Just gotta vent here!
My last two shifts I've had to deal with one of my patients long-standing family problems.
Basically, my 80 odd year old pts 60 year old son feels like his parents have always liked his sister better.
so yesterday, he came in and yelled at his mother about something - I never heard the full conversation - and I spend the majority of my afternoon calming down my pt, convincing her that she did not need an Ativan to deal with this (then evening shift promptly gave her one to "relax her"), and talking to various family members about the incident.
Then today - the son shows up again.Starts yelling at his mother again - so, heart pounding, I tell him to leave as he is upsetting his mother. Thank God he did. Later, get call from pts husband, thanking me, and then asking how much trouble I was going to get in for doing this. Told him that I would not get into trouble, and if son came back and wouldn't leave we would call security to get him out if necessary. Husband says Thank You.
But my vent : What kind of a**hole comes to the hospital to yell at his mother? Geez people - give me a break here! I've got enough going on without having to play Judge Judy.
Sorry - vent over.