Published Dec 13, 2013
melanietorrey
2 Posts
Hi -
I am 52 years old and planning to start an ADN 18 month program in March 2014. Very excited!
My son is 9 years old and has high functioning autism. My husband flies for a living and is home 1-2 times a month. I am identifying childcare for the classroom hours (M-F 8am-4pm) - but I am very concerned re the projected 30 hours/week of out of class assignments, research etc.
My son is a delight and the light of my life but he does require/need constant care and supervision.
Should I be looking at live in child care for the duration of this program? Have I taken complete leave of my senses?!
Any advice/feedback much appreciated!
PurpleLover
443 Posts
If you can afford live in care, I would go that route.
Guest
0 Posts
My son... has high functioning autism. My husband... is home 1-2 times a month. I am very concerned re the projected 30 hours/week of out of class assignments, research etc... My son... require(s) constant care and supervision.Should I be looking at live in child care for the duration of this program?
Should I be looking at live in child care for the duration of this program?
pmabraham, BSN, RN
1 Article; 2,567 Posts
Good day:
You are not alone as an non traditional (i.e. not just out of high school) student as well as being more mature. I started working on my prerequisites for an RN program one month after my 50th birthday. If Jesus allows it, I will graduate from a nursing program between mid 2016 and late 2017 depending on the school; I would be between 53 and 54 at the time.
This is what I've been using and it works well:
https://allnurses.com/pre-nursing-student/how-get-any-846733.html
To the above link / reading, I email each professor before the semester asking for a copy of the syllabus in advance and permission to record their lectures with the understandings any and all recordings are for private use only.
I do tape record each lecture, and then re-listen as often as I can re-listen. While there are times nothing from the lecture is on a test, it still helps me understand overall processes, terminology, etc which are on most tests.
Once I have the syllabus, I follow the instructions in the link for planning. As a general rule of thumb, non science courses are allotted two hours per credit per week for study time. I.e. Three credit non science course would be six hours of study time per week. All science courses with a lab are treated as six credits using the same math. I.e. A&P 1, 2, Microbiology, etc would be a minimum of twelve hours of study time per week.
Here are some links that may be useful in terms of improving overall study skills, taking notes, reading text books, etc.
Note Taking Systems - Academic Skills Center: Study Skills Library - Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo
Cornell Notetaking System Explained--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
Google Image Result for http://kenpitts.net/images/cornell_note_how_to.jpg
The SQ3R Reading Method
Time management
Reading University Level Materials--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
How to Read Effectively in the Sciences--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
How to Read and Study Medical Texts--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
More About Effective Textbook Study--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
An Effective Textbook Study Strategy--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
How to Mark a Section of a Textbook Chapter--Textbook Study Strategy--Academic Support
Thank you.
cee cee g
104 Posts
Maybe try to find local programs for children with autism online. Or maybe ask his family doctor or his psychologist (if he has one) if they know of any afterschool programs or facilities. But if he must go to a regular daycare center, I would definitely ask the owner if they are familiar with your son's condition before hand. I hope you find a good resolution and good luck to you and your family.
P.S. My 12 year old has Asperger's syndrome so I do understand your concerns.
DadStudentPerhaps
258 Posts
I'm 47 and my oldest daughter has Aspergers. My wife's a nurse and I work for an airline. My wife and I are both back in school, plus we Homeschool both of our kids. I'm not in a program yet, have one pre-req left (A&P II)... but you will be amazed at how proficient you will become in finding time to study if your determined :)
RunBabyRN
3,677 Posts
If you can afford live-in care, that would be a wonderful route to take. You'll need a lot of time for reading, in addition to clinical time and time for writing papers and reports and such. When you do your preceptorship, your schedule can be all over the board, so having the flexibility of someone in-home like that would be really important.
Good luck, and congratulations on your acceptance!