Published Nov 12, 2003
FranEMTnurse, CNA, LPN, EMT-I
3,619 Posts
Modern nursing--What's respect?
How it used to be--Thank you, nurse
Modern nursing--Administration - You do what you're told, and no backtalk!
How it used to be--Administration - Thank you for bringing up that issue. We'll be sure to take care of it.
Modern nursing--Administration - Remember, the customer is always right.
How it used to be--Administration - Remember, the nurse is right until proven wrong.
Modern nursing--You're getting more patients. There are too many out sick already.
How it used to be--Since we're short on staff today, I'll help you out.
Modern nursing--He/she thinks he's/she's Mr/Ms perfect. Well, let me tell you a thing or two about him/her.
How it used to be--Do you need help? I have some free time.
Modern nursing--You are not allowed to attend your award dinner, because you're being mandated to work a double. (Something that I actually witnessed.) The nurse worked a double.
How it used to be--Of course you may have that evening off so you can attend that special function.
Modern nursing--Get with it, Nursie, or whoever you are. And DO NOT take time to pee. You have too much to do.
How it used to be--Nurse relieving herself in the bathroom, "Ahhh!"
Modern nursing--Administration - When the insurance companies say jump, you need to ask, "How high?"
How it used to be--Administration - The health insurance agencies did not question nurse/patient care. The company's philosophy, "If the doctor ordered it, then it's needed. No problem, we'll pay.
Modern nursing--I'm going to sue the pants off of you, the doctor, and this hospital!
How it used to be--I understand. Everyone makes a mistake now and then.
Modern nursing--Doctor - Hey, you! What do you mean, doing that? Don't you dare bother me. You solve that problem yourself!
How it used to be--Doctor - Okay, I'll be right there nurse.
Too many people today are ready to sue at the drop of the hat. Instead of working for their income, they'd rather sit on their you know whats and get easy money from someone else.
The insurance companies run most hospitals, so the hospitals and staff bend over to please their clients.
How it used to be--People and insurance companies earned their keep, they also gave a helping hand when needed.
This is my theory, and I'm sticking to it!
purplemania, BSN, RN
2,617 Posts
I don't believe nurses ever commanded respect from everyone because it is perceived as a servant's role by some. My grandmother was a nurse and her tales sound a lot like ours. Some people cannot be nice, no matter what.
SmilingBluEyes
20,964 Posts
i agree w/purple. And there are many among us right here who feel we should not enter the profession unless "called to it"....
that is one problem in nursing. we are expected to be Florence or Mother Theresa, demanding nothing along the way.
wrong.
agent
777 Posts
Another one of these posts..
I would really sincerely love to know, what do you propose nurses do about it to start to change things?
Complaining will get you nowhere, I don't mean to be harsh its just true.
I work for a large corporation right now and have been through my fair share of politics. I know that administrations only see complianing as a further sign of weakness and inability. Their way of dealing with whining and complaining is to knuckle down.
Isn't that what has been happening to nurses?
welp agent what are YOUR answers.
and why can't people vent here.
WHEN and IF you enter nursing, THEN tell me what/how to behave or think as a nurse, ok?
Thank YOU.
live4today, RN
5,099 Posts
Originally posted by Frances LeMay
Fran," the customer is always right" is what ticks me off the most!
In our country, our law says people should be treated as if they are "innocent until proven guilty"..............well, that is how it use to be because today's society treats people as if they are already guilty and must be proven innocent by none other than "people with a bad attitude".
Hellllllo Nurse, BSN, RN
2 Articles; 3,563 Posts
Originally quoted by SmilingBluEyes:
"welp agent what are YOUR answers.
Thank YOU."
Isn't is amazing that people who aren't even nurses yet think they know the scoop?
That's just like when people who don't have kids think they know how to raise them and give out parenting advice.
(BTW, I don't have kids and don't presume to know how to raise them).
agent:rolleyes:
4loveoflife
23 Posts
I still can't get past the fact that you refer to patients as "customers". That is alarming to me for some reason.
Nurse89
112 Posts
Originally posted by Frances LeMay Modern nursing--What's respect?How it used to be--Thank you, nurse Modern nursing--I'm going to sue the pants off of you, the doctor, and this hospital!How it used to be--I understand. Everyone makes a mistake now and then. Too many people today are ready to sue at the drop of the hat. Instead of working for their income, they'd rather sit on their you know whats and get easy money from someone else. The insurance companies run most hospitals, so the hospitals and staff bend over to please their clients.How it used to be--People and insurance companies earned their keep, they also gave a helping hand when needed. This is my theory, and I'm sticking to it!
Great thread Frances
without quoting your whole thread..these are some of the reasons I left hospital nursing, besides what it was doing to my back
back to the original thread, yes, things have changed. I have been a nurse for almost 15 years and the changes are incredible. I still enjoy nursing, but I sure enjoyed it more back then
the mad face is not what i meant to display...it's more of a sad frown
Originally posted by agent Another one of these posts.. I would really sincerely love to know, what do you propose nurses do about it to start to change things? Complaining will get you nowhere, I don't mean to be harsh its just true. I work for a large corporation right now and have been through my fair share of politics. I know that administrations only see complianing as a further sign of weakness and inability. Their way of dealing with whining and complaining is to knuckle down. Isn't that what has been happening to nurses?
yes agent, another one of these threads...if you haven't even begun your nursing career how can you be so critical of us nurses?
so... have you initiated any actions at your large corporation, if so, how are things going??
karbyr
89 Posts
I am heading towards my 20th year as a nurse and I agree, it ain't what it used to be (sorta like the old gray mare)..........I graduated the same year that DRG's came out.......they weren't real evident as yet at that time. I believe that throughout the eighties, health care was commandeered by the lawyers...........when they got done with us, the accountants stepped in...............I can't really decide which has been worse for us or our patients...........so, lets see, health care in the U.S. is now being run by groups informally known as sharks and bean counters..........and the public is just becoming aware that there's a crisis????? One of the few strategies that I have actually come to appreciate (slowly)..............are the docs who don't accept insurance. They bill the patient direct and the patient bills the insurance. Let enough of the public get burned with that and maybe they will start putting some pressure on their insurance companies..............unfortunately, nursing is so damn dependant in so many ways, that its only when the docs do something drastic like that that we may see some side benefits..........eventually.