What Do You Miss About Nursing?

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I've kept in contact, through texts and emails, with a some of my Ex Coworkers/Friends from Wrongway Regional Medical Center. I worked there for 17 years, was honored for being an "Extraordinary Nurse" in February, and fired in March of this year.

Rooty Payne, psych tech texted me once and said, "Dave, you got out just in time... it's horrible..." Jason Hiney RN texted me and said, "It's not the same around here Dave. I did something excellently, and nobody worthy was here to offer me external validation".

I respected, liked, and could go as far as admitting that I loved, many of my old Coworkers. I felt a connection with both them and many of the patients I serverd. I truly enjoyed working as a Nurse for over 36 years and have no regrets in my decision to enter my this profession.

But... do I miss anything about working as a Nurse?

No. Nothing. Not one teeny tiny bit.

I do not miss the drives to and from work, the schedule, my Coworkers, the Patients, duties, responsibilities, charting, or even the great pay.

I currently have a schedule where I go to bed between 9:00 and 10pm, get up between 6 and 7:00, work around my place (mainly doing art) from 9:00 to 6pm, wind down, watch a movie, and drink a couple glasses of wine. I also work out and bicycle every day.

On the days my wife Belinda is off, Monday through Thursday, we do whatever she wishes. On the days she scheduled to work (as an IMU Nurse), I keep house and make her work transitions as comfortable as possible.

I am enjoying my retirement to the Nth degree and miss absolutely nothing about working as a Nurse!

Okay- for you other retired Nurses: Do you miss anything about working as  a Nurse?

 

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
On 12/26/2020 at 9:16 PM, Daisy4RN said:

 you got to be another thorn in their side and got paid for it too. 

From a extremely good resource, Daisy, Wrongway has multiple thorns in its side and is paying for them, also!

I attempt to not gloat over such information as The Fates have smiled upon me, but Wrongway is making its own bed.

 

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Specializes in Critical Care.

 

Just a quick update, my bully mgr is gone, has left the building, Yeah!  I'm sure she will be a thorn in the side at her new job.  Several more nurses have quit in less than a month since I did.  I still keep in touch with my former coworkers but it is bittersweet, because I know they are having a rough time due to Wrongway Hospital.

While I'm glad my mgr is gone, I have no regrets and no desire to return.  I'm enjoying the peace of mind and total lack of stress.  To go from 100% work stress to none is so amazing!  I highly recommend early retirement! 

Now that I've been retired for over a month, I've had time to relax, refresh and enjoy my life.  Spending time walking the dog, hanging with friends and family in small groups, of course.  Also I enjoy watching a lot of you tube videos and Ted talks on everything from health, psychology to dog behavior and training.  I love the internet, it is a virtual encyclopedia at your fingertips, almost a library in fact!

I've had time to reflect on my nursing career and feel proud of all I've accomplished as a nurse and the lives of people I've touched.  I cherish memories of all the special patients and families I've cared for over the years. 

I'm having less dreams about work and especially less nightmares,  yeah!  Before I was having constant nightmares, dread 24 hours before work, needed tranquilizers just to sleep and function, and was filled with anger due to managements mistreatment of us.  It was like being in an abusive relationship.  I'm so glad I broke the ties and left that horrible company behind!  The anger has faded and my mental health has improved dramatically.

I just got my first hyacinth this week and its heavenly scent fills my house!  My house is like a jungle full of plants, jasmine, lemon, lime and orange tree and bushes, Christmas cactus and african violets, as well as a Jade plant and pothos.  I have a fluorescent light garden in the basement where I house my plants when the Christmas tree is up in the window.  I can't wait till Spring when the tulips, daffodils, creeping phlox, bleeding heart and peonies bloom. 

I'm so happy!

 

Specializes in Critical Care.

I’ll miss the patients ...yes, really...especially the really messed up patients....the drunks, the addicts, the psych patients..the overweight patients that are bed bound.....the patients that everyone tries to avoid...because when you help them...they appreciate it....❤️

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

I won't miss much when my turn comes. I am too young to retire and too old for this......stuff.

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