I need to vent, hopefully you wonderful people can help me.
This has been driving me to the edge of insanity! There is a nurse in my place who does sexually immoral things ON THE JOB and it angers me he still works here!!
Certain CNAs and nurses are jealous of each other now, DON wonders why work doesn't get done on his shift, and there is favoritism here. I cross oceans for the patients and staff but get told I'm not doing enough but this freakin nurse gets told he's doing a great job and is the best. Do I have to put my **** in the nurses to get some respect around here?! And those involved females wonder why they get "used" for sex, it's because YOU HAVE NO SELF RESPECT!! Granting sexual favors is against company policy and I'm tempted to blow the whistle since I'm unappreciated for my hard work but I have no proof.
Have you guys been in this situation before? How did you handle it? Because I'm about to look for another job. Thanks!
Edit: I don't mean to be negative or bring you down but this isbad for work.
Use of the "R"word says it all.......I'm guessing you have no experience working with folks who are intellectually challenged. One can only hope your take away from this conversation includes the fact that you need some, OK, a lot of sensitivity training
Well your first post is a little confusing....I'd like to know how you know these things are going on during company time when in your first post you said you did not have proof of any of this.
If you have another job lined up why are you so bothered by all this if very shortly you will be leaving all this behind you and work in a better inviroment.
Well your first post is a little confusing....I'd like to know how you know these things are going on during company time when in your first post you said you did not have prof of any of this.
If you have another job lined up why are you so bothered by all this if very shortly you will be leaving all this behind you and work in a better inviroment.
You're wondering how this affects me? Well then, when the "team" is developing communication issues because of someones behavior, which I have no control over since I'm not the one sleeping around, then that breeds a negative work environment. And when I stay positive and offer help to other staff they don't reciprocate, this creates bad relationships. When managers have office pets this can be bad for the other staff who are doing their best for the patients but get no positive reinforcement.
Simple idea yes?
Great you have another job. Then tell me what the point of your rant? Do you really need people on the internet to tell you to change jobs, when you are unhappy with the one you have?
And some of you wonder why I would say "retarded." If you read the text it said, "And those ******* females wonder why they get "used" for sex." You can infer that I'm insulting them for their own self destructive behavior. They were getting jealous of each other when they found out they weren't the only ones being pursued. This creates infighting.
I know what you meant by that paragraph. Our issue is with you using the word retarded as an epithet. I have members of my family who have developmental disabilities. In my line of work, there have been times where I've had to advocate for them. There is food in my fridge and a roof over my head because of disabled people. When I hear people insult them, even indirectly, it grinds my gears. That's why I have a low opinion of you.
Sex doesn't bother me, like some of you seem to believe. But if you're doing it ON THE CLOCK, wasting COMPANY TIME and destroying relationships in the process, how is it that this doesn't bother you? So some people can bypass rules but you can't?
Like everyone says, what can you do about it? All you can do is change jobs
I have found a new job already, but not for the reasons you all have said. I recall someone saying that if I found a new job then the staff would be happy to see me leave. Who knows where you get such a rude mentality; I can say without a second thought that I"m not half as rude as you are, in person. I may vent with offensive words over the internet but I never do so in person. I can easily predict your response after this.
If you use offensive worlds in your posts, why are you surprised that people are offended?
Good bye all, type in your insults now. Don't control your tongue, since you're easily angered. I won't be returning anyway!
You're wondering how this affects me? Well then, when the "team" is developing communication issues because of someones behavior, which I have no control over since I'm not the one sleeping around, then that breeds a negative work environment. And when I stay positive and offer help to other staff they don't reciprocate, this creates bad relationships. When managers have office pets this can be bad for the other staff who are doing their best for the patients but get no positive reinforcement.
Simple idea yes?
And some of you wonder why I would say "retarded." If you read the text it said, "And those ******* females wonder why they get "used" for sex." You can infer that I'm insulting them for their own self destructive behavior. They were getting jealous of each other when they found out they weren't the only ones being pursued. This creates infighting.
Sex doesn't bother me, like some of you seem to believe. But if you're doing it ON THE CLOCK, wasting COMPANY TIME and destroying relationships in the process, how is it that this doesn't bother you? So some people can bypass rules but you can't?
I have found a new job already, but not for the reasons you all have said. I recall someone saying that if I found a new job then the staff would be happy to see me leave. Who knows where you get such a rude mentality; I can say without a second thought that I"m not half as rude as you are, in person. I may vent with offensive words over the internet but I never do so in person. I can easily predict your response after this.
Good bye all, type in your insults now. Don't control your tongue, since you're easily angered. I won't be returning anyway!
Well, it seems OP has left in a huff. Apparently our dislike of his use of the word "retarded," especially the fact that he used it to describe sexually active females, means we are an angry mob who can't control ourselves. How can we be so rude? Forget the fact that you, OP, were rude throughout this entire thread. Silly us, we should have known you wouldn't be that rude in person. Good grief.
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Imma guess somebody be trolling tonight.....