no body rwemember my birthday today (close relatives etc...)
i was so sad!
i even cried when i got to school today, because people that i barely know, some i only know for 4 days were singing to me, i was so impressed!!!
after they sang I got up and thanked them since they were the only ones that remembered!!!!
of course my mom and dad called, also my sister,
but my cousins, my relatives, which i was so close to... just ignored me!!!!
this is not the first year that this happened, i have been ignored since i moved here, and they will only call when they want me to buy something for them!!!
i went over myspace and saw my cousins online, and they did not say a word, so i sent all my relatives a message/e-mail or text, thanking them, and saying saince you forgot me for 5 years i am just like a dead person to you!!! although, they still rembember the dead! i hope you have a good life, and i am dead and gone!!!
it just hurts me so much, i dont have more then 5 friends here in the USA, of course i have colleagues, but not people who are really there!!!
so i counted on my family to cheer me! and BAM!
why does it have to be my birthday that people forget??? they even remember my cousin's in japan, and stayed up late to call him!!!
i gave up on them!!!
i just wish i would have a happy birthday! you know you might want to call me a whimp, but i never had a party, and never got NEVER EVER got gifs, other than mom and dad!
so...
sorry guys for venting... and for being emotional... is just that... i wish people cared a bit more...
even my bir time friends for 15+ years from brazil, got the message and deleted!!!
Specializes in Critical Care, Clinical Documentation Specialist.
Oh I'm so sorry, I missed your message. I went to bed early and I come back to you being upset - I'm sending you a big cyberhug and a very happy birthday. You have a family here who loves you and wishes only the best for you. Try to do something nice for yourself when you have time and remember you have friends, LOTS of them here. ((((HUGS))))
Happy Birthday! I know what it is like to feel all alone, it is not fun. Keep your chin up and remember all those who did remember your birthday or wished you happy birthday.
Hope you are able to cheer up a little after all these messages and enjoy your birthday.
am I going to be the 1st one to say "come on already and grow up" Your folks remembered you your classmates sang to you-----Maybe i just run with a different crowd but my friends and I may remember and may not remember each others birthdays--usually the only way I will remember is if the birthday friend calls me a few days before and says "hey lets get togather for drinks on my birthday" then I will remember.
aunts/uncles/cousins no way...too many in our family. I have a hard enough time keeping up with my personal family unit--no way can I keep up with every extended family members.
:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeatHappy Birthday. All your friends here at Allnurses could not do it with out you. Your sharing, your wisdom and your determination are very admired. We need you and love you!!!!!! Than:yeah:k you
HAPPY B/DAY C SANTOS!!!!!!! we all love you here, stop worrying about those that forgot you and know that there are a lot of others who value you on this forum, you are our brother and we love ya.
Hey!! remember you made it into nursing school and you will be a good nurse, that is a great blessing, some may never do as good as you. you are blessed enough to be stressing over some relatives who are seemingly selfish like some of mine are too. If you were doing some bad stuff they may have remembered to call you though. sometimes people are just jealous, because they think that others have it all good, while they do not. l
but, lift your head up ,shake that off and continue to treat them nicely,call them on their b/ days, you will be the better person and god will bless you and things will always work out for you.
God loves you and so do we at all nurses .com.
happpyyyy birthday friend!!!!!!!!!!!! enjoy every hour of it.
:clown:
DeadHead219
65 Posts
Happy Birthday To You!
Happy Birthday To You!!
Happy Birthday Dear CSantos ...
Happy Birthday To You!!
And many more!!!
Hey buddy, sorry you had such a rotten day, I hope tomorrow brings you joy~