We got a new resident admitted to our LTC. He’s alert and oriented. He’s in his 60s.
Anyways I’m hard of hearing. It’s been incredibly difficult for me to understand everyone with masks on but my manager and the team have been amazing and supportive.
So this morning I introduced myself to the resident and briefly explained that I’m hard of hearing, so I would appreciate if he could speak up loudly.
he couldn’t believe his eyes. He asked me if I was actually deaf. I showed him my hearing aids (I was wearing a bun at the time). He said that I can’t be a nurse because people with disabilities shouldn’t be nurses. I was heartbroken but moved on. Later on it was my turn to give meds to him. Upon seeing me enter his room, he loudly yelled that he doesn’t want me and demanded a “real” nurse.
My manager has my back. But this shook me up. In my few years of nursing (I graduated in 2019), I have never had a complaint and my clients always raved about my performance. This resident left me disappointed.