Published Oct 11, 2009
jrw03282009
139 Posts
I have just been diagnosed with lupus (on Friday actually). I live with pain, fatigue, irratibility, and marked memory issues. I am currently in nursing school, just started in September. I am 2nd in my class and doing really well, loving it actually. I am wondering if it is pointless to continue though. I am not WANTING to give up, please don't get me wrong. I just know the long road ahead of me, both with my illness and with school.
I have a strong husband ready to get behind me and push but also pick me up when I cant take anymore. My support system is strong.
Is there anyone out there that has dealt with what I am fixing to put myself through? I love being a student and the idea of being a nurse. It would crush me to stop now but will it hurt me to keep going?
Please dont thrash me for thinking about quiting.... it will break my heart if I have to. I just need advice :redbeathe
Thank you...
dscrn
525 Posts
I would say, go for it...you really won't know til you try. A strong support system can make a real difference. Has your md mentioned what type of treatment he is planning?? You will need to plan and keep "down days" where you can get much needed rest-that doesn't mean running errands or cleaning house...Good luck to you!
PAERRN20
660 Posts
Check your private messages soon.
I go in next week for a treatment plan. I am doing PT t.i.d. for scoliosis that was an off shot from the lupus (the pain caused me to hold myself incorrectly and now my spine is malformed). I just started that on Friday, too. I am confused by it all. I have been unknowingly dealing with it for over 4 years. It is a relief to know what is wrong now and scary b/c I am unsure of what is going to happen. The only reason why it was discovered is because I went to a new doctor after giving up on my previous ones. My husband went with me to the appt and he was even amazed. It was the first time I had so many questions asked of me and to have a hands on exam with all the blood tests.
IMABSNRN
56 Posts
I work with a superb nurse who has lupus.
Michifura
59 Posts
Don't give up! I am glad to hear you have a strong supportive hubby, this will make a difference. Get a good treatment plan and keep your head up.
The beautiful thing about nursing is there are so any areas and specialties you can work in which will not be so hard on your body.
Best of luck!
rehab nurse
464 Posts
Hi there...I have lupus. Have had it for 10 years now. I've been in nursing for almost 15 years, and it's hard. I am actually unable to work right now d/t health issues...lupus being one of them. Cancer and intractable pain being the other.
If you ever want to chat, feel free to PM me. I'm glad you have support, as I did not when I was dx'd. I don't want to put my whole life out on the public light, so like I said...feel free to PM me if you'd like more info.
Please take care of yourself, rest, eat well. I pray you find a good treatment plan and get the SLE under control. As far as school, I would say continue it. It is not "pointless". There are MANY specialties you can pursue after becoming a nurse, and lupus is controllable with the proper treatment!!! I actually went back to school for a further nursing degree while I had lupus. You can do it!!
JamieLea
2 Posts
I am new to this forum and noticed this post. I am begining nursing school in Fall 2010 and I am looking forward to it. Last night in my microbiology class I started thinking that maybe this field is not for me since I have ITP and on my way to being diagnosed with lupus --I have many of the symptoms and take medication for lupus, just planequil. I guess I just want the reassurance that I will be fine. At this moment I feel great. I workout regularly, haven't had a sick day in 2 years. I guess as long as I feel good - I shouldn't let it stay in the way of my dreams, right?
Thanks for all help and guidance.
I say go for it! Have been diagnosed with SLE for 7 years but have had symptoms for 12 years. I've been a nurse for 2 years. I have to say the medication really makes a huge difference. I am not gonna lie and say it is easy, because it is not, but it is doable. I work part time and that is all I can handle being a floor nurse. Working in an office may be different. That is what my plan is at least. Good luck and private message me if you have any questions!
meluhn
661 Posts
I also work with a nurse who has lupus. She is in her 50s and though it is rough on her, she manages to work full time nites without a good support system.