Nurses are Fleeing the Hospital

Nurses have simply had enough and are walking out of acute care. How far will it go? Have we seen the peak yet? Nurses General Nursing Article

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Here are some conversations that are taking place at hospitals everywhere across the country. Do they sound familiar?

"Did you hear Kim is leaving?”

"Kim !?? Kim in Step down?? Nooo! You don't mean Kim! She's been here forever!”

"Ya! and I hear 2 more step down nurses turned in their notice.”

Nurses left behind while their colleagues and friends grieve the loss. Years, decades, even, of experience walk out the door, leaving those behind to pick up the slack and cope with working with an inexperienced workforce.

Later on at the same hospital, at the evening command center safety huddle, it's reported that 28 nurses are out on leave.

The educators in Staff Development are informed that 26 travelers are coming on Tuesday of this week, and must be onboarded. 

Where are all the nurses going? 

My sister works in a hospital across the country from me and nurses are running out of her hospital as well. "Where are they going?", I ask. "Anywhere", she says. "Just out of here.”

Tipping Point

It's one thing to work hard and pull together for a national emergency. It's another to work hard with no end in sight and to not feel valued. 

COVID was the tipping point. COVID took a stressed-out, unappreciated workforce and pushed it over the edge. Exhaustion coupled with unappreciation equals nurses talking with their feet.

Conversations continue.

"I saw the MedSurg manager taking care of patients this morning!.”

"Seriously, did she even have Pyxis access? She hasn't worked bedside in 8 years! How come the charge nurse isn't taking patients instead?"

"She is! She's charge and has a full load.”

Anger

The boilerpot situation breeds deep frustration and anger...and anger wants a target. Staff who have worked at their hospital day in and day out, month after month, year after year, are orienting travelers making twice as much pay. Meanwhile, staff nurses' phones are blowing up with requests begging them to stay later, come in earlier, and work on their days off.

Nurses are angry at managers and Directors who are seen as out of touch and insensitive. Administration blames managers if their staff leave. "We all know employees leave or stay because of their managers.” Ironically administration rarely asks nurses themselves what it would take for them to stay. 

Brenda, an NP who loves ED medicine, is quitting and going to work in a plastics office because she can no longer tolerate the chaos.

When COVID resurged with the Delta Variant, and the ED staff was stocking tents erected in the parking lot in 108 degree weather, she texted her manager to see about getting some flats of chilled bottled water for the staff.  Her manager texted back she was out getting body work done on her car. 

Nurses are angry when work gets shifted to them from other departments. An out-of-ratio ICU RN caring for 3 ICU level patients with one patient alone on 4 different antibiotics went to the Pyxis only to discover that suddenly this morning, she has to mix and label her own antibiotics. She calls Pharmacy and is told, "It's because we're short-staffed".

Nurses are angry at patients who brought this on themselves. Nurses put their lives on the line once for over a year, but many aren't willing to do it again for people who could have been vaccinated but chose not to.

Lack of Trust

Signs on patient doors say PAPR required for aerosol inducing procedures...what..? We aren't routinely given PAPRs, just N95s! Is the sign wrong? Or is the practice wrong? Are we at risk? Why can't we trust the information we're given?

Nurses are practicing in chaos with conflicting directions and changing guidelines. Discovering that they weren't protected after all. There's distrust in government agencies and hospital administrations. 

Leaving Begets Leaving

"I heard 3 nurses turned in their notice on 7SE.”

"Wow. Maybe I'll quit, too.”Leaving is contagious. It starts as a trickle and ends up a flood. I'm not at all sure it's possible to stop it midstream, but could it have been prevented?

What do you think? Why are nurses quitting?

Specializes in L&D/HIV/ID/OB/GYN Primary Care Adults/Children.

Wow. My 87yo mother says-Unbelievable- as I read aloud your story to her. I would say-get out to maintain your mental health. You’ve been traumatized and the employer will never replace what you’ve lost. And will continue the abuse. I remember once working for high risk OB home health back in the 80’a for only 4 mo. Because as a new hire I watched everyone leave until there was just 2 of us. I was working 72hr/wk. I got out. I hope you do too.

Specializes in "Wound care - geriatric care.
7 hours ago, Cassie Chiccarella said:

 They then post signs that read Heroes work Here which felt like a slap in the face.  

That is my biggest pet peeve with nursing. It reveals how administrators think: you know nurses are dumb, just give them a mug and a tee shirt and they will not notice we're screwing them. The funny and most infuriating is that even the staff, that is non nursing staff and not administrators gang up on nurses too. It is really unfrigginbeliavable. 

SPOT ON Leonardo. Many of us do "get it" but there are ALWAYS the few who tout their disdain for those who speak up as going against the "calling" or "dedication" or other nonsensical junk.

Specializes in Adult Gerontology.
2 hours ago, Retriever5280 said:

SPOT ON Leonardo. Many of us do "get it" but there are ALWAYS the few who tout their disdain for those who speak up as going against the "calling" or "dedication" or other nonsensical junk.

Exactly, this Sainted Selfless Nurse persona is how the administrations get away with the ongoing systemic abuse of the nursing profession. It’s time to stop with the empty platitudes about I’m not in it for the money, I just want to help people etc. It’s gaslighting and it’s manipulative. And every nurse I’ve ever worked with who walked around with their sainted halo attitude was a call off queen or a work shirker. Just stop it already.

Specializes in Adult Gerontology.
2 hours ago, Leonardo Del Toro said:

That is my biggest pet peeve with nursing. It reveals how administrators think: you know nurses are dumb, just give them a mug and a tee shirt and they will not notice we're screwing them. The funny and most infuriating is that even the staff, that is non nursing staff and not administrators gang up on nurses too. It is really unfrigginbeliavable. 

Right now, my employer has me filling my role ( the medical directors NP, I see almost all her patients) , the RN team manager role, and an RN case manager role. They give me the gaslighting hey the team needs you crap that they fall back on every time. When it’s something they need we’re all in it together but when it’s something we need, we are negative or not team players etc. Oh yeah and they sent me a lot of atta boy emails and gave me a recognition award. You want to know what my prize was? A stupid pin. A 25 cent garbage pin like I’m a freaking child looking for worthless trophies. Typical abuser behavior smack you across the face then lovebomb and gaslight with cheap grocery store flowers from the sale bin. Then on the team conference call they bragged about the extra money they are making from being so understaffed. If I was younger I would be out of this profession in a minute.

Specializes in Neurosciences, stepdown, acute rehab, LTC.
2 hours ago, Leonardo Del Toro said:

That is my biggest pet peeve with nursing. It reveals how administrators think: you know nurses are dumb, just give them a mug and a tee shirt and they will not notice we're screwing them. The funny and most infuriating is that even the staff, that is non nursing staff and not administrators gang up on nurses too. It is really unfrigginbeliavable. 

 

1 minute ago, Ohio NP said:

Exactly, this Sainted Selfless Nurse persona is how the administrations get away with the ongoing systemic abuse of the nursing profession. It’s time to stop with the empty platitudes about I’m not in it for the money, I just want to help people etc. It’s gaslighting and it’s manipulative. And every nurse I’ve ever worked with who walked around with their sainted halo attitude was a call off queen or a work shirker. Just stop it already.

OMG guys, YES! don't get me started!!! I don't understand this constant contest of how much people care about others, people bragging about their bleeding hearts. Like, caring is a normal part of being a human and a basic prerequisite to being a nurse. It makes us all look like martyrs. I cant stand this "hero" stuff either from society. They may as well say "people willing to be underpaid and overworked because they are endless fountains of empathy and have no needs of their own work here"

Many excellent people have left nursing due to the pompous martyrs in the field.  Nursing seems stuck in 1950, with managers that believe strongly in Theory X management in which you work from a stance of everyone is lazy and trying to get out of work.  A nurse passed out one day on my unit after missing lunch and OF COURSE NO BREAKS.  We gave her orange juice from the patient's frig and were reprimanded for taking it from the patient supply.  Wow, the frumpy nurse manager with her idiot thinking had no problem discounting the nurse.  Having worked in another career field before this one it was clear my business mind wouldn't be accepted in this nun-like field.  It's time for nursing to grow up, get a business mind, and get rid of the nancy nurses who "answered a calling".  Whatever called them was a mis dial as they are not representative of anything other than major psych diagnoses.

Specializes in Adult Gerontology.
2 hours ago, Retriever5280 said:

Many excellent people have left nursing due to the pompous martyrs in the field.  Nursing seems stuck in 1950, with managers that believe strongly in Theory X management in which you work from a stance of everyone is lazy and trying to get out of work.  A nurse passed out one day on my unit after missing lunch and OF COURSE NO BREAKS.  We gave her orange juice from the patient's frig and were reprimanded for taking it from the patient supply.  Wow, the frumpy nurse manager with her idiot thinking had no problem discounting the nurse.  Having worked in another career field before this one it was clear my business mind wouldn't be accepted in this nun-like field.  It's time for nursing to grow up, get a business mind, and get rid of the nancy nurses who "answered a calling".  Whatever called them was a mis dial as they are not representative of anything other than major psych diagnoses.

Yes and that psych diagnosis in on the DSM V Axis 2 disorders namely borderline personality disorder. It’s insane how many nurses have this issue, and of course that leads to the poor boundaries with patients (seriously why are you facebook friending you patients families hospice nurses!) and the emotionally toxic workplace environments. I also came from another field before, I couldn’t believe how ridiculous healthcare is. It’s like a never ending junior high school, I mean why keep living that? It wasn’t that great the first time around folks.

9 minutes ago, Ohio NP said:

I also came from another field before, I couldn’t believe how ridiculous healthcare is. It’s like a never ending junior high school, I mean why keep living that? It wasn’t that great the first time around folks.

Ditto, though my previous field was a bit like being trapped in an all boys  high school (I was a female in a male dominated industry). I still believe that the guys were much less likely to take each other's work habits, styles, or preferences as a personal insult to their own habits, styles, or preferences. It was a licensed profession too, with heavy responsibility and accountability. 

There was more leeway to have a bad day and just get to it. As long as you did the work part right of course. It was not like they didn't notice, they just didn't seem compelled to comment on it or gang up against it. 

During the pandemic I had this bizarre period of time where I thought if I completed an online MSN program (not the NP concentration) that maybe I could help bring about a better workplace. @Retriever5280 I quit the program in 4 months. The papers they wanted me to produce to meet standard were pure fantasy. Nursing school is bound up in maintaining the "we are the moral, conscience" of healthcare. Well maybe... but I can see why the MBAs are getting in the hospital and not the MSNs. 

 

Specializes in "Wound care - geriatric care.

I'm looking at about 3 more years as a nurse. Thank God! I feel sorry for nurses who are starting their career and have to deal with this hell. Nursing corporations are the worst. They think they have the license to abuse nurses. Because nurses are these "compassionate people" . Don't get me wrong I like nursing but what they put us through is not nursing. Maybe about 10% of it.

Specializes in Customer service.
36 minutes ago, Ohio NP said:

Yes and that psych diagnosis in on the DSM V Axis 2 disorders namely borderline personality disorder. It’s insane how many nurses have this issue, and of course that leads to the poor boundaries with patients (seriously why are you facebook friending you patients families hospice nurses!) and the emotionally toxic workplace environments. I also came from another field before, I couldn’t believe how ridiculous healthcare is. It’s like a never ending junior high school, I mean why keep living that? It wasn’t that great the first time around folks.

Yikes! 

The player pianos and chandeliers in hospital lobbies don't help either, offering an impression to the public that nurses are concierge service.  We've now been denigrated to waitresses with CPR.  I don't mind helping people; I do mind disabling the abled. When a hospital has a unit with a doorbell with mandatory twice daily back and foot massages AND personal chef, I really question this "field" and am confused as to if this is healthcare or a hospital wanting to be the Hilton.  Of course, the patients on that unit pay above and beyond as they are the upper class in the community.  I think nurses working that unit really need to question if they're in nursing or "guest services".  Is nursing a profession or coffee, tea or me?  Makes one wonder.