope I will be this excited after my first week! Right now I'm scared sh*less and I am just finishing prerequisite.

Yes, we are beautiful... dedicated, caring....

Sadly , we work in a corporate ,profit driven environment.. that will never get that.

Specializes in ED, PACU, PreOp, Cardiac.

Dear Been there, Done that,

Your statement is true. This is why we all need to learn how business is driven and get involved.

To All,

The fact is, as much as we love our profession, we do require a paycheck for it, right? We have to help make the choices of how money should be spent. Fact is, there isn't a blank check in healthcare. Just like at home, we have to make hard choices about what is of value to us. So, we need nurses who love patient care to be in management positions! We need nurses that are managers to get the training they need to be excellent managers! We nurses need to "infiltrate" those business positions within healthcare! We need to work our way to the top and belly up to board room table and help figure out how to quantify for those counting pennies, how it is cost effective to provide excellent care with good staffing and teammates that can actually take breaks! The research is out there. And if it isn't let's do it! For all of the decisions that are made and need to be made, we must have people that "get it" not only at the table, but not afraid to open their mouth, respectfully, insightfully, and intelligently. Only when nursing services are a billable service will nurses and the care we provide truly be valued. Meanwhile, nurses come with the room, the bed, the TV, and the bedside table!

So, I focus on what I can do each day, with each patient, each teammate, and all the while preparing myself to be that voice. Do I think I will I change everything? Heck no! Do I think I affect change in my zone of influence? I know I do. My prayer is that more nurses that love patient care will join me and be that voice in their zone.

The public may not know what it is to be a nurse, but there is a reason that we are the most trusted profession. May you all feel supported and appreciated! May you all help your teammates to feel appreciated and supported! Remember, what goes around, comes around.

I find this similar to 9/11 when firemen became the heroes of the day for their bravery and sacrifice. Now with Ebola, nurses are becoming the heroes for their bravery and sacrifice in the media today. Sad thing is we've been the heroes all along and only now, are we being recognized for the hard work and sacrifices we make. It won't change however, how we are treated by patients or their families. We will always have the people that think they can be rude to us, be demanding, expect the unobtainable, and disrespectful.

You know what? I wouldn't have it any other way, because in the end, we will have made a difference whether JQ public realizes/appreciates it or not! that's the only thing that matters to me!

Awesome tribute! Good luck in your classes and God Bless!

I loved this. You're much further along in your journey than me... I'm just about to start my pre-requisites. Still, the dream is there, and you encourage me to go for it. :)