Ohhhhh your a Nurse!?!?

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Oh my...last night was a toughie at my job. See I just became an agency nurse and trying to find my bearings on returning to hospital...lets say it is a re-learning experience big time, but all and I am really enjoying it! (it was just one of those nights...uhggg, like running on a hamster wheel and going no where...).

Well last night a charge nurse for the next shift started ordering me around for various tasks...no probelm I am a team player...so I did them. She was rather rude to me, and spoke down to me quite a bit, but being new I sort of expect that at times...so it didn't phase me that much...more like a hmmmmm oh well type of deal!

Then she caught me at the Pixis machine getting IV set up materials and said "you can't do that!". I turned and said "oh my patient needs and IV, so where do I get the stuff?". She then realized, and I realized...she didn't know I was an RN!

She explained how sorry she was for mistaking me for a CNA, and then was so very supportive and sweet and helpful the rest of the time. Quite a turn around from before.

Like I said, I am a big time believer in teamwork...so this struck me as very inproper indeed. You don't treat CNA's like dirt or maids. Without their kindness and helpfulness our jobs would be a whole heck of a lot tougher!!! They are to be valued and respected...

I didn't say anything, but hmmmmmm...how do you think we should encourage, in a positive way, respect for CNA's and other team members that aren't RN???

Hey Triage

Dave Berry the humorist once said, 'If you're nice to me but mean to the waitress, you're NOT a nice person.'

Papaw John

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The charge nurse, as my mom would say "Showed her true colors"

On the other hand, we have a PCT that is young, really boisterous, and goofs with her favorite nurses. I am a pretty quiet person, I'm friendly but I don't get into the standing arounding gossiping or telling crude jokes like she does; she'l do ANYTHING for her buds, but the other night I asked her to help me do an EKG-pt was confused and combative and spitting-she got this annoyed look on her face and sort of rolled her eyes-then said that she was busy (she was talking to one of her buddy nurses) I just made strong eye contact and nicely said "I completely understand" smiled and walked off.

I too hate people like that and the waitress thing is true. In fact, I have always told my daughter to look at how her dates (when she starts dating...UGH!) treat the wait staff. That will give her an indication of what type of a person they really are.

I just have one question. Do you wear a name badge that shows your title? I thought this was mandatory.

I am an LPN student and I have heard so much of the tension that exists between the RN's and the LPN's. I have also seen it with the RN students at my school when we are on break together. Before I visited this site I never even knew it existed. It has totally disheartened me to think that I will be of less value or treated differently because of my title. I am eventually going to transition to RN. I wanted so badly to become a nurse that I took whatever route I could get to make my dream happen. The bottom line was helping people. I always thought the stress of the job would come from the responsiblility of someone else's life in your hands, and not making mistakes. I didn't know it was more from your work atmosphere and coworkers. I just pray that I will find a place where I can help the most and be valued.

Kim

Oh my...last night was a toughie at my job. See I just became an agency nurse and trying to find my bearings on returning to hospital...lets say it is a re-learning experience big time, but all and I am really enjoying it! (it was just one of those nights...uhggg, like running on a hamster wheel and going no where...).

Well last night a charge nurse for the next shift started ordering me around for various tasks...no probelm I am a team player...so I did them. She was rather rude to me, and spoke down to me quite a bit, but being new I sort of expect that at times...so it didn't phase me that much...more like a hmmmmm oh well type of deal!

Then she caught me at the Pixis machine getting IV set up materials and said "you can't do that!". I turned and said "oh my patient needs and IV, so where do I get the stuff?". She then realized, and I realized...she didn't know I was an RN!

She explained how sorry she was for mistaking me for a CNA, and then was so very supportive and sweet and helpful the rest of the time. Quite a turn around from before.

Like I said, I am a big time believer in teamwork...so this struck me as very inproper indeed. You don't treat CNA's like dirt or maids. Without their kindness and helpfulness our jobs would be a whole heck of a lot tougher!!! They are to be valued and respected...

I didn't say anything, but hmmmmmm...how do you think we should encourage, in a positive way, respect for CNA's and other team members that aren't RN???

I AGREE WITH YOU. PEOPLE SHOULDN'T TREAT OTHER PEOPLE LIKE THAT NO MATTER WHAT TITLE OR POSITION THEY HOLD IN ANY WORKPLACE.

Bravo Zulu to CNA S !!!!!

Thanks for this article. I am an LVN, have been for 30+yrs. It really irritates me when I am looked down on. I worked ICU for 15 yrs. In Ca. they dont seem to recognize us like they did in Texas and Arkansas. I have been told more than once that I'm not even a nurse. Wonder what the patients I took care of in ICU would say about that. I had RN's that would only work with me because they knew I could handle my load and help with theirs. I think its time for me to quit nursing, since I'm not considered one anyway.

I just have one question. Do you wear a name badge that shows your title? I thought this was mandatory.

In the facilities I've been to and the ones where I've thought to inquire- It is mandatory to wear clear and readable ID cards. But... BUT, with the world being as screwy as it is- if a nurse of any lineage of letters behind her name asks not to wear it for safety reasons, then it's just way too easy to look the other way and find some other wrong to right. I think the referred to RN should have had the insight to know in advance who was on her floor. Aren't things like that discussed in pre-shift meetings?

Hey Triage

Dave Berry the humorist once said, 'If you're nice to me but mean to the waitress, you're NOT a nice person.'

Papaw John

LOVE IT!! That is sooooo true...:rolleyes:

Thanks for this article. I am an LVN, have been for 30+yrs. It really irritates me when I am looked down on. I worked ICU for 15 yrs. In Ca. they dont seem to recognize us like they did in Texas and Arkansas. I have been told more than once that I'm not even a nurse. Wonder what the patients I took care of in ICU would say about that. I had RN's that would only work with me because they knew I could handle my load and help with theirs. I think its time for me to quit nursing, since I'm not considered one anyway.

DON'T LEAVE!!! YOU"RE THE ONES I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO LEARNING FROM!!! This may sound silly, but I can't wait to work with an experienced LPN! ANYONE - RN, LPN/LVN - who can put up with some of the stuff I've heard about for as long as some of you have IS DESERVING OF MY RESPECT (unless, of course, the person in question is just a worthless individual, but you know what I mean).

Specializes in Nursing assistant.

I don't mean to be prejudice, but the best people on earth work in housekeeping.

I don't like people like that, just mean for absolutely no good reason at all. Respect should be given to all, and how nice you are to one person versus another shouldn't be decided by what title they hold. CNAs are not running dogs, or maids and are just as important to patient care and recovery as the nurse, doctor or other personnel. I find it very sad and heartbreaking that in this day and age we still have to deal with people like this. With people like that you just give them the biggest smile, bat your lashes, and say okay in your most polite voice ever. Even though sometimes I wish I could give them a piece of my mind and the "let me tell you what I really think about you" line, alas I can't.

Amen to all that's been said. Good patient care doesn't happen without competent CNAs. I've been so blessed to work with so many good nursing assistants. And I hate the word "only"...I'm "only" a CNA, LPN, whatever, really burns my butt, if you'll excuse the expression. We're a team, and no one job is more important than the other on the team!:cheers: Besides, there is no excuse for rude behavior...didn't her mama teach her anything?:rotfl:

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