2 week notice and manager is upset.

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I was offered this amazing opportunity to work in a small icu department of a local hospital. I have wanted critical care since I graduated but was already offered a med surg job and decided to try it out for a year. I loved my job, but hated the way I was treated. When I moved to nights, things got better and we continually had issues with staffing, carrying 8 pts or more a night. When I mentioned that I didn't feel it was safe, I was told this was not acceptable and I needed to watch what I say. I received a verbal warning about my "attitude toward recieving admissions." I did not agree but was stuck.

Now, however, I emailed my notice to my manager when I had an official offer. I was pretty sure I wasn't going to get it since it took a while for them to extend an offer. When I emailed my manager she asked why I didn't mention it in my review that morning. I explained why. Then she told me that I was one day short of 2 weeks. I explained my start date and apologized. I expressed concern because I didn't want to burn that bridge. She failed to respond, so I called HR and asked if being one day short would hurt me. They called my manager to which she responded she would be willing to let me work a different day in the week to work out my two weeks. I told her which day I could work and she has yet to respond and told me she would see if that would work. (Keeping in mind they only have 2 nurses and an LPN scheduled for the 30+ bed unit that day)

I feel terrible but my manager and I have butted heads often. I didn't want to mention anything before I knew. I did not want to go over her head, however I know that she would not have offered to allow me to work a different day and would have taken away the opportunity for me to be rehired.

Did I do the wrong thing? I wish that things would have been different but it is my dream job.

Specializes in Psych, Addictions, SOL (Student of Life).

So what I would ask you is why you care so much about being eligible for rehire at this particular facility. The last job I left was LTC and it was totally a job of necessity. I never intended to stay there but was having trouble finding a psych nursing job and needed a paycheck. I brought a lot to the table, but when my job offer came in I gave notice. The facility I worked at required 1 month notice for professional staff and my new employer gladly accommodated that. Still the LTC DON who I had always gotten along with treated me like crap right up to my last day. They even tried to screw me out of my PTO I had accrued. I finally submitted a complaint to their corporate office and got my money.

I am now happily working in my new job and the LTC experience is behind me. It pains me a bit that I am not eligible for rehire due to my corporate complaint - but in reality I don't think I would want to go back there anyway.

Hppy

Specializes in MDS/ UR.

It seems she is cranked about you anyways. One day or not she may twist the record for a do not rehire for some other reason. Move along as you are doing now.

Specializes in ED, ICU, PSYCH, PP, CEN.

I once had a nurse manager scream and yell at me, and throw something when I put in my notice. Some people are just nuts. I was the 6th person filling the job in just over 1 year, so that pretty much explains it all. Move on, she's pi**ed and she is probably going to make you a no hire so just forget about it. Good luck and enjoy your new job.

I also think she will find some other reason to make you a DNR at the current job. DO NOT risk the new job over the old one. I have seen nasty managers try to seriously jam someone up professionally on their last shift. If you have a start date at the new job, be there with bells on.

I also think she will find some other reason to make you a DNR at the current job. DO NOT risk the new job over the old one. I have seen nasty managers try to seriously jam someone up professionally on their last shift. If you have a start date at the new job, be there with bells on.

I completely agree !!!!!! Don't let that old manager screw you up!!!

You've made a good-faith effort to do the right thing. "Eligibility for rehire" is a lot like a credit rating: desirable but often made too much of. Move on and don't look back.

That's not the case in my area. And not only will you not be eligible for rehire at a certain facility, you also won't be eligible for hire in any of the hospitals in the system.

OP, it's a big deal. You never know what could happen and you may end up needing to go back to this job. Call your new manager and talk to her. It's only a two week delay on starting the new job.

Specializes in BSN, RN-BC, NREMT, EMT-P, TCRN.
I was offered this amazing opportunity to work in a small icu department of a local hospital. I have wanted critical care since I graduated but was already offered a med surg job and decided to try it out for a year. I loved my job, but hated the way I was treated. When I moved to nights, things got better and we continually had issues with staffing, carrying 8 pts or more a night. When I mentioned that I didn't feel it was safe, I was told this was not acceptable and I needed to watch what I say. I received a verbal warning about my "attitude toward recieving admissions." I did not agree but was stuck.

Now, however, I emailed my notice to my manager when I had an official offer. I was pretty sure I wasn't going to get it since it took a while for them to extend an offer. When I emailed my manager she asked why I didn't mention it in my review that morning. I explained why. Then she told me that I was one day short of 2 weeks. I explained my start date and apologized. I expressed concern because I didn't want to burn that bridge. She failed to respond, so I called HR and asked if being one day short would hurt me. They called my manager to which she responded she would be willing to let me work a different day in the week to work out my two weeks. I told her which day I could work and she has yet to respond and told me she would see if that would work. (Keeping in mind they only have 2 nurses and an LPN scheduled for the 30+ bed unit that day)

I feel terrible but my manager and I have butted heads often. I didn't want to mention anything before I knew. I did not want to go over her head, however I know that she would not have offered to allow me to work a different day and would have taken away the opportunity for me to be rehired.

Did I do the wrong thing? I wish that things would have been different but it is my dream job.

First of all, thanks for your integrity in giving notice. Having said that, if you're in a "Right-To-Work" state, you are under no obligation to give notice if you're leaving, nor is your employer required to give notice if they are terminating you. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do to NOT give notice, just saying what the law is. If you can work the extra day, do it. That way you can honestly say that you did everything you could. If you can't work the extra day, then don't. Perhaps you can ask your new employer if you can start a day later and not try to work a weekend day or a day that you can't accomodate. Maybe if this option works out, your manager might be a bit more accommodating. If not, move on. All that former employers can legally say is that you worked at that facility, for how long, and what your duties were. That's it.

Specializes in Med/surg/ortho.

Your right she doesn't deserve you as an employee and you don't want to work for someone like that anyways. So unprofessional.

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