SilverBells BSN

Rehab/Nurse Manager

Nurse Manager for Rehab Facility. Graduate Student.

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  1. Has anyone ever left in the middle of a shift? This morning, during our morning meeting, I left because I was having a severe panic attack. I went for a 30 minute drive to calm down. Has anyone else ever done this?
  2. Anyone ever have one of those coworkers that irk you to the point that you'd like to see them fail? I normally don't feel that way, but lately I've been harboring a lot of resentment for one of my coworkers. This person is very cruel, and yet ou...
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    I wasn't in the position long enough to get any reviews. Reviews in previous positions had all been "exceptional" but that was with a different management team, back when the work environment was more friendly and less high-strung, toxic and hostil...
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    New Job Recommendations

    Unfortunately, recent circumstances led me to resigning from my current position and leaving the company I have been at for the past 7 years. These circumstances had greatly impacted my mental health in a negative way, so it was a choice that had to ...
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    New Job Recommendations

    My mom asked me, "Silverbells, why would you want to keep a job that resulted in you needing to increase your antidepressants, increase the number of therapy sessions needed and result in you needing to take FMLA?"
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    If I'm being honest, focusing on Queen Bee takes the focus off my own problems.
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    Probably because she has something I want--a place she belongs. She naturally received compliments and recognition from upper management, where I felt like I had to "fish" for any of mine.
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    We were both case managers. I was slightly higher up than she was, with me being an RN and her being an LPN. However, by the way she acted, you would have thought she was my supervisor.
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    At the end of the day, all I know is that Queen Bee 🐝 is going to make it. Queen Bee 🐝 will be fine. As for myself, I have no idea
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    Doesn't matter how many lessons Queen Bee or I need to learn. The only one who will walk out a winner is Queen Bee
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    A Comprehensive Lesson Plan for Queen Bee: 1. Effective Communication with Others -Respectfully addressing the concerns of others -Communicating own concerns with others in a way that respects the dignity of others -Learning t...
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    New Job Recommendations

    In a sense, job #2 reminds me of when I was in my previous rehab position. They mention a lot of admissions and discharges. It was salary. My mom asked me,"Was that too much for you? You were always there very late"
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    Regardless Queen Bee will probably never learn the lessons she needs to learn
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    I think being fired could be an excellent experience for Queen Bee. She can go work in a small town and learn a lesson or two regarding being humble.
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    New Job Recommendations

    My old job has already found a replacement for me. Gotta love the feeling of being replaced...
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    New Job Recommendations

    It may come across as a surprise that I have actually taken allnurses.com members' advise and have accepted the first job 🙂
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    LOL, if there is one thing that I can say, it's that I haven't been dishonest on Allnurses regarding my thoughts or feelings. Maybe a bit too honest at times.
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    New Job Recommendations

    Honestly, this is probably the worst thing to have happened to me. This is just proof that my coworker is once and for all "The Beloved Queen Bee"
  19. Has anyone ever worked with a coworker who has had incredibly negative things to say about them? For me, I've had one that is basically trying to egg me on to quit. She has said multiple times, "If you can't do the job, don't do it." Du...
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    The best day of my life will be when I see that the Queen Bee is no longer employed at this company. I fear this day may never come.
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    One of those instances where it is obvious that life favors some people more than others, For some reason, she has found favor not only with the facility, but life in general. She knows how good she is. She knows how superior she is. She knows ...
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    Have you ever wanted to see a coworker fail?

    I just don't understand why they want to keep someone like her around while losing other good employees
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    New Job Recommendations

    I believe that with some of these apartments you cannot reside in them if you make above a certain amount. I have/had also been looking at houses, but just trying to keep options open. Some of the houses are in a flood zone, which was why I was try...
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    Am I entitled to decline being assigned to a specific unit?

    Would it be best to apply to a position on a unit that you feel comfortable with? I would think that if you are part of a float team, you should be able to work on any unit they assign (unless otherwise specified in your job description). Having a ...
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    New Job Recommendations

    Good point. I had attempted to try and present both pros and cons for each position, but I may have let a little bias slip through for the one that is closer to home. There's not much for housing in the town for job #1, although there are a few to...