Posting Styles

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In reading the posts on all nurses over a decade since I've been a member I've noticed that there are distinct styles. Some have posts or questions which are short, sweet, and to the point. These types of posters use paragraphs with a cadence which is easily read. Others will type long run on sentences using no commas paragraphs or other types of pauses and it's almost like what we in psych call push of speech where an extremely long statement is made in one breath like they're hyperverbal and  loquacious and I guess it's because they're trying to type as fast as they have thoughts but I really don't know I can only surmise which means guess you know? Some posters find it necessary (and I am guilty of the same thing) of using parentheses instead of adjectives to (aforementionly) describe the thing (or situation or person or whatever). I can understand the use of parentheses (sometimes), however I believe (and this is only MHO) parentheses should be used sparingly like the first time I type Wrongway Regional Medical Center, I will thereafter just type (WRMC) without the parentheses except right after I type Wrongway Regional Medical Center (WRMC) < like that. Speaking of parentheses (and I know this is a long post, so please excuse me), sometimes posters will give a nurse or a patient or a nurse, doctor, ect. (not electroconvulsive therapy but Latin for "and so on") and then say right after they give the name (not their real name) like we're some sort of HIPAA Head Hunters and we're going to track down that patient, nurse or doctor ect. and say, "This member who's name I really don't know, but goes by Davey Do said your name on a post and I think that that's a HIPAA violation so I think he should get in trouble, don't you?" And what's this thing about asking questions? Why can't members just answer the OP on the information given instead of being like some sort of interrogator and drill (or grill, I get those two mixed up, like the Aztec's and the Inca's) them for the answers. It's like their not expecting some sort of Spanish Inquisition (I know- no one expects a Spanish Inquisition) and being run over by a bus, or thrown under a bus like some of my coworkers have done to me! And I'm not being a victim here even though everyone bullies me and I try my best not to wear my Little Lamb Perfume Scent #5 when I go to work on the Pack of Wolves unit (that's what we call the unit where all the older nurses work). Does anybody else have this problem?

1 minute ago, TriciaJ said:

Yeah, but... you did ask "why are women so full of themselves?".  My best guess is the same reason men are.  One caustic dingbat notwithstanding.

Seriously? What would you call someone who instead of being grateful, feels entitled to be angry and so full of themselves that they can hit someone while issuing demands? 

That is not how you encourage someone. I would have left her stranded if it wasn't for the fact that you have to be an idiot to take a tyre of the car to put air into it. Who knows what she would have done next? 

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).

I'm experiencing some cognitive dissonance here.

TriciaJ, Curious- excuse me.

I'll be back tomorrow.

That is, unless my bicycle engine comes in, otherwise, I'll be working on it.

Specializes in Psych, Corrections, Med-Surg, Ambulatory.
5 hours ago, Curious1997 said:

Seriously? What would you call someone who instead of being grateful, feels entitled to be angry and so full of themselves that they can hit someone while issuing demands? 

That is not how you encourage someone. I would have left her stranded if it wasn't for the fact that you have to be an idiot to take a tyre of the car to put air into it. Who knows what she would have done next? 

I am the one who called her a caustic dingbat.  Maybe I misread your post but I thought you were tarring all women with the same brush.  No, I am certainly not sticking up for Madam Ingratitude.

1 hour ago, TriciaJ said:

I am the one who called her a caustic dingbat.  Maybe I misread your post but I thought you were tarring all women with the same brush.  No, I am certainly not sticking up for Madam Ingratitude.

Thank you. But some women absolutely know that they can get away with anything just like some children. In my experience it's always been small tiny women under 5'6" who knows, like my mother who bosses everyone about, but she gets away with it because she's really always right and has that Sloane Ranger accent and attitude. 

Y'all know why I'm here. ?

6 hours ago, Curious1997 said:

Thank you. But some women absolutely know that they can get away with anything just like some children. In my experience it's always been small tiny women under 5'6" who knows, like my mother who bosses everyone about, but she gets away with it because she's really always right and has that Sloane Ranger accent and attitude. 

Hey, I'm only 5'4 and I think my son and his friends said the same thing. ?

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).

Hey- I'm back and no longer cognitively dissonant, merely pleasantly confused. Well, maybe not pleasantly confused, but I'm back.

Welcome into the discussion @NurseBlaq with her popcorn, whose absence was noted and return is hailed.

Speaking of welcoming into the discussion and posting styles, have you ever noticed how some members barge into your apartment that you've rented from allnurses, start loudly giving their opinion to the other party guests, and bossing them around?

Their issues and self-righteous arrogance really comes through in their posts.

I mean, if they don't like or agree with what an invited guests says. why don't they just leave? Or just stay the hell out? It's not like they were invited: "Hey- we're having a good time over here and we would really like your negative presence and request that you crap all over the place!          ♪  Every party needs a pooper, that's why we invited you! ♪

No. They have to uninvitedly proclaim their presence with great authority as if they were the be all and end all and spoil it for the invited guests.

You know?

 

 

 

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