Okay, let me start by saying that I don't actually plan on birthing in a hospital again, and if I did, it would be because I risked out of homebirth, so the risk itself would probably make me more willing to compromise. So the question in my case is moot, but I have a lot of friends with the same desires.
I'm really just wondering if I came to your hospital as a healthy woman with an uncomplicated pregnancy and had these desires and a willingness to refuse the interventions to the point of signing off AMA, would I be labeled difficult or uncooperative. (Of course, with the disclaimer that if things became complicated to the point of danger to the baby, I would have no problem agreeing to intervention. For the purposes of this question, we're assuming all goes well).
- Heplock access, but no fluids. (I have bad veins, so the heplock is something I know is important for me.)
-Eating and drinking during labor, including herbal teas, such as red raspberry leaf and nettle tea.
-Intermittent monitoring with a dopplar. Initial twenty minute strip for baseline, but no monitoring with the actual fetal monitor after that. I would refuse the usual 15 minutes per hour rule.
-Complete freedom of movement. I would do whatever feels good and probably not ask first before bathing, squatting, etc.
-Initial lady partsl exam, but no others except at my request. I would refuse lady partsl exams offered or "required".
-I would not push at all until I had the urge, regardless of cervical dilation. (This is where refusing the lady partsl exams would work to my advantage).
-Hands and knees pushing position. I would absolutely not push in the semi-reclining or lithotomy positions.
-Immediate breastfeeding and no third stage pitocin. Baby in my arms for the first hour.
-I would refuse the hep B shot, vitamin K, eye ointment (I know I'd have to sign a waiver on that) and would choose to complete the pku at a health dept, rather than the hospital. I would require all newborn procedures to be done at my bedside, or I would refuse them.
-Discharge 12 hours after birth (or less) with the consent of the attending physician. (understanding that well established nursing, controlled bleeding, voiding, and urinating would all be prerequesites.)
Okay, that's my list. I really do want your honest opinions, and I don't mind at all if you would classify me as uncooperative. I'm willing to own the title if I earn it.
