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Something that was said on another thread reminded me of an incident I had when I was on clinicals as a student.

Sock puppets.

Got your attention?

Here is what happened:

My clinical group was doing it's rotation on a M/S unit with tele. This specific unit utilized Telemetry Techs (is that the right word?). The techs would watch the monitors, take care of beeping that was just a result of the pt disconnecting (for instance, to go to the bathroom) types of things and of course alert the nurse if there was a problem.

One of the techs was a middle aged man, I say....oh, 35ish. He was always joking with the nurses which at first seemed nice. We can all use some humor in the day, right? Not his humor. I noticed the nurses often gave him the cold shoulder, or just gave him one word responses while he was carrying on. To be honest, his jokes weren't funny so, I wrote it off as that being the reason for it all.

Nope. There was more. He was a creep. One day he kept following me around with a sock puppet and flirting with me. The sock puppet would say "Hey, you're cute" then he'd apologize for his friend's rudeness. On and on he kept going and all my social ques that he was annoying me went ignored.

Then he started with the "Hi, I'm ToeRiffic, what's your name? I like long walks on the beach, country music, romantic dinners at McDonald's................."

Thank goodness the nurse assigned to the patient I was watching stepped in at this point. She was so casual and smooth about it too: "Oh, hi Autumn. I see you're going to do the dressing our patient is ordered. Why don't you go introduce yourself to the patient while I get your instructor so she can have a little chat with our tech here. I'll be in to join you in just a few."

I loved my clinical instructor at the time. She was detail oriented without being OCD, if that makes sense. Smart too, loved how she always seemed to know what was going to happen before it did. Well, I don't know what she said to that tech but for the remainder of our rotation that semester, he never once rose from his seat or approached another student.

So, we're all aware of how nursing is often turned into a sex symbol thing. Some in the general public still believe this nonsense and think all flirting with nurses is always appreciated.

What's your story about being flirted with while you were nursing?

What'd you do?

Specializes in Public Health, TB.

I took care of a young woman admitted for an infected Hickman that had to be removed. She wore her hospital gown tied in the front. Every time I entered the room she would open her gown and ask me to "check her wound, and did it look all right?" The dressing kept "falling off". I finally was able to fashion something out of disposable mesh panties, in an attempt to keep her breasts covered.

Being a straight female, it kinda gave me the skeeves.

Specializes in M/S, Pulmonary, Travel, Homecare, Psych..
I can't get past he was middle-aged about 35ish. Sitting here shaking my head.

Yea, this is the thing that jumped out at me. Guess I'm the Crypt Keeper.

I started to get the impression using the term "middle aged" may have offended some. Then I confirmed it.

I guess, if I were to write the thread again, I'd call him "an adult". This was a good suggestion given to me by someone else.

I am painting with a very wide brush when I use the term middle aged. It's just how the term was used where I grew up.

Teen............middle aged.........elderly.

No offense meant.

I started to get the impression using the term "middle aged" may have offended some. Then I confirmed it.

I guess, if I were to write the thread again, I'd call him "an adult". This was a good suggestion given to me by someone else.

I am painting with a very wide brush when I use the term middle aged. It's just how the term was used where I grew up.

Teen............middle aged.........elderly.

No offense meant.

I'm not offended. I like being in my 40s. But since I plan on living until I'm in triple digits, I would say 50 is middle aged.

Specializes in ICU, trauma.

i had a teenager ETOH who was being a real jerk to me. Calling me names in spanish etc. Finally after after trying to play nice and calm i snapped at him telling him "No you are NOT leaving, and you WILL treat me with respect....told him to stop calling me those names in spanish.

I don't know what i said but it triggered something from that moment on he was like madly in love with me, asking my age and telling me i was cute and that he liked it when i was rough with him....um no

Specializes in PICU, Pediatrics, Trauma.

How do I feel about flirting at work? I hate it! Totally inappropriate.

Specializes in PICU, Pediatrics, Trauma.
Not really flirting, but caught me off guard and humorous. I was working as an EKG tech at a hospital. I had finished performing a 12 led EKG on an elderly lady. As I was removing the electrode patches (big round patches with a metal snap in the middle) the patient asks me to leave two of them on her chest. I ask her why. She stated "I had a double mastectomy when I was 26. I haven't had nipples in 60 yrs."

I have one like this...

A very elderly lady in ICU was having her first good day recovering in weeks. I gave her a full bath, changed sheets etc... She felt much better. Asked me to get her lipstick out of the bedside table. I found it but was looking for a mirror when she said,. "I don't need a mirror.". I then joked about her being so adept she didn't need a mirror. She replied..."oh, it's just all that practice in the backseats of cars!"

I busted out with a full belly laugh. I couldn't help myself. It was so unexpected.

Specializes in clinic, ortho/neuro, trauma, college.

After doing bedside report, one of my patients stated, with a slightly lascivious grin, that he was thrilled I was to be his nurse that day. As soon as he said that, his roommate peeled back the partly closed curtain, popped his head out, and asked "Are you gonna be my nurse too? I hope so!" with the EXACT SAME grin.

I have one like this...

A very elderly lady in ICU was having her first good day recovering in weeks. I gave her a full bath, changed sheets etc... She felt much better. Asked me to get her lipstick out of the bedside table. I found it but was looking for a mirror when she said,. "I don't need a mirror.". I then joked about her being so adept she didn't need a mirror. She replied..."oh, it's just all that practice in the backseats of cars!"

I busted out with a full belly laugh. I couldn't help myself. It was so unexpected.

I love this lady. I love it when people can keep their sense of humor through life change and stressful events like hospitalizations. :)

Not really flirting, but caught me off guard and humorous. I was working as an EKG tech at a hospital. I had finished performing a 12 led EKG on an elderly lady. As I was removing the electrode patches (big round patches with a metal snap in the middle) the patient asks me to leave two of them on her chest. I ask her why. She stated "I had a double mastectomy when I was 26. I haven't had nipples in 60 yrs."

She sounds awesome :)

Specializes in PICU, Pediatrics, Trauma.
I love this lady. I love it when people can keep their sense of humor through life change and stressful events like hospitalizations. :)

Agree. She made my day. After several years of remembering this story, I still chuckle!

Specializes in Telemetry, Care Coordination.

I worked with a guy who made me very uncomfortable. During bedside reports of male patients, he often would say, this is Mandy's_mom, she is from (insert preconceived idea of exotic location), she likes to (insert preconceived idea of activities done in said exotic location, i.e., climb coconut trees wearing a G-String, provide a good time to "gringoes", etc.) all while hugging me or giving me a back rub. Never received pertinent patient information and always had said patients asking personal questions during my shift, as they felt they had earned the right to know.

I addressed the issue with the guy, but it never went through. Finally, I spoke to a supervisor and was told, "he's socially awkward, try to imagine him in high school, being this awkward teenager, trying to speak to girls. He never outgrew that phase." Unbelievable! I finally moved on to another (better) position and said guy became an ARNP!:no:

Specializes in Registered Nurse.
That's really crappy, obviously detrimental to patient care, and pretty much textbook sexual harassment. Did this happen recently? I think I would have reported him to HR and let everyone know what happened. I'm sorry this happened to you.

It was long ago. I didn't want to go over my manager's head at the time. He was a nice guy and she wanted to "overlook" his digression, I think. What she actually said was, 'Heck, someone could accuse me of sexual harassment because I flirt...' She ignored the line he went over. Seriously......I know....I know....

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