I am still reeling over a verbal attack by a geriatric pt last week. Without getting into details, it was probably the worst I've been treated in years. None of it was warranted. His anger was not my fault, I was simply the object available when he blew his stack. I honestly tried to rationalize his behavior, he's scared, he's worried, the bills are piling up, case management talked to him, ........... The one excuse I couldn't give him was confusion. Completely alert person. I tried to defuse the situation, but opening my mouth to speak simply enraged him further. He was old and very sick. That didn't make his attack any less violent or any less painful. What is allowed where you work? How far can you go when a pt is completely out of control, and what they say is every bit as violent as a fist?