Wouldn't you consider this stealing???

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Hey guys,

At my LTC facility, the 3-11 supervisor and the 11-7 supervisor (me) share an office. Since it is not used during the day, our wound care nurses, whose office is on the other end of the building, have been allowed to use our office to work out of while they are on this end of the building. I understand this, as their charts and supplies are cumbersome to run back and forth so far.

Anyhoo, the problem started about six months ago. I noticed that office supplies, such as notepads, legal pads, etc were going missing out of my desk. I didn't think much of it, but it was annoying when I needed to leave a note for someone and my notepad would be gone. So when I was at Walmart, I bought a 4-pack of thick, neon-colored supersticky post-its that were about 4 inches wide and 6 inches long and lined. I figured these would be perfect for leaving notes attached to papers, etc... even better than my facility notepads since I wouldn't have to attach them with paperclips. So I put them in my drawer and started using them, first using them to post some numbers and stuff on the wall over my desk.

Well, that next week they were gone out of my drawer. I hunted everywhere, even at home thinking maybe in a senior moment I had stuck them in my bag and carried them home. No luck. A few days later, one of the wound care nurses had left some charts on the desk they used, and on the front of one was a note written on one of my stickies! :angryfire I never go through anyone else's desk, but I opened their desk drawers and in the bottom drawer hidden under a stack of blank records, were all four of my sticky pads. I took them back and used one to leave them a note saying I bought these with my own money and to please not take them. They left a brief note back saying "sorry- thought you'd gotten them from office suppies." Now, they knew the office doesn't supply stuff like that, and even if it did that doesn't give them the right to go into my drawer and take them!!! But I tried to be civil.

Here's the straw that broke the camel's back. Since the weekend night supervisors use the office too, I figured it would be good for us to have a bulletin board to communicate with eachother. Next time I was in Walmart, I found a perfect cloth-faced bulletin board with an unusual shape, very pretty. I also bought some gorgeous thumbtacks that looked like round balls of clear amber. It came with a mounting kit, and I borrowed a hammer from maintenance and my husband carefully hung it in the office. I tacked up an inspirational saying and a little cartoon. Two days later, when I came to work at 11pm, the board was GONE. The cartoon and saying were left in the middle of my desk. The 3-11 supervisor knew nothing about it, even the nails had been removed from the wall. I know where the actual wound care office is, and I knew noone would be there that time of night. A maintenance worker was still in the facility stripping the floors, and I borrowed his key to open the wound care office. THERE, HANGING OVER THE WOUND CARE NURSES' DESK WAS MY BULLETIN BOARD! My beautiful amber pins were now holding up their schedule! I was livid, I took it down, took the nails out of their wall and brought it back to my office. That morning I called my DON and told her the whole story, and she was majorly ticked off at them since being able to use my office was basically a courtesy to them. She spoke with them, and their excuse was that they had been asking the supply clerk to get them a bulletin board and when they saw that one in my office they thought it had been left in there by mistake and that it was supposed to be theirs.

Well, to me this is STEALING. They knew darn well that was not theirs to take. My DON didn't buy it either, and now they are no longer allowed to work out of this office, they have a cart to carry all the stuff back and forth to their office in the back. I say good riddance. Apparently they are mad at me and spreading crap about me being a brat. What do you guys think? Did I overreact?

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.

I think they ought to be disciplined. They obvously don't have remorse for doing it, more like an attitude that if they want something, they just take it.

Specializes in ED, ICU, MS/MT, PCU, CM, House Sup, Frontline mgr.

I think you did the right thing too. From what you wrote it was more then stealing, your co-workers were being malicious and petty. If they had good intentions they would have asked you where you got the supplies. The fact that they did not leads me to believe that they assumed that you were given things they needed or thought that they deserved. :uhoh3:

In any case, the fact that you stood up for your self just gave them more reason to hate you more but who cares? If you had let them walk all over you they would not have been nicer later. For some reason, as other posters have suggested, there is more to the "stealing" then meets the eye.

If your working conditions are good and you continue to have support from your supervisors, then keep doing what you are doing. Otherwise, I would not bother working in such an environment. Especially if you always have to keep your eyes open and not trust your co-workers. Good luck!

Specializes in A myriad of specialties.

Yes, it's stealing! That nurse's behavior demonstrates a severe lack of regard for others' property AND a lack of conscience in my opinion. You had every right to be angry. I'm sorry this happened to you.

it was stealing

Well, apparently this isn't the first time the woudn care nurses have been disciplined for removing the property of others... apparently once a family member bought some high-quality bandages for their resident, and wound care took the box for use among everyone. I think it is despicable that you cannot even trust your coworkers anymore. I've made sure that the "true story" is going to find its way around the building by telling one gossipy nurse. To heck with them calling me a brat, the people I work with know me well enough to know that I would not take action without a reason.

So phooey on them!

the annoying thing about this situation is it makes you seem so petty. i agree that it's wrong and bad for them to just go through your desk and take what they want, and especially to take your notice board, but because they are small things you seem petty for making a big deal of it by reporting it, so you look like the bad, unsporting one in the whole charade.

Specializes in Acute Care Psych, DNP Student.
the annoying thing about this situation is it makes you seem so petty. i agree that it's wrong and bad for them to just go through your desk and take what they want and especially to take your notice board, but because they are small things you seem petty for making a big deal of it by reporting it, so you look like the bad, unsporting one in the whole charade.[/quote']

I don't think she looks petty for objecting to this.

I don't think she looks petty for objecting to this.

I think what she means is that the thieves try to make her look petty to the other employees.

Not petty to us.

I was just wondering what the thieves think......."So the OP buys a bulletin board for her office, sticky notes to use....so is she supposed to buy it for everyone else's office, too?"

I buy stuff to use at work, but I feel since I bought it, it's MINE to use as I see fit. I put it in my own personal drawer at work, that we all have, and I have never found anything missing. I have other stuff in there, too, that belongs to the facility and I have told some of my co-workers, "If you need sucn and such I have some in my drawer.'' But I have never had anything personal come up missing from that drawer.

We have a fridge for employees and other departments use it also, but it's located at the nurse's station. I took 2 diet caffeine free cokes to work one day, put them in the fridge, and before I could go out on my med rnd. at 3pm, one of my cokes was gone. That was aggravating, because the coke machine doesn't have the caffeine free. So when I wanted a second coke, I had to go buy one with caffeine and I don't need the caffeine. It keeps me awake at night.

I know it was someone from the front office who got it. Now I put my name on the top of the cans with a magic marker and also put them in a zip lock baggie and my name on the bag and a note saying, "These are MINE!"

People can be so rude. You know they knew those cokes weren't theirs! And I have to stay until midnight. It's not fair that I can't even expect to place cokes in the nurses fridge and expect them to be there when I get back....hot and tired .....from my med rnds.

the annoying thing about this situation is it makes you seem so petty. i agree that it's wrong and bad for them to just go through your desk and take what they want and especially to take your notice board, but because they are small things you seem petty for making a big deal of it by reporting it, so you look like the bad, unsporting one in the whole charade.[/quote']

I don't think it makes me look petty at all. They stole things that I paid for myself, including a $34 bulletin board with $12 tacks which they took right off of my wall and put up in their office! To me that is NOT petty. Petty thievery, perhaps! :trout:

you handled it better than me ... Call me over protective, but the first time anything went missing off my desk I would have went around punching people in the neck until I got my stuff back.

Seriously though, the last time I had people surfing my drawers taking my favorite types of pens and pads, I left a note in my drawer that said, "If you can read this then you're probably trying to steal my stuff and you're on video."

That put a stop to it ... :D

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.
I think what she means is that the thieves try to make her look petty to the other employees.

Not petty to us.

Agreeing with this.

Specializes in Acute Care Psych, DNP Student.

I didn't think her co-workers would see this as petty. The thieves may want them to think it's petty. I think the only one who would think this is petty would be one who doesn't have a problem with stealing. JMHO

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