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Yes it sounds like a good idea on paper, but I've never been anywhere where it was such a big deal to give out $$$ like your tithing for church or something. The organizer goes around with a notebook collecting fees every 2 wks or so. Its really annoying. I should have a say in where my money goes and who it goes to and since I won't be participating in the annual Christmas party my $$$ goes to benefit everyone else?
OP, I know how you feel, it can be imposing. Years ago, I used to participate in a sunshine fund and it did wind up being a bit cheaper. I wanted to suggest this to my unit, but I don't want to be stuck being the collector of the funds. That is worse, because money can always be the route for further division and evils. I'd rather give and write it off as a participatory action than be responsible collecting.
Pudnluv,
I don't expect anything from the people I work with they are my co-workers. I am not there to make friends, it seems as if I just don't "fit" with the unit as it is. There are many differences between me and the people I work with. The unit is very "cliquish." A majority of people I just don't want to see outside of work. There are a few I get along with well enough to contribute personally (a small gift or card) for a baby shower or something, but the rest I'm not so sure about. I want to be able to make that decision my self.
Pudnluv,I don't expect anything from the people I work with they are my co-workers. I am not there to make friends, it seems as if I just don't "fit" with the unit as it is. There are many differences between me and the people I work with. The unit is very "cliquish." A majority of people I just don't want to see outside of work. There are a few I get along with well enough to contribute personally (a small gift or card) for a baby shower or something, but the rest I'm not so sure about. I want to be able to make that decision my self.
I totally agree with you. If you want to give money, give it, but don't make employees give. If I really like someone I would give more, if it's someone who I don't, I don't. Easy enough without having to be forced into it.
Nacki, MSN, NP
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So, I'm new to my unit. Been there about 6mths. The staff collects $26/yr from nurses and $13/yr from CNAs for unit functions involving money such as baby showers, flowers for a death, and for the annual Christmas party. Not a big amount, but still my money...My deal is that I don't want to contribute, with my thought being, I will contribute to each individual situation as I see fit. I don't plan on going to the Christmas party, so why should I pay for it? I don't want to contribute to each and every baby shower or wedding so why should I pay dues? Does anyone else have unit dues? How do you feel about this?