New job. Got injured. Fired for unexcused absences during new hire probation period... what did I do wrong?

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Hey everyone.. I was recently let go from my new job in IR. I have about 5 years of experience (ICU and cardiac procedure care - pre/post/intra). Earlier this fall took a new job at another hospital. First week on the job, I experienced a pain I had never felt before - my upper shoulder and neck muscles began contracting out of the blue and continuously. It hurt bad…felt  like a "charley horse" in my shoulder and neck that just wouldn’t stop. I was escorted to from my unit to the ED to get checked out. After the ED PA and MDs saw me, a CT of my neck was ordered right away, and it showed that I had a C5-C6 protrusion.  I was given pain meds and a referral to ortho surgery. By the time I got out of the ED, my shift was over. I returned to work for my next scheduled shift.

I made an appointment as soon as I could with Ortho, on an off day. Ortho doc advised that I not do any sort of strenuous exercise (which was crushing... I am avid backpacker/hiker.. I bike, practice yoga, play tennis, weight lift, run, etc...) and now suddenly could not do anything but light stretching and walks, and was given an order to see PT 3x a week. Being new to the unit, I was transparent about the injury (not the details of the cause... just that it existed….as the cause of the injury was an assault that had happened a couple months back... by an angry family member who was not in their right state of mind… I shared that with the ED and the Ortho doc, but that feels a bit too sensitive to share with my new workplace people). 

Moving forward, I stayed flexible with scheduling. I remained cautious and mindful about my neck while I worked. But I still worked. Per preceptor, I was a hard worker. Even though I was not permitted to exercise, my doc said it was fine that I still worked. So, I continued working per usual: including pushing beds, transferring, carrying / shifting weighty tech machinery around, repositioning patients, wearing lead during procedures, etc… After each shift and on my off days, I focused on self care. I rescheduled and put off PT to accommodate my new job ever changing schedule... so that I be consistent and work with my preceptor, follow her schedule.. and also that I could complete orientation in a timely matter despite the missed days.  

Fast forward ~6 weeks I hurt my lower back at home… Annoying… something about not exercising for that long has made me clumsier I guess… but, NBD. There was a little bruising and a nagging sensation, otherwise felt that it was not that bad. Then the next day I worked ( on a particularly fast moving, short staffed, bustling & busy day ) I ended up hitting the exact same spot on my lower back (on patient bed rail). It hurt at first, but subsided. I shook it off and I kept working. Later that afternoon, I could feel the spot on my lower back swell .. and grow... and it became more painful. I asked a co-worker about it. She took a look and suggested that I get it checked out asap because it looked like a hematoma. I approached my manager, explained what happened, and went to the ED. CT of my lower back confirmed a hematoma. I was given a doctors note and was instructed to take it easy the next few days so that the area can heal and not get worse. I kept my manager updated via text and calling, and immediately provided a copy of the MD note. 

I returned to work a few days later as instructed. I was eager to get back to work and was feeling much better. Near the end of the shift that day, my manager pulled me into the office, and called HR. With me, my manager present, and HR on the phone, HR stated that as a new hire I am on probationary period, and during that that time, it is expected that employees be at their best. The number of unexcused absences has made them feel that I am not a good fit to work there anymore. Reasons were irrelevant... She said that at the end of the day, the number of unexcused absences was concerning, so much so that they felt they could no longer keep me as an employee. I was terminated. Just like that. 

I am still stunned... It's not like I caught a cold or didn't feel like coming to work... It's not like I just went to the ED on a wim and nothing was found... Is this really grounds for termination? Is there any way to fight this? I followed advice of co-workers, I followed MD instructions, I kept my manager updated, and thought that I was doing the best one possibly could in keeping that balance of being a diligent worker and caring for self. Should I have done something different? Is there anything that I can do now? I am really at a loss...

(note: I live and work in VA) 

Specializes in Critical Care.

Thank you everyone for your feedback... really is helpful and appreciated. 

Already looking at other jobs and question came to mind: would it be better to not list this employer on my resume? In between this job and my last position, I moved back home for a time to where family lives (outta state) to help take care of a sick family member who was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. It was during that time at home when assault happened. The police were called by another family member who witnessed it. I did not press charges per request of other family members. Not wanting to worsen the chaos and messiness that already exists in my family (and to save myself from the stress) I decided to just return to VA earlier than originally planned... to create distance from them and to be safe. Shortly after my return to VA, I began job hunting, and got the new position.

Since I was at the new job less than 2 months, wondering if it would be best to leave it off the resume .. If selected for a job interview, I could explain the job gap was simply due to spending time back home to help take care of a sick family member who lives outta state... and just leave it at that. Never been in this situation and am not sure how I feel about it. Explanation of job gap would not be completely untrue... feel that sharing more beyond that would = shooting myself in the foot ? Feel like I just need to prioritize caring for self, do what I need to do to move forward, and gain new employment without getting caught up in the weeds. 

Thoughts? 

I suggest getting your health in order and finding a job with limited physical requirements so you won't have to reinjure yourself or risk missing work. I agree with leaving this place off your resume. Since you're aware of your physical limitations, I suggest stating such, why a physician's notice, if/when the time to reveal the limitations arises.

48 minutes ago, BeatsPerMinute said:

Since I was at the new job less than 2 months, wondering if it would be best to leave it off the resume .. If selected for a job interview, I could explain the job gap was simply due to spending time back home to help take care of a sick family member who lives outta state... and just leave it at that.

Wouldn't be prudent. All it would take was a credit check (yes they do those) and then not only would you be a person who calls off too much but also a liar. Optics only...not really how I view you. Frankly, I would be honest but detail limited. You unfortunately got hurt twice, communicated appropriately, were evaluated as you should have been and missed minimal work. You already have an established work history and you can use that to show this was uncharacteristic of you. You are now completely healed and ready to jump in and be "the best employee EVER"! ?

You must take care of YOURSELF. Appears you have a serious neuro/ortho condition. Put nursing on hold.. figure out what is really going.

 

 Best wishes.

Specializes in Critical Care.
28 minutes ago, Wuzzie said:

Wouldn't be prudent. All it would take was a credit check (yes they do those) and then not only would you be a person who calls off too much but also a liar. Optics only...not really how I view you. Frankly, I would be honest but detail limited. You unfortunately got hurt twice, communicated appropriately, were evaluated as you should have been and missed minimal work. You already have an established work history and you can use that to show this was uncharacteristic of you. You are now completely healed and ready to jump in and be "the best employee EVER"! ?

I feel like, with this, we're entering a gray area. I have been working since I was 15 years old. Everything from babysitting, cleaning houses, farm work, gardening/landscaping, fast food service, cashiering, piercing ears, receiving shipments at department stores, working at mall kiosks, clothing stores... occasionally took on seasonal gigs to help pay for nursing school. Shoot, there was one season of my life where I was technically employed at three different places at the mall I worked at. Was a lot to keep up with (and with me having ADHD, that does NOT come naturally to me).. but I did it. After nursing school I actually took on another nurse job, however, since it's completely different from what actually want to do, I generally leave it off my resume. 

Kinda got side tracked there sorry... I guess, with all that, my point is that no one lists every single job that they have ever had. And that doesn't make them a liar. IF I was called out on something like that (potential employer for some reason really felt like I was giving a false representation of self, or hiding something) - would it not be better to wait and see if that scenario even plays out and THEN fill in the details? (Still limiting whilst keeping focus on what you said: reminding them of the established work history; situation was outta character; I took care of things and am ready to work now). Would it not be unreasonable to consider it irrelevant as it is not something I wanna pursue after all, was still on orientation, worked less than two months there... comparing and considering that my last employer had me for five years? 

I want to reassure you though that I am not dismissing your point by any means - I am reading, reflecting, and sharing back with what I am uncertain about. I don't believe that you're wrong. I see youre trying to help and offered a scenario that very well could happen. It does give me some more things to consider and think about... I guess personally feel like maybe I should take one step at a time over fortune-telling too much, and allow that to prevent me from trying? Or maybe I do not have enough experience to really understand that the scenario you presented is a very real thing and happens regularly enough that I should worry about it?

Also, Im trying to avoid that whole "what If this?" and "what if that?" sorta game... which for me leads to overthinking / worrying / inaction. Trying to sort through what and how I should prepare vs what is unlikely to happen I guess. I hope that I am not missing something in your message and that my reply makes sense. Again, thank you for your input and tips! 

Specializes in Critical Care.
22 minutes ago, Been there,done that said:

You must take care of YOURSELF. Appears you have a serious neuro/ortho condition. Put nursing on hold.. figure out what is really going.

 

 Best wishes.

Feeling the pressure to get back to work asap... Assault happened and that caused an initial injury.. from there experienced pain, and I grew weaker, clumsier... and just have had some bad luck. No evidence of something serious...

Do need to hear and be reminded that its OK to take care of self first. So, thank you ? 

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.
10 minutes ago, BeatsPerMinute said:

Kinda got side tracked there sorry... I guess, with all that, my point is that no one lists every single job that they have ever had. And that doesn't make them a liar.

I certainly do list every single NURSING job I've ever held when I apply for a new job. Most job applications require/request that. As a hiring manager, if I saw that someone left off a job FROM WHICH THEY WERE FIRED, then it would seem to me like they were being intentionally deceptive.

Specializes in Critical Care.

I've never seen a job description require that I must list every single nursing position ever held (aside from government jobs). Is that really an issue? In my experience, tailoring a resume, one that best shows off how an individual would be a great fit for the position listed, is the best way to capture a potential employers attention and get an interview... and that also, a resume with many words and little white space is glazed over... That is what I have learned and heard from others, anyway. But, things are always changing and I could be totally wrong. 

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

Welp, don't know what to tell you. You clearly do not agree with those of us who suggest it's a bad idea to omit the job from your resume. I'm just saying, a simple "I wasn't able to complete orientation due to some health issues that have since been resolved" would answer any questions, without giving the appearance that you're being deceptive or evasive.

18 minutes ago, BeatsPerMinute said:

I've never seen a job description require that I must list every single nursing position ever held (aside from government jobs). Is that really an issue?

Every single job application I've filled out has a box to check where it asks if you were ever fired from a position. If you check "no" and the hiring manager finds out that that isn't true I can pretty much guarantee their first thought isn't going to be you must have had a good reason to not tell the truth. 

Specializes in ER.

I would word it that, while orienting to the new job, you were injured and weren't able to complete orientation. Something along those lines.

It's not that you are failing, it was just that that particular facility didn't want to risk a brand new employee, who was needing some time off to heal. Another hospital might feel differently.

I would not try to assign blame, but voice your understanding of their position.

Specializes in Critical Care.
22 minutes ago, klone said:

Welp, don't know what to tell you. You clearly do not agree with those of us who suggest it's a bad idea to omit the job from your resume. I'm just saying, a simple "I wasn't able to complete orientation due to some health issues that have since been resolved" would answer any questions, without giving the appearance that you're being deceptive or evasive.

There's nothing about my situation that I have to be proud of. But I can learn from this experience...  I will not learn anything if I just choose to accept every single person's comment here as truth. Nor will I learn anything if I am too afraid to share that I don't understand. I won't learn anything if I don't ask questions, ask for clarity, for follow up. 

I have a very different experience from you, and it's going to take some work to wrap my head around and understand those different experiences, thoughts and ideas. Not running from it - am leaning into that. Am trying to create a bridge between opposite ideas and own experiences so that I can truly understand.

Please keep in mind that it really is easier to just say nothing to the replies that I do not agree with or don't understand.  Each time that I reply to someone with a very different point of view - even when I state that I could be wrong, or maybe don't have the understanding or experience, or ask for clarity - I am choosing to put myself at risk to receive negative feedback. I realize that, but for learning / growings sake, need to do it anyway... and that's hard, especially right now. 

 

1 hour ago, Wuzzie said:

Every single job application I've filled out has a box to check where it asks if you were ever fired from a position. If you check "no" and the hiring manager finds out that that isn't true I can pretty much guarantee their first thought isn't going to be you must have had a good reason to not tell the truth. 

True. That makes sense. Will need to take that into consideration too. Thank you 

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