Stressed Nurses: What keeps you going?

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Nursing is a very stressful job, but I don't have to tell nurses that, do I.

Share your secrets.

What makes you keep coming back day after day?

Here's mine:

I nearly walked out one day, I was so discouraged with trying to keep up with all the patients who decided to have crises the moment I walked in the door. I didn't even get a chance to get Report on some of them before someone was crashing! So I got on the phone to one doc, explained the situation, and started asking for labs, tests, and medications, when all of a sudden the doctor said, "You know, I cannot believe you're asking me for all this."

Great, I thought. Here it comes. Another jerk. :(

"I think you're an EXCELLENT nurse," he continued.

I almost dropped the phone in shock. But I came back the next day because I felt like I finally had an ally instead of an antagonist in that doctor.

Specializes in ER, Occupational Health, Cardiology.

I always give myself something to look forward to, even if it's just my next weekend off, or something like the next vacation days or a kid's recital or the next family birthday, I always have something to get me through the negatives.

Very well said. I have found myself doing similarily most of the time, kind of like the carrot at the end of the stick!

Specializes in med surg, oncology, outpt and hospice.
Awesome :)

It never fails; just when I'm at the end of my rope and ready to bail... something happens to remind me of why I really do love this job (in spite of all my bitching about it lol).

I agree!! In my heart I am a nurse no matter how much I complain about my day. I love what I do. That does not mean I always love my job. But I do love what I do.

Specializes in ER/Geriatrics.

Me too........I love what I do...I have never had to drag myself out of bed....I truly feel blessed to do what I do.

Liz

Specializes in ICU;CCU;Telemetry;L&D;Hospice;ER/Trauma;.

strong tea and YOUNG MEN!! (ha!) Hey, I might be older, but I ain't dead! :lol2:

Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.

What do I do to relieve stress? Call in sick...seriously. I take a mental health day.

The patients do have me energized. I constantly read and my teaching in the clinic that I work for has greatly improved. When the patients come and look for me to teach them because I make it so simple keeps me going. But I will still take a mental health day when I need it to continue.

Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.
I have to fund my IRA.

Makes sense to me.

I just remember that no matter what I do as a profession, it is still work and at least my work I get to help families through difficult times.

I usually dread work until I get there, once I am there and in the swing of things I am fine.

I am fortunate that I work in a NICU, I feel that NICU nursing is most like the idealistic nursing I hoped I would practice when I was in school.

Specializes in ER, ICU, L&D, OR.
Awesome :)

It never fails; just when I'm at the end of my rope and ready to bail... something happens to remind me of why I really do love this job (in spite of all my bitching about it lol).

I never think of bailing, golfing maybe, never bailing

I keep coming back because I have to support myself and I do not have any other marketable skills!!!

My ever loving husband of 30 years keeps me going. Without him, I think that I would have crashed and burned a long time ago!

Also, I too pray every day before I start my shift, and that keeps me sane those 12 hours.

Angel's RN

Good point angels, Support makes all the difference in lightening mood and making things bearable!

Specializes in M/S, Ortho, Tele, ICU.

The naive faith that someday, it will get easier....

Eventually, I imagine I'll wake up from that pipe dream, but for now....ZZZZZZZZZZZZ

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