Hi all,
I need some advice and apologize in advance if this is a long post.
I've wanted to be nurse since I was 19. I started nursing school 7 years ago and didn't continue because I had my youngest child. I went through my divorce a little over a year later, and then because I had to support 3 kids on my own and had no family and friends here (we'd moved to Illinois to be closer to his family, and he had isolated me from my family and made it such hell on me if I made friends that I just didn't bother anymore.. yes, it was a very bad situation) but couldn't move out of state because of our joint parenting agreement, and so I thought for a long time that I may not be able to become a nurse at least until they were teenagers or maybe not ever. I still took a class here and there to finish up my prereqs, when I could, just in case.
Fast forward 5 years, and I've been with my SO for 3.5 years and between him and my family's help (they've helped financially), and some student loans, I've gone back and am graduating in May. I've wanted this so much for so long... now I'm almost there. And suddenly there is this:
I feel like I don't even want to be a nurse anymore. I mean, I love learning about all of it, and at the end of clinicals I'm in a great mood, but I always dread going. Every week I dread going to clinicals. Its gotten less and less as I've gotten more comfortable, but I still never "look forward" to going. I don't know if its because its med/surg which I really don't enjoy much or have alot of interest in (though I started off hating it in the beginning, and now I feel like I could work there- I wouldn't love it, but it would be ok) or because I still am learning and not comfortable, or if its because its just stressful being with an instructor, feeling like you are bothering the nurses and patients, or what. Maybe I'll feel better when its my job, and I"m making money and am somewhat more independent... I don't know. My SO says he thinks its completely normal and that its because I've done nothing but eat, sleep and breathe nursing for 2 years. I'm just basically feeling like "What if I've gone through all of this and then hate it?" I kind of feel like maybe its just because I'm close to the end and now its getting real and I'm just nervous about the whole thing. Is this normal? Did anyone else experience anything like this as they got near the end of school?