I'm still shocked about something that happened two days ago. A good friend of mine works in a department where we sometimes dialyze pts. Well, we have basically a good unit except for one bully/troublemaker/ backstabber who happens to be the charge nurse. Almost everyone hates her because she has ratted on them, etc etc (picture your typical bully scenario). Of course, like all such types, she smiles to your face and you walk away with knives in your back. Sadly, my colleagues who have put up with this for years (I'm fairly new) have not insisted that something be done about this - i.e., nobody wants to be the one to have her disciplined.
Two days ago she had to dialyze a pt of a good friend of mine who works in another department. When my friend mentioned my name, the bully started to slander me, although my friend told her that we are friends. Among other things, she told her I was incompetent, stupid, and may be on drugs because I "just don't get it" when she tries to tell me something. :angryfire Then, she proceeded to ask my friend about my personal life and insinuated that I'm a bad mother :angryfire Never mind I never talk to her about anything personal! And on and on. She even asked my friend why she would want to be friends with me! :angryfire My friend was just flabbergasted and listened to this for a while, unbelieving... and then cut her off.
As you can imagine, I was devastated when I heard this the next day. Assuming that Ms Bully wants a confrontation, I did not let on that I know about this. Instead, my friend called my manager and told her how unprofessional Bully was; she was told that HR would be involved. I have not talked to my manager about this and don't plan to (the last thing I want is having to sit down with the ***** and "talk about this"!)
What should be done to her?! Have any of you ever encountered such a situation? Of course I know that Bully doesn't like me (she hardly likes anybody), but had no idea she hated me so much. I'm never disrespectful or show her what I think about her, I just have no idea what this is all about. But this has gone way too far!!!
Your thoughts?
Thanks,
DeLana