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Just a bit ago the top three threads involved:
1.I have a DWI. Can I be a nurse?
2.I am stupid. Can I be a nurse?
3.If it takes me five times to pass NCLEX, Can I be nurse.
Not much left to add. Says it all.
Sorry, but I have to disagree with you on this. I do believe that my life experiences led me to be a nurse. I do believe in God, and I believe the He called me to be a nurse. But I am a nurse, not a nun. I did not take a vow of obedience when I got my license. Calling off work for no reason is not good in any profession, not just nursing, but in your examples, heck yes I'm calling in. If my dad's dying, you bet I'll be at his side. Another nurse can be found for my patients, but I can't get another dad. My mom's sick and I need to care for her? Of course I'm going to be with her. If that means I'm not "dedicated," so be it.Nursing, at least when I was stating out, was a calling. separate then working a drug store. or beauty Shop or anything else. If you were schedule you went in. Mother sick you went in, My father dying I had to go in. When did it become "I don't think that I can give proper care to my patients, I'm calling out. I think the archaic word was dedication. Still feel that way
We shouldn't allow ourselves to be abused and taken advantage of because of some false notion of dedication.
I just went through the annoyance of registering for that publication's website, so that I could post in the Comments section below the article.I invite you all to read what "ActualRN" had to say
Her eyebrows look positively terrifying. That should have been a hint of something amiss.
Good comments though. Unfortunately, people will keep on believing what they want; whatever is most convenient and the most dramatic.
Sorry, but I have to disagree with you on this. I do believe that my life experiences led me to be a nurse. I do believe in God, and I believe the He called me to be a nurse. But I am a nurse, not a nun. I did not take a vow of obedience when I got my license. Calling off work for no reason is not good in any profession, not just nursing, but in your examples, heck yes I'm calling in. If my dad's dying, you bet I'll be at his side. Another nurse can be found for my patients, but I can't get another dad. My mom's sick and I need to care for her? Of course I'm going to be with her. If that means I'm not "dedicated," so be it.We shouldn't allow ourselves to be abused and taken advantage of because of some false notion of dedication.
I totally agree. Martyr Mary RN needs to be buried.
Sorry, but I have to disagree with you on this. I do believe that my life experiences led me to be a nurse. I do believe in God, and I believe the He called me to be a nurse. But I am a nurse, not a nun. I did not take a vow of obedience when I got my license. Calling off work for no reason is not good in any profession, not just nursing, but in your examples, heck yes I'm calling in. If my dad's dying, you bet I'll be at his side. Another nurse can be found for my patients, but I can't get another dad. My mom's sick and I need to care for her? Of course I'm going to be with her. If that means I'm not "dedicated," so be it.We shouldn't allow ourselves to be abused and taken advantage of because of some false notion of dedication.
Agreed. If I feel that I can't give good care to my patients, whether it be for health reasons or personal reasons, like a family crisis, then I have no business going into work.
It's bad for me, it's bad for my family, and most important, it's bad for the patients.
OCNRN63, RN
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So did I. It was disheartening reading some of those posts; people can be so stupid.