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Hang in there. It sounds like you did a great job especially by documenting her vitals etc. each time she called you with the 911 emergency. :) Personally when someone sounds as if they are hinting at reporting less than adequate care I would call an administrator just to cover my bases. I also hope you documented her statements of how lacking your care was at first and what a great nurse you were in the end to demonstrate how labile she was. As for Mom, sadly I have found that the patient often isn't the sickest one in the family, sigh. Good job and I hope they find her a better spot soon.
You did great. You recognized that the patient wasn't in an any acute distress, despite her demands. A lot of psych patients want drama and attention, pulling you away from the patients that really need your attention. Point out the objective data, with reassurance. "hey, your BP and heart rate are great now, you're really coming along, you're doing much better!" That kind of thing.
I think you did a super job! It could be a good ol' Borderline Personality, or a Dependent Personality, and she is under a lot of extra stress because of her hospitalization and illness and is reaching out for reassurance, or to test you. I use the 'firm but fair' approach...I do set limits, fair ones, and I stick firmly to them.
Good job!
Or it could be that she's just plain scared out of her wits after an MI.
The Dependent notion struck me more than the BPD. With her mental illness it's likely that she's experienced the normal paternalistic approaches of psychiatry so her 'reaching out' for reassurances is perhaps a conditioned behaviour of how either her mother has maternalised her - or psychiatry has paternalised her.
Just curious - why is/was she being discharged via a psych bed?
Virgo_RN, BSN, RN
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Hello, psych nurses! So one of my patients had an MI, and she is mentally ill. Her working diagnosis says "Bipolar", but I'm thinking there is more to her behavior than that.
Her psychiatrist, the hospital psych doc who rounds on inpatients, is making changes to her medication regimen, and she is not happy about it, and neither is her mother, who sits in the corner and watches the patient's interactions with nurses, occasionally interjecting a comment or two. The mother is incredibly enabling, and the patient's behavior seems worse when the mother is present.
The moment I step onto the floor, I am dealing with her, with no time to check on my other patients or even look up labs, imaging, meds, etc. She is on her call light demanding to see her nurse immediately. She states she is having a "seizure" caused by "withdrawal" and demands that I call the doctor. She is lying in bed, her legs are shaking, and she states that her teeth are chattering, though I am not observing that. Her vitals are WNL, and it's been over a week since she last had the medication that she states she is withdrawing from, plus she is on an anticonvulsant. She states that she is miserable, and that she "will have relief". Now, I did call the hospitalist, who refused to come see her or prescribe anything. He believes that this is a psych issue, and that this is the psychiatrist's call. I attempt to call the psychiatrist with no success. The patient is accusing me of "not relaying the extreme urgency of the matter", and that is why the psychiatrist will not call back. The mother of the patient is asking me how I can find out whether the psychiatrist is in the hospital and when he plans to round (he rounded earlier that morning). I tell her that there is no way for me to know where the doctor is and that I have no control over the doctor's actions, and that I am doing everything I can for the patient.
All in all, this is very frustrating for me, because I am not used to dealing with this sort of thing. We do get psych patients occasionally, but I've only had one other that was more demanding than this, and it was a nightmare. I thought to myself that I needed to just be calm and set firm limits and go about my business as usual, so that is what I did. When the patient would call me in to complain of a "seizure" (all the while, her vital signs are WNL and she's lying there looking at me and talking to me) and make accusations about the supposed lack of care she is receiving, I would simply listen, nod my head occasionally, say "Uh huh" and "I can see you're upset", then reiterate that I am doing everything I am able to do, then calmly walk out of the room.
By the end of the night, she was apologizing for her behavior and complimenting me for being such a "good nurse". Still, up to that point, it was incredibly frustrating for me.
Any helpful tips, in case I have her again tonight?