I have a manager who is the textbook of psychological bullying. She constantly creates drama by telling me & others things about others, spreading gossip about people having nonexistent affairs with each other, admonishing you for doing exactly what she told you to do that morning & denying she even said it (even sometimes with witnesses). I was bullied by a unit secretary as a new grad & feel the same type of anxiety as I did then, except I could go to my manager (a different job & company) about it, which I did. Someone else went to my manager's manager with our concerns (it's not just me, though I'm the only one saying it's bullying). That manager basically said she didn't want to hear what our concerns are & that she would back the manager no matter what.
I love my job except for my manager. It has the location, hours & co-workers that I get along with & we've gotten very close. I'm in graduate school, so my schedule & hours is very important to try to keep consistent. The rub is that there are years between openings in my position, so a complementary transfer is almost impossible. I'd likely lose my great hours for school & perfect commute if I transferred within my current company. However, I have gotten tuition reimbursement from this smaller hospital & if I left before my obligation, I'd have to pay back 10K+ that they have paid already. I'm stuck in a toxic environment, it seems. My husband wondered if I'd even have to pay back the tuition if they can't accommodate a complementary position given that I am in a hostile work environment. Has anyone encountered this? I know I should probably go to HR with this question, but if the boss's boss doesn't care about me, should I even expect to not see brushback if I pursue this?